UMary Allen
Intshayelelo: Indlela engaqondakaliyo yokuKhothwa kwezinja
Ukubukela umhlobo wakho onoboya ekhotha imilenze yakhe inokuba yenye yezona zinto zintle azenzayo. Nangona kunjalo, ngaba ukhe wabaqaphela beyenza ngokugqithisileyo? Ukuba kunjalo, isenokuba luphawu lwengxaki esisiseko. Ukuqonda ukuba kutheni izinja zikhotha imilenze yazo kunokuba ngumngeni, njengoko kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuziphatha. Kweli nqaku, siza kuphonononga ezona zizathu zixhaphakileyo zokukhotha inzipho kwizinja kunye nento onokuyenza ukunceda umhlobo wakho onoboya.
Ukuzilungisa okuqhelekileyo okanye into engakumbi?
Izinja zizidalwa ezicocekileyo ngokwemvelo, kwaye ukuzilungisa yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yendlela yazo. I-Paw licking ingaba yindlela eqhelekileyo yokuziphatha, ngakumbi emva kokuhamba ixesha elide okanye iseshoni yokudlala. Nangona kunjalo, ukukhotha ngokugqithiseleyo kunokuba ngumqondiso wengxaki esisiseko. Ukuba ubona inja yakho ikhotha imilenze yayo ngaphezu kwesiqhelo okanye ixesha elide, kuya kufuneka uphande ngakumbi. Ukugqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo kunokukhokelela kwiimpuphu ezibuhlungu, ezicasulayo, kwaye kwezinye iimeko, usulelo lwesibini.