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Izinja njengoMthombo woLutsha kubantu abadala

Ngoku iqinisekisiwe: Izazinzulu kwisikolo sezilwanyana eCalifornia zafumanisa ukuba abantu abadala abanenja basebenza ngakumbi, banxibelelana ngakumbi kwaye babelane ngakumbi nabo babangqongileyo malunga namava kunye neziganeko zangoku. Ngaphandle kwezi zibonelelo, amakhaya amaninzi ahlala phantsi kunye namakhaya abongikazi asathandabuza ukuvumela izinja njengezilwanyana zasekhaya. Nangona kunjalo, ezinye iindawo eziphezulu sele zibonile iziphumo ezilungileyo zabahlobo abanemilenze emine kubantu abadala kwaye bavumela abahlali babo ukuba beze nabahlobo babo abancinci okanye babathenge.

Izinja, njengabantu, zizidalwa ezihlala zifuna kwaye zinike uthando nengqalelo. Abantu abadala baziva bethandwa kwaye befunwa kwaye oku kunokuthintela ubulolo obusoloko bufunyanwa ekwaluphaleni. Ngokunyamekela inja yonke imihla, inkqubo eqhelekileyo yemihla ngemihla inokugcinwa, kwaye ukuhambahamba kuthetha ukuba abantu abadala bafanelekile kwaye bakhuthele kwaye basebenzise rhoqo emoyeni omtsha.

Ngapha koko, abantu abadala abanenja banonxibelelwano olungcono kwinyani. Abantu abadala abangenayo inja, ngakolunye uhlangothi, bahlala bekhumbula ixesha elidlulileyo. Ukuhlalisana kwakhona kwenziwa lula ngabahlobo abanemilenze ethandekayo ethandekayo: Abantu bavula ngokulula kwaye bangene kwincoko nabanye abanini bezinja kunye nabamelwane, umzekelo. Ngaphandle kwenja, oku ngokuqhelekileyo akunakwenzeka. Nangona kunjalo, izinja kunye neenkosi kufuneka zihambelane ngokweminyaka yobudala. Injana edlalayo, edlamkileyo inokuboyisa abantu abadala - ngokufanelekileyo, isilwanyana kunye nobudala bomntu kunye.

Iinzuzo ezininzi zibonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba izinja zokutyebisa zimela ntoni kubantu abadala kunye namakhaya omhlalaphantsi. Yaye nangona mhlawumbi kuya kuthabatha ixesha ngaphambi kokuba inkqubela ifikelele ekugqibeleni, inye into ecacileyo: ikamva kumakhaya abantu abadla umhlala-phantsi nakumakhaya abalupheleyo lelo “mhlobo osenyongweni womntu”!

Ava Williams

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Molo, ndinguAva Ndibhale ngobungcali iminyaka engaphezu kwe-15. Ndisebenza ngokukhethekileyo ekubhaleni izithuba zeblogi ezifundisayo, iiprofayili zohlobo, uphononongo lwemveliso yokhathalelo lwesilwanyana, kunye nempilo yezilwanyana zasekhaya kunye namanqaku okhathalelo. Ngaphambi nangexesha lomsebenzi wam njengombhali, ndichithe malunga neminyaka eyi-12 kumzi mveliso wokhathalelo lwezilwanyana zasekhaya. Ndinamava njengomphathi we-kennel kunye nomkhweli oqeqeshiweyo. Ndikwakhuphisana nezinja zam kwimidlalo yezinja. Ndikwanazo neekati, iihagu, nemivundla.

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