UMary Allen
Inja yakho eziphatha kakuhle ijika ibe lirhamncwa elinomsindo ngokukhawuleza nje xa ibona inja ekunye nayo? Ngaba inja yakho iyagquma kwezinye izinja okanye ide ihlasele ezinye izinja?
Ngoku lixesha lokuba senze okuthile!
Oku akuphela nje koxinzelelo olukhulu kuni nobabini kwaye kubangela iintetho ezingafanelekanga kwabo bakungqongileyo, kodwa kunokoyikisa abantu abaninzi.
Kweli nqaku uya kufumana izizathu eziqhelekileyo zobundlobongela kunye nezinye izisombululo ezilungileyo.
Ngamafutshane: Inja yakho isabela ndlongo kwezinye izinja
Uhlaselo luhlala luphindaphinda iimvakalelo, ezibangelwa uloyiko, umsindo okanye intlungu.
Ukuba inja yakho ihlasela ezinye izinja, le ndlela yokuziphatha inokuba nezizathu ezininzi. Ingaba bekungamava amabi angaphambili okanye inja yakho iphuhlise ukukhungatheka, kunye nendlela efanelekileyo yoqeqesho, le ngxaki iza kuba yinto yexesha elidlulileyo.
Ukuba wena kunye nenja yakho nineminye imiba, ke ndicebisa ukuba nijonge ibhayibhile yethu yoqeqesho lwenja.
Apha uya kufumana izizathu kunye nezisombululo zezona ngxaki zixhaphakileyo ebomini njengomnini wenja.
Yintoni ubundlongondlongo enjeni?
Ubundlongondlongo AYISOZE ngaphandle kwesizathu!
Emehlweni enja yakho, ubundlongo-ndlongo bakhe asikokuziphatha kakubi, uye watshintshela “kwimo yokusinda”.
Eyona ndlela ilula kuye yile: Inja ibalekela kwezinye izinja kwaye ifuna ukuyiphelisa ngokwayo ingxaki.
Inja ehlasela ezinye izinja idla ngokubhalwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba “unobundlongondlongo”. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba ubundlongondlongo BUHLALA bunemvelaphi.
Ezi zinto zilandelayo zinokubangela okanye zikhuthaze ubundlobongela kwezinye izinja:
Ukuba inja yayingahlali kakuhle njengenjana okanye ukuba inja ayizange ikhuliswe ngokufanelekileyo okanye ngokungachanekanga, ayinalo ulwazi olusisiseko lwendlela yokuziphatha.
Ukukhathazeka ngengxaki
Uloyiko nokungakhuseleki kudla ngokuba zezona zinto zibangela ubundlobongela obujoliswe kwezinye izinja. Oonobangela basoloko bengamava abuhlungu kwixesha elidlulileyo okanye ulwalathiso olunganelanga ngumnini wenja.
Ithuku lokuzingela eliphosakeleyo
Ukuba ithuku lokuzingela lilahlekile, inja ikwimo yexhoba. Ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba into ihamba ngokukhawuleza, ithuku liyavuselelwa.
Iingxaki ze-Neurological
Ngethamsanqa, oku akufane kwenzeke. Kodwa utshintsho lwe-neurological kwingqondo lunokukhokelela kwiingxaki zokuziphatha, phakathi kwezinye izinto.
Ukuba ukuziphatha kuyatshintsha ukusuka ku-zero ukuya kwisiquphe, oku kufuneka kuqwalaselwe kwaye mhlawumbi kucaciswe ngugqirha wezilwanyana.
Ukuqaliswa okujoliswe kuko
Izinja ezinemvelaphi engaziwayo zihlala zinembali eyahlukileyo kunokuba kucingelwa. Ukuba uye wamkela inja apho ukrokrela ukuba kukho into eyenziwe ngaphambili, nceda uqhagamshelane nomqeqeshi onobuchule ngokukhawuleza kwaye uvumele ukudibana kwenja kuphela ukuba inja yakho ikhuselekile (umqukumbelo)
Ngaba inja yakho inomsindo kwi-leash? Emva koko jonga inqaku lethu malunga ne-leash aggression.
Icebiso lam: Izinja ezinobundlongo kufuneka "zikhuselwe"
Ukuba inja yakho ibonisa ukuba ndlongondlongo kwezinye izinja, ngumsebenzi wakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho ziganeko zenzeka. Ndincoma ukuba ufune iingcebiso kwivenkile yeengcali kwaye ufumane i-muzzle ehambelana kakuhle.
