UMary Allen
“Enyanisweni, ndingathanda ukuba nenja. Kodwa ekubeni mna nomyeni wam sisebenza ixesha elizeleyo, ngelishwa akunakwenzeka. Yiyo loo nto sicinge ngokufumana ikati ... "
Ukuba ubuza abantu ukuba zeziphi iikati eziqhelekileyo, impendulo ihlala ilandelayo: Iikati zizimele kwaye zenza into yazo. Iikati ke ngoko zibaleka kakuhle kakhulu. Awunangxaki ukuba wedwa ngayo. Ngoko bangena kakuhle kumakhaya anabantu abasebenzayo.
Xa ulinganisa ubunzima phakathi kwekati nenja, kukho enye into: Akuyomfuneko ukuba ndihambe nekati kathathu ngemini. Angahlala yedwa xa sisiya eholideyini. Kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba sityale ixesha okanye imali ekuqeqesheni – iikati azinakuqeqeshwa. – Ngokwenene akunjalo? Ayisosivakalisi sokugqibela esifanele ukuphononongwa. Ukuba ucinga ngento efanayo, nceda uqhubeke ufunda.
Ikati Ezimeleyo!
Iikati zinokuzimela ngokwenene. Bangabazingeli abagqwesileyo kwaye bayakwazi ukuzinyamekela kwindawo efanelekileyo, ubuncinane kwiinyanga zasehlotyeni. Kodwa ngaba uye wakha wazibuza xa umfanekiso wekati elizimeleyo elizimeleyo ladalwa? Kwakungelo xesha apho iikati zazingahlali endlwini, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo, kwiifama, iishedi zazo ezazizele zizingela ezingelwayo.
Ngoko ezi kati zazizimele ubukhulu becala ebantwini bazo ukuze ziziphilise. Akunjalo ngamaxesha athile nabo babengahlalisana kakuhle. Kwabakho ukungabikho kokuphathwa ngobubele ngabantu kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala zobomi abachitha amantshontsho kwindlwane efihlakeleyo kwindawo ethile. Ngenxa yoko, ezininzi zezi kati azizange zithembe abantu kwaye ngoko ke azizange zifake ukubaluleka okukhulu kwinkampani yazo. Kuyafana ke nakwiikati ezithembela ngakumbi: Abo bachitha ixesha labo elininzi bezipha ukutya ngokufuthi baye bashiyeke nosukelo olunye xa besiya endlwini, oko kukuthi, ukulala! Ikati ehamba ngaphandle ize izike ngqo kwindawo elandelayo yokulala eneneni ayibonakali inomdla kakhulu ekusebenzisaneni nabantu.
Ikati eZimeleyo ???
Kakade ke, kusekho iikati namhlanje ezikhokela olu hlobo lobomi, kodwa kwabaninzi, inyaniso yahluke kakhulu. I-stereotype esetyenziswa rhoqo yekati ezimeleyo ngoko ke kunzima ukuyisebenzisa kwiikati ezininzi zanamhlanje zangaphakathi. Ukuyibeka ngokuthe ngqo: Ikati yendlu yakho ayisebenzi kuba ayinakuqhubeka nomsebenzi wayo wendalo, ukuzingela. Kwaye uxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kuwe nakwabanye abantu bakhe ngokwanelisa iimfuno zakhe. Uxhomekeke ekutyisweni kwangethuba kwaye azigcine exakekile.
Iminqweno yekati
Ekubeni ihlabathi lekati yangaphakathi lincinci kakhulu kwaye ezininzi iikati zinenhlanhla ubuncinane ngokufanelekileyo ngokuhlalisana kwezi ntsuku, ezininzi iikati zangaphakathi zifumana umntu wazo umbindi wendalo yazo yonke. Oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ube naye iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku. Kodwa kuthiwa iikati zihlala zikhula iimfuno ezinamandla zokunxibelelana nabantu bazo.
Yintoni le idla ngokufunwa yikati kuwe? Ngaba uthanda iiyure ezinde zokudibana? Ngaba uyathanda ukudlala nawe? Ngaba ukhetha ukulalela kakhulu kwindawo yokuzimela ixhoba kwintonga yenyamakazi, othi uyishukumisele ngomonde? Ngaba ungumntu othanda inzipho kwaye ufuna ukuba umnike "ukutya" iipuzzle zokutya ezingafanelekanga? Ngaba uyavuya xa uqhubeka usenza indawo yakhe yokuhlala ibe mnandi kwaye umnika ithuba lokuya kukhenketho lokufumanisa? Iikati ezininzi zinokuthi: “Ndikunqwenelela konke oku! Yonke imihla!"
Umntu-Cat-Ixesha
Iikati ziyakwazi ukulungelelanisa ngokumangalisayo. Kodwa banokuphumelela kwaye bachume ngokufanelekileyo phantsi kweemeko zokuphila ezilungileyo. Kubantu abahamba imini yonke kwaye mhlawumbi bafuna ukuya ezemidlalo ngokuhlwa okanye ukudibana nabahlobo, lincinci ixesha lokuchitha ixesha kunye nekati yabo. Kwaye yiloo nto ikati idinga kuwe: ingqalelo yakho epheleleyo kunye nentsebenziswano yangempela. Kwaye kumaxesha amaninzi thina bantu sikulungele ukutshona esofeni nekati, sigoqana sinyuka, kodwa ikati ivukile. Kuba ebelele imini yonke kwaye ngoku ujonge phambili kwisenzo sobuhlobo.
Bala ukuba zingaphi iiyure ngosuku onokuthi uyinike ikati yakho rhoqo. Iimfuno zeekati zahluke kakhulu, kodwa iyure yokudlala kunye, iyure yokubheqa kunye njengezipho zokusonga, kunye neeyure ezininzi zokuphumla okanye ukuwola kunye azinde kakhulu njengexesha elicwangcisiweyo. Xa kuthelekiswa nokuhamba nenja, ukugcinwa kwexesha akunanto.
Kuthekani Ngoqeqesho?
Izinto ezininzi zenzeka ngokuzenzekelayo ngeekati. Nangona kunjalo, iikati zangaphakathi zixhamla ngokukodwa ekubeni abantu bazo baziqeqeshe kancinci. Umzekelo, ukuba ikati yakho iqala ukuxhalaba, nto leyo eqhelekileyo, kufuneka uyincede ukuba yoyise loo maxhala. Usenokufuna inkxaso yobungcali koku. Kuya kufuneka kwakhona ufunde indlela yokufundisa ikati imigaqo embalwa yokuziphatha ngaphandle kwesirinji yamanzi kunye namagama akhwazayo, njengokuhlala kwisihlalo sekati endaweni ye-settable okanye ukukrwela kwisithuba esikhethiweyo sokukrazula. Iikati zangaphakathi ngokukodwa zivame ukuza nobubhanxa bokuyila xa zingasetyenziswanga, kwaye oku kufuneka kukhawulwe ngoqeqesho olwakhayo. Okokugqibela, uqeqesho lobuqhinga ngumsebenzi omangalisayo weekati. Ngokuxhomekeke kwitalente yekati, unokugxila kwimisebenzi yokunyakaza okanye i-brain teasers. Ke ukuba awuziva ufuna ukwenza imithambo, kufuneka uphinde ucinge ngokufumana ikati.
Yedwa Akuyongxaki?
Ukuba uyaqaphela ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukukhathalela kwabo ikati