UMary Allen
Xa iikati zihlala zitsibela etafileni nakwikhawuntara yasekhitshini, ayicaphukisi nje kuphela, ikwayingozi. Isitovu esishushu, izityalo zasekhitshini ezinetyhefu, iimela ezibukhali zizizathu nje ezimbalwa zokuba kutheni i-velvet yethu enomdla ingenandawo kwiindawo ezithile ekhitshini.
Ngaphandle koku, okanye ngokuchanekileyo ngenxa yale nto, iikati ezininzi zendlu ziphantse zatsalwa ngomlingo kwitafile kunye nekhawunta yekhitshi. Akulula ukwahlukana nomkhwa wokutsiba owalelweyo. Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa malunga nendlela yokwenza kucace kwikati yakho ukuba uhambo oluya kwifenitshala yasekhitshini alufanelekanga.
Lunyula iikati ukusuka ekutsibeni etafileni: ngokukhawuleza nangokungaguquguqukiyo
Umgaqo obalulekileyo osisiseko kwi uqeqesho ikati kukuba: Musa ukwenza ngaphandle. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba awufuni ukuba ikati yakho igxume etafileni, ungamvumeli ukuba ahambe nayo kube kanye. Endaweni yokukhwaza nokuthethisa, ukungaguquguquki yinto eqhelekileyo. Isandi esikhulu umyalelo "Hayi!" kwaye ukususwa etafileni kufuneka ngokukhawuleza kulandele naluphi na uhambo lwabo olungekho mthethweni.
Qinisekisa ukuba ikati yakho ayilingeka kakhulu ukuba imenze izinto zibe lula. Isangweji yesoseji emnandi inokuba sisizathu sokuba eyona kati iziphethe kakuhle itsibe etafileni. Beka igrosari kunye nentsalela kwaye, ukuba awukho ekhaya, vala ucango lwasekhitshini ukuze isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya singazenzi sikhululekile kwikhawuntara yasekhitshini ngeli xesha - kungenjalo ikati yakho yendlu ayinakuze ikuqonde ukuvalwa.
Amaqhinga ambalwa
Iikati azizithandi izinto ezothusayo, kodwa zinokuzilindela ukuba zihlala zitsiba etafileni. Ikhawuntara emanzi ayikhululeki kumathupha ekati njengendawo yokusebenza egqunywe ngefoyile yealuminiyam okanye iphephandaba.
Ngethamsanqa elincinci, uya koyika kangangokuba angabi nabuganga bokutsibela kwisiqwenga sefanitshala esalelweyo okwesibini. Ibhotile yokutshiza yeentyatyambo, ezaliswe ngamanzi kwaye inike ikati uloyiko olumanzi rhoqo xa itsiba, krwela “Hayi!” icace kwaye inokuba luncedo.