UMary Allen
Ndiyifundisa njani inja yam ukuhlala?
Indlela yokuqeqesha ukuhlala?
Kutheni ungahlali nje emsebenzini?
Imibuzo phezu kwemibuzo! Ufuna nje inja yakho ihlale ihleli okomzuzwana.
Oko kubonakala kulula kakhulu kuwe kunokubhida inja yakho. Ukulinda ixeshana ungashukumi yinto izinja aziyiqondi ngokwendalo.
Ukuze ukwazi ukuvumela inja yakho ukuba ilinde yodwa imizuzu embalwa ngaphandle kokuyiqokelela kamva, kufuneka uyifundise ukuhlala.
Senze isikhokelo sesinyathelo-nge-nyathelo esiya kukuthatha kunye nenja yakho ngesandla kunye ne-paw.
Ngamafutshane: hlala phantsi, hlala! – Yiloo ndlela esebenza ngayo
Ukufundisa injana ukuba ihlale kunokuba yinto ekhathazayo.
Iimpuphu ezincinci zihlala zifuna ukuya kwindawo ethile kwaye impumlo sele isekhoneni elilandelayo.
Apha uya kufumana isishwankathelo sendlela ongaziqhelanisa ngayo ukuhlala nenja yakho.
- Yenza inja yakho idlale "phantsi."
- Phakamisa isandla sakho kwaye unike umyalelo othi "hlala".
- Ukuba inja yakho ihlala phantsi, yinike unyango.
- Mcele ukuba abuye athi "Kulungile" okanye "Hamba."
Fundisa inja yakho ukuba ihlale - kusafuneka uyigcine loo nto engqondweni
Ukuhlala ngumyalelo ongenzi ngqiqo kwinja yakho ekuqaleni.
Ngokwesiqhelo kufuneka enze okuthile aze afumane ukutya – ngoku ngequbuliso kufuneka angenzi nto aze afumane ukutya.
Ukungenzi nto kunye nokungqengqa kubeka iimfuno ezinkulu ekuzithibeni kwenja yakho. Ke ngoko, musa ukuyigqithisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo koqeqesho.
Izinja zifixiza
Ukuba inja yakho ayikwazi ukuhlala phantsi ngelixa uqhuba ukuhlala, kufuneka umgcine exakekile.
Dlala naye kancinci, hamba uhambe okanye uzilolonge elinye iqhinga.
Kuphela xa inja yakho ilungele ukumamela izolile ungaphinda uzame.
Kuhle ukwazi:
Ukuba uqala "kwindawo" kukho ithuba eliphezulu kakhulu lokuba inja yakho ilale phantsi. Ukuvuka kuthatha ixesha elininzi apho sele usabela.
Inja ibaleka ngasemva endaweni yokungqengqa
Ukungenzi nto kunzima kwaye kuchasene noko siqhele ukukufuna kwizinja zethu.
Kule meko, qala ngokucotha kakhulu nenja yakho.
Nje ukuba alale phantsi kwaye afumane umyalelo othi "hlala", linda nje imizuzwana embalwa kwaye umvuze.
Emva koko wandise ixesha ngokukhawuleza.
Emva kwexesha ungabuyela umva iimitha ezimbalwa okanye ushiye igumbi.
Ukuba inja yakho ibaleka emva kwakho, uyibuyisela kwindawo yayo yokulinda ngaphandle kokuphawula.
Ukungaqiniseki
Ukulala wedwa akukruquli nje kuphela, kukwenza ube sesichengeni.
Ukuma kubiza inja yakho ixesha elixabisekileyo ebingayi kuba nalo xa ihlaselwa.
Ke ngoko, soloko uziqhelanisa kwindawo ezolileyo nesele iyiqhelile inja yakho.
Ukwahluka kokuhlala
Nje ukuba inja yakho iqonde umyalelo othi "hlala", ubonyusa ubunzima.
Phosa ibhola kwaye umenze alinde, baleka ujikeleze inja yakho okanye ubeke ukutya phambi kwayo.
Ukufundisa inja ukuba ihlale noMartin Rütter - iingcebiso ezivela kwingcali
UMartin Rütter naye ucebisa ukuba ahlale ehamba kude nenja ngasemva.
Ngale ndlela inja yakho iya kuqaphela ukuba usekunye naye kwaye unokusabela ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyavuka.
Ingaba iza kuthatha ixesha elingakanani…
… de inja yakho iwuqonde umyalelo othi “hlala”.
Ekubeni inja nganye ifunda ngezinga elahlukileyo, umbuzo wokuba kuthatha ixesha elingakanani unokuphendulwa nje ngokungacacanga.
Kuthatha ixesha elide izinja ezininzi ukuqonda ukuba akufanelekanga ukuba zenze nantoni na
Malunga neeseshini zoqeqesho ezili-15 zemizuzu eli-10-15 nganye ziqhelekile.
Imiyalelo yenyathelo ngalinye: Fundisa inja ukuba ihlale
Imiyalelo eneenkcukacha ngenyathelo iya kulandela kungekudala. Kodwa kuqala kufuneka wazi ukuba zeziphi izitya onokuzifuna.
Izitya ezifunekayo
Ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna iziphambeko.
Ukuba inja yakho inokuhlala kwaye ufuna ukwandisa ubunzima, ungasebenzisa kwakhona amathoyizi.
Imiyalelo
Uvumela inja yakho "indawo!" Yithathe.
Phakamisa isandla sakho kwaye unike umyalelo othi "Hlala!"
Linda imizuzwana embalwa.
Nika inja yakho impatho.
Yenza inja yakho iphakame kwakhona ngokuthi "Kulungile" okanye omnye umyalelo.
Ukuba oku kusebenza kakuhle, yongeza kancinci ixesha phakathi komyalelo kunye nonyango.
Ukuqhubela phambili: Kancinci ukubuya kude nenja yakho iimitha ezimbalwa. Mnike impatho xa elele phantsi. Emva koko unokuvuka.
kubalulekile:
Vuza inja yakho kuphela xa ilele - endaweni yoko, ukuyinika unyango xa isiza kuwe uya kuyivuza xa iphakama.
isiphelo
Gcina uqeqesho ngumdlalo womonde.
Ukuqala kwindawo ezolileyo kunceda kakhulu ngoqeqesho.
Kuhlala kukuhle ukuba uqale ngokuthi "phantsi" - ngale ndlela wongeza ithuba lokuba inja yakho ilale phantsi ngokuzithandela.
Ungawuqheliseli lo myalelo ixesha elide-ufuna ukuzithiba okukhulu kwinja kwaye irhafisa kakhulu.