UMary Allen
Ngoku lixesha lokufumana umntakwenu ofanelekileyo. Ngowuphi kubo inja yakho? UCarro Alupo, ingcaphephe yezinja, ikunika elona cebiso lilungileyo lokuba ugoduke nenjana ekufaneleyo.
Yima kumgama ofanelekileyo
Jonga iinjana ngaphandle kokukubona. Thula, ubone indlela abadibana ngayo. Ngubani ohambayo, ozigcinayo, ohamba ngemathematika isithende, kwaye ngubani ozimeleyo kwaye enze izinto zakhe. Ukuba awukwazi ukuma ukukhala kunye nokuncwina, phulaphula ngenyameko!
Cela ukuya ezinjaneni
Bona indlela abadibana ngayo nomntu abamaziyo. Luyintoni ulindelo lwamantshontsho kumfuyi, ngaba lunethemba okanye lulindele? Inika ulwazi malunga nokuba ibinjani indawo abahlala kuyo. Ibalulekile loo nto.
Ngoku nyuka uye kwipeni yenjana ngokwakho
Yima okwethutyana ubone ukuba iinjana zisabela njani. Ngowuphi oyena ukhawulezayo ukuphanda, ojonge ngqo emehlweni, olinda kumanzi angasemva, ovuthuzayo aze asebenzise impumlo kakhulu, ojonge phezulu ukuze ajike ahambe ngendlela yakhe? Misela imigqaliselo yakho ngokuchasene neempawu ozifunayo kwinja endala.
Squat phantsi kwaye unikeze unxibelelwano olusondeleyo
Ukuba umntu wenza unxibelelwano olungaphezulu kunabanye, umntu axabane nabalingani bakhe, ngaba kukho umntu obeka ingqiniba phambili aze atyhale abanye kude? Isenokuba luphawu lobuntu olubalulekileyo.
Cela umfuyi ukuba aphathe iinjana
Xa abafuyi bebagcina bekude abanye, unokugxila kwinto enye ngexesha. Gcoba phantsi kwaye uphakamise injana emathangeni akho. UPat, uthe chu ukusuka empumlweni ukuya emsileni, ubambe umlenze, ubambe indlebe kancinci, ubambe kancinci umsila, ucofa uzipho kancinci. Injongo kukufumana ingqiqo yento eyenziwa yinjana xa iphantsi kolawulo, into entsha kodwa engeyiyo. Ngaba injana ijika ijonge kuwe kwaye ifumane ukuchukunyiswa okanye iyajika? Umncinci uyaxhathisa kwaye ufuna ukuphinda adibane nabantakwenu okanye athambe kwaye akujonge emehlweni, ajonge kwaye azive ngale nto uyenzayo. Injana isenokuba izama ukuziluma okanye inovelwano okanye iyoyika indawo ethile emzimbeni.
Ngoku cela umfuyi ukuba aphathe iinjana
Qaphela ukuba uyaqaphela naziphi na iiyantlukwano kwindlela iinjana ezisabela ngayo xa kukho umntu omthembileyo oziphetheyo. Abo bebemathidala ngaphambili banokukhuseleka ngokupheleleyo nomntu abamaziyo.
Ngoku kuvavanyo lwesandi
Dlala isandi esingaqhelekanga kwiselfowuni yakho, ikati ekhalayo, inqwelo-mafutha eqhoqhobalayo, okanye iziqhushumbisi. Yiba nenqanaba lengxolo ephantsi ukuze kungabikho mntu woyikayo kwaye unyuse kancinci kancinci. Qwalasela injana nganye, yenza ntoni? Ngaba baphulaphula ngomdla, ngaba bahlehla okanye badibana nomthombo wesandi befuna ukwazi, ngaba bayakhonkotha ifowuni ephathwayo okanye bazama ukululuma ifowuni? Ukuwangawangisa umsila ngovuyo, ephakamisa iindlebe zakhe ngokufuna ukwazi, okanye injana ocinga ngayo ibonakala ingekachukunyiswa kwaphela. Iimpendulo zithetha okuthile malunga nobuntu benjana kunye nobudlelwane nesandi. Ukuba ubona utyekelo lokudubula / ukoyika i-fireworks, kufuneka utsale iindlebe zakho, kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu kwixesha elizayo.
Cela ukubona iinjana kunye nebele kunye
Phinda ujonge indlela ajongana ngayo nabo, ngaba yinjakazi enothando eyabumba injana yakho, okanye ayizithembanga ngabancinci? Ukwahlula phakathi komgama phakathi kwezizathu zokulunyulwa, injakazi enesininzi samantshontsho ancancayo inokudinwa kwaye ingakwazi ukumelana nenkqubela phambili yenjana yasendle. Noko ke, kukho umahluko phakathi kokudinwa, ukuba nomsindo, okanye ukuzibekela bucala ngokweemvakalelo.
Cela ukubona iinjana phandle
Mhlawumbi kwigadi yokudlala. Ukuba zisetyenziselwa imisebenzi yangaphandle kunye nezinto zangaphandle, mhlawumbi ziqeqeshwe ngokusingqongileyo. Ukuba akunjalo, luhambo oluphambi kwakho. Ukungonelanga koqeqesho lokusingqongileyo ngelixa ukhula kunokukhokelela ekungaqiniseki. Ukuba ngokwenene awufuni ukuba nomdla wokuzingela kwinja yakho, jonga indlela injana eqhuba ngayo xa ibona iintaka, ivumba ikati yommelwane, okanye ikubona utsala ulusu lomvundla ngentambo ejeqezayo emva naphambili usuka idlelo lenjana. Ukuba umdla mkhulu kwaye kunzima ukuwuphambukisa, unomzingeli phambi kwakho.
Ngoku khulula injana enye ngexesha
Thatha inyathelo kude nenjana. Ingaba wenzantoni? Ukulandela ngokumangalisayo, okanye ukuhlala uthe cwaka kwaye ubukele enye into ngaphandle kwakho? Ngaba uya kwicala elahluke ngokupheleleyo? Ngaba ilunywe kwi-leash okanye injana iyayamkela imeko kwaye ilandele emva kwakho ngokungathi yinto ekhoyo? Zonke izimo zengqondo zilungile, akukho nto iphosakeleyo, kodwa ichaza okuninzi malunga nobuntu benjana kwaye inika ulwazi malunga nento onokuyilindela.
Ixesha lokuluma
Cela umfuyi ukutya kwenjana egcwele isandla, ubondle ngesandla ngasinye kwaye ubajonge. Ngaba kukho nabani na oba neentloni kwaye alindele ukuhlaselwa ngabalingane bakhe, ngaba kukho nabani na oya kugquma xa abanye besondela? (oku kungabonisa umngcipheko wokuhlaselwa kwezixhobo njengoko ukutya kuhambelana nokhuphiswano). Ngaba injana ikuluma ngesandla kwaye ixhumele ngakumbi? Okanye ngaba injana ishukumisa umsila, ikhangele amehlo akho kwaye “icele” okungakumbi? Emva koko unenjana yokunxibelelana phambi kwakho ebona ngokwemvelo ixabiso kunxibelelwano kunye nokunxibelelana kwezentlalo. Ezinye iinjana zisenokungabi namdla ekutyeni. Injana enjalo inokuba nzima ukuyiqeqesha ukuba ufuna ukuyivuza ngeelekese.