Umyalelo weSigqibo: Uncedo oluBalulekileyo kwiNja

Thina banini bezinja sinomyalelo kuyo yonke into - kodwa ngaba ngokwenene usebenza kunye nomyalelo wokuqhawula? Uninzi lwenu luya kube luvile ngayo, kodwa bambalwa kakhulu abalusebenzisayo – ubuncinane luluvo olufumanayo xa ujonga iipaki zezinja.

Uncedo olubalulekileyo kwiNja

Ngoncedo lomyalelo wesisombululo, ubonisa inja yakho ukuba yenze ntoni kwaye ixesha elingakanani. Inika umqondiso othi: “Ngoku ungahamba ngokukhululekileyo kwakhona.” Logama nje umyalelo wakho ungasonjululwanga, kufuneka ahlale okanye angqengqe. Akanakugqiba xa kuphelile, wenza!

Ukungqinelana kuyafuneka

Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokusebenza kunye neqela labaqhankqalazi, oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka ube nesazela kwaye - njengesiqhelo kuqeqesho lwezinja - ukuba ungaguquguquki. Ngenxa yokuba kufuneka ucime yonke imiyalelo: Ukuba umbizela kuwe, uyamgxotha kwakhona ngomyalelo wakho ukuqhubeka ukubaleka, etc. Ukuba uyazi umthumele kwingobozi yakhe, ngoko ke nawe umvumele ukuba ashiye indawo yakhe kwakhona.

Akusoloko kulula, kodwa kufanelekile! Oku kuya kwenza unxibelelwano lwakho lube lula kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, lula kwinja kuba akufuneki "iqikelele" ukuba umyalelo uyasebenza imizuzu emi-2 okanye ikota yeyure.

“Hlala!” yi (Phantse) Ayibalulekanga

Abaninzi basebenza kunye negama elithi "hlala!", Elihloselwe ukubonisa inja ukuba ihlale kule ndawo ngoku. Ewe, oku kukwayindlela elungileyo - kodwa awukayixeleli inja yakho ukuba kufuneka ihlale ixesha elingakanani apho. Kule meko, kuseyinja ethatha umyalelo - okanye ubuncinci ibuze kwaye ikucele ukuba uhlale kunye neyesibini "Hlala!".

Ngomyalelo wokuqhawula, ngakolunye uhlangothi, yonke into icacile: ufuna into kwaye ude uthethe ngenye indlela, umyalelo wakho uyasebenza. Inqaku!

Faka isindululo soMyalelo

• Khetha ixesha lakho ngononophelo. Kufuneka ibe ligama ongaqheleki ukulisebenzisa xa usebenza nenja yakho: “Kulungile,” “Phakamisa,” “Baleka”…
• Kuyo yonke imiyalelo enxulumene nokuhlala kwindawo enye, sebenza ngamanyathelo amancinci kakhulu. Ekuqaleni, imizuzu embalwa yanele, kunye nezinja ezincinci kunye nemizuzwana. Yiloo ndlela kuphela oya kuba nethuba lokuphakamisa umyalelo wakho ngokwenene.
• Zijonge ngeliso elibukhali: ngaba ngokwenene uzithatha zonke iiodolo? Ekuqaleni, cela iqabane lakho okanye umntu omaziyo osuka epakini yezinja ukuba naye aqinisekise ukuba unika umyalelo wakho wokupheliswa rhoqo kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, ukukhumbuza ngayo.