Inkunzi yakho yenja inobundlongondlongo kwezinye iinkunzi zeenja?
Amadoda ngamadoda nje.
Ukuxhatshazwa kwamadoda kwamanye amadoda kudla ngokuvela ekuqaleni kokufikisa.
Amahomoni aya entloko yakho, indoda enkulu kufuneka imakishwe kwaye ngaphezu kwayo yonke into: indawo yakho ikhuselwe. Ukuba kukho kwakhona ukungaqiniseki okanye uloyiko, oku kudla ngokugqabhuka kukuziphatha ndlongo.
Kule meko, kubalulekile ukuba ubonise ngokucacileyo inja yakho yendoda imida. Indlela yokuziphatha endlongondlongo kufuneka iyekwe okanye iqondiswe ngokutsha ngoko nangoko.
Kudla ngokuba lula kuye ukuba aziphathe “njengesiqhelo” xa uhambela ngaphandle kommandla wakho wemveli.
Inja yakho ivele ibe ndlongondlongo kwezinye izinja?
Iimazi zithathwa ngokuba "zinja", ngakumbi xa kuziwa ekujonganeni namanye ama-bitches.
Ukunyuka komsindo kunokwenzeka, ngakumbi ngexesha lobushushu. Apha kuyacetyiswa ukuba uphephe iingxaki ezinokwenzeka.
Izisombululo ezi-3 ezinokwenzeka zokuziphatha ndlongo
Akukho nja izalwa indlongondlongo. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka ubuchule bakho ukuze ufumane unobangela wobundlongondlongo.
Icebiso lam: thembeka kuwe
Ukuba uziva wonganyelwe bubundlavini benja yakho, nceda ufumane uncedo kumqeqeshi wezinja oqeqeshwe kakuhle. Ninonke ningachaza ingqiqo yoqeqesho elungiselelwe wena kunye nenja yakho.
Sebenza ekuzithembeni kwakho
Ukuba ukhupha ukuzithemba kunye nokuzola, oku kuya kudluliselwa kwinja yakho ngokuzenzekelayo. Ngokukodwa ukuba inja yakho ithanda ukuba ndlongondlongo kwezinye izinja ngenxa yoloyiko nokungakhuseleki, iya kuziqhelanisa ngakumbi nawe.
Ngalo lonke ixesha zama ukwenza ngokungaguquguqukiyo.
Ziphephe iingxabano
Jonga indlela inja yakho esabela ngayo xa. Ngoko ufunda ukumfunda kwaye unokubona ngokukhawuleza xa sele eza kuphazamiseka.
Kukwabaluleke kakhulu ukuba uqaphele xa inja yakho ifikelele kwimida yomgama wayo ngamnye.
Ezinye izinja zisabela ndlongo kuphela xa omnye umntu eza “kufutshane kakhulu kwindawo yazo”. Yazi umgama wentlalontle yenja yakho.
Yakha enye indlela yokuziphatha
Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ufunde ukukhokela inja yakho ngokuzolileyo nangokukhuselekileyo kwaye uyawazi umgama wentlalontle yakhe.
Unokufunda nenja yakho kwaye uyijonge xa iza kuqhuma.
Ngoku lixesha lokuyalela enye indlela yokuziphatha oyikhethileyo. Umzekelo, ndincoma umyalelo othi "Jonga".
isiphelo
Ukuba inja yakho inobundlongondlongo kwezinye izinja, akusiyo ukuziphatha okungenasiseko, yingxaki enkulu efuna ukulungiswa ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuba uziva uphazamisekile yimeko, umqeqeshi onobuchule uya kukuvuyela ukukunceda.
Ukufumana uncedo akukaze kube yinto embi, kunokukunceda wena kunye nenja yakho ukuba niphile ubomi obungenaxhala kwixesha elizayo.
Kungenjalo, ndingathanda ukucebisa ibhayibhile yethu yoqeqesho lwenja kuwe. Apha ingxaki yobundlobongela ichazwa ngokunzulu ngakumbi kwaye uya kufumana izisombululo zenyathelo ngenyathelo ezenziwe ngabaqeqeshi bezinja abaqeqeshiweyo.