UMary Allen
Ngaba ikati yakho ifuna ukutya kuphela xa ukufutshane? Kungcono xa umphulula? Emva koko inokuba yiloo nto iingcali zibiza ngokuba yi "Affection Eater".
“Musa ukuyiphazamisa inja xa usitya!” – eli binzana abantu abaninzi abakhule nenja endlwini baqhelene. Oku kuyinyaniso nakwizinja. Ngapha koko, banokukhawuleza babe ndlongondlongo xa bevakalelwa kukuba kufuneka bakhusele ukutya kwabo. Ikati yakho, kwelinye icala, inokuyonwabela ingqalelo ngelixa isitya.
Isizathu: Iikati zibizwa ngokuba yi "Affection Eaters". Ithetha: Udinga inkampani ngelixa usitya, abanye bade bafune ukufunxwa okanye baphile ukuze batye ngokurhangqa isitya sokutya. Kodwa oko akusoloko kusebenza – kwaye hayi kwikati nganye.
Amaxesha amaninzi amathupha evelvet asabela kwindawo entsha, umzekelo, ngenxa yentshukumo okanye ngenxa yokuba isilwanyana okanye iqabane lomntu lifile.
Le mfuno mhlawumbi inemvelaphi yayo kubomi bokuqala beekiti. "Iikati ezininzi zikhula zityiswa ngumama wazo kwaye zisetyenziselwa ukuba nohlobo oluthile lokukhusela xa zisitya," kuchaza uDkt Marci K. Koski, ingcali yokuziphatha kwekati, uxelele "I-Dodo".
Ke ikati yakho inokutya ngendlela ekhululekileyo
Ngamanye amaxesha akunakwenzeka kubomi bemihla ngemihla ukuba ikati ifuna ukutya kuphela kwinkampani. Yiyo loo nto unokuzama ukunika ikati yakho ukhuseleko oluninzi – ukuze itye ikhululekile ngaphandle kwakho.
UGqr. Koski, ngoko, ucebisa ukuseka inkqubo yemihla ngemihla kunye nekati yakho. Ngemidlalo, amaxesha amiselweyo okutya, kunye nemisebenzi etyebisayo, uyaqinisekisa ukuba ikati yakho iziva ikhuselekile kufutshane nayo.
Ngethuba lokuqala kwikhaya elitsha, unokuvumela ikati yakho ihlale kwindawo encinci, "ekhuselekileyo". Ikati kufuneka ifumane yonke into eyidingayo kuyo: ibhokisi yenkunkuma, ukutya, amanzi, amathoyizi, kunye nombhede wekati, omele ube kude nebhokisi yenkunkuma ngokusemandleni. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba uhlale kunye nekati yakho rhoqo kwaye ubonise uthando lwakho kubo. Ukushukuma kunye nemidlalo esebenzisanayo ziindlela ezilungileyo zokunciphisa uxinzelelo kwikiti.
Itya Malini Ikati Yakho?
Kukwabalulekile ukubeka iliso elibukhali kwindlela ikati etya ngayo. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka usoloko umtyisa isixa esimiselweyo ngamaxesha amiselweyo. Le kuphela kwendlela yokwazi ukuba itya nini kwaye kangakanani ikati yakho - kwaye ingaba ngokukhawuleza inomdla ongaphezulu okanye omncinci.
Kuphephe ukufumana ukutya kubi kwaye ucoce isitya emva kokusetyenziswa ngakunye. Kuba iikati ziyathanda ukutya kwaye zixabisa ukutya okutsha. Ezinye iikati azithandi izitya zokutya ezimxinwa kakhulu okanye ezinzulu kangangokuba amabhovu azo abethe. Isitya esinzulu okanye ipleyiti inokuba lukhetho olungcono. Ukongezelela, ezinye iikati zikhetha ukutya ukutya okudikidiki.
Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba ukuncamathela kwekati yakho kunokubangela impilo, okanye ukuba akasatyi kufutshane nawe, kufuneka umenze axilongwe ukuba ukwicala elikhuselekileyo.