UMary Allen
Xa inja inobungozi? Oko akuze kuxhomekeke kuphela kwinto yenja. Kwindawo yokuhlala yezilwanyana eBerlin, izizathu zokunikezela ngezilwanyana ngenxa yokuziphatha okundlongondlongo ngoku ziye zavavanywa ngokucwangcisiweyo.
Ukuziphatha gwenxa mhlawumbi esinye sezizathu eziqhelekileyo zokunika inja kwindawo yokuhlala yezilwanyana. Noko ke, kwizandla ezinobuchule, ingozi yezilwanyana ezinjalo ijongwa ngendlela efanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, izinja zohlobo ekuthiwa ziyingozi okanye ezinembali yokuluma kunzima ukuzamkela. Ngawaphi amanyathelo anokuthintela ukulahlekelwa ngumnini kunye nokuhanjiswa kwindawo yokukhusela izilwanyana kwangaphambili?
Uphononongo lokuphatha izinja eziyingozi
U-Katzurke kunye noogxa abavela kwiYunivesithi yamahhala yaseBerlin baqhube uphando lwemibuzo kwindawo yokuhlala yezilwanyana yaseBerlin ukuze baphonononge ngokucokisekileyo izizathu zokunika izilwanyana ngenxa yokuziphatha ndlongo. Izinja ezazigqalwa ziyingozi yaye zindlongondlongo kakhulu ngabanini bazo bangaphambili zavavanywa. Abaphandi baqokelele idatha kwinja, umnini, indawo, kunye neziganeko zokuluma.
Ubungcali, uqeqesho, kunye nonyango
Ababhali baqukumbela ngelithi: “Kuzinja kangangoko kunokwenzeka, iimpazamo zimele ziphetshwe yaye abanini-zinja neengcaphephe zifanele ziqeqeshwe kwiingcamango zazo yaye ngaphezu kwako konke kubuchule bazo obusebenzisekayo kwiimeko ezisongelayo. Ukuba ikhusi sezilwanyana sekunjalo linikelwe kwikhusi lezilwanyana, elo lamva lifanele livunyelwe ukuba linyange izinja ngokwemeko yangoku yenzululwazi nemithetho yentlalontle yezilwanyana.”
Umbuzo obuzwa rhoqo
Ngaba izinja ezikhonkothayo ziyingozi?
Ubukhulu becala, izinja azikhonkothi ngenxa yobundlobongela, kodwa ngenxa yokungakhuseleki. Abayazi into emabayenze. Ngenxa yoko, imeko yokuba inja ihlasele umntu inqabile. Uyathanda ukukhonkotha, udla ngokungalumi.
Lithetha ukuthini ixolo elinzulu?
Amaxolo amafutshane, anzulu: isoyikiso, ukulungela ukulwa, ngokuqhelekileyo kudityaniswa nokugquma nokukhupha amazinyo. Ukukhonkotha okuphakamileyo, okumangalisayo: Uloyiko, oluhlala ludityaniswa nokubhomboloza. Ukukhonkotha okuphakamileyo/ okungxolayo okuchulumancisayo: uvuyo, imincili, njengaxa kukho umntu oza ekhaya.
Indlela yokuyeka ukukhonkotha?
Ukuba inja yakho ikhonkotha nje ukuba kukhala intsimbi yomnyango, yithumele kwindawo yayo. Xa eyeka ukukhonkotha, unokumdumisa nokumvuza. Ukuba uyaqhubeka akhonkotha, uze ungaphindi umhoye. Imiyalelo efana no "Cima!" okanye “Yeka!” endaweni yoko, yomeleza kuphela ukuziphatha kwakhe kuba ufumana ingqalelo.
Uyizolisa njani inja ekhonkothayo?
Ukuhlala phantsi kuyavuzwa, kwaye ukukhonkotha akuhoywa. Nditsho neendwendwe zakho mazingayihoyi inja ekhonkothayo. Kuphela xa inja yakho iyeka ukukhonkotha, ukuba kuphela ukubamba umoya wayo, uyamdumisa. Ngokuncoma okulungileyo kunye nokutyeshela okungafunekiyo, unokuphembelela ukuziphatha kwakhe.
Inja ilubonisa njani ulonwabo?
Izinja zibonisa njani ukuba zikhululekile? Xa inja yonwabile, umsila wayo ujika uye phambili ngokukhululekileyo. Kwizinja ezinomsila omfutshane, ogobileyo, okanye othe xhaxhe, umva wenja udla ngokushukuma. Izinja zivakalisa ulonwabo lwazo kwezinye izinja okanye abantu ngokushukumisa imisila.
Ndazi njani ukuba inja yam yonwabile?
Kuyavakala: ukufuna ukusondelana luphawu lokuba wonwabile nawe. Ukubonisa oku ngokuza kuwe rhoqo okanye ngokulula nje angqengqe ngokuzolileyo ecaleni kwakho. Ukulala ecaleni kwakho kwindawo ezolileyo okanye eleleyo luphawu oluqinisekileyo lokuba ulungile nawe.
Ndenza ntoni ukuba inja yam iyandiqhwaba?
Intlonipho. Ukuba inja yakho ikhala kuwe okanye ide ikuhlube, nceda uyithathe ngokungathí sina kwaye ubanike indawo abayidingayo xa beyifuna. Izihlunu kunye ne-snaps zizilumkiso ezicacileyo zokuba akakhululekanga kwaye ufuna indawo engaphezulu, okanye kufuneka uyeke ukwenza nasiphi na isenzo.
Kutheni inja yam indibonisa amazinyo ayo?
Inja ebonisa amazinyo isenokubonakala incumile. Usenokuba ubonakalisa umoya wobuhlobo, njengoko ezinye izinja zilinganisa ukuziphatha komntu.
Ziziphi izandi ezithandwa zizinja?
Ubusazi na ukuba izinja zinencasa emculweni nazo? Kungakhathaliseki ukuba luhlobo luni, izinja kwisifundo ziphendule kakuhle kakhulu kumculo. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko abaphandi beYunivesithi yaseGlasgow bafumanisa, iintlobo zomculo abawuthandayo yayiyireggae kunye nelitye elithambileyo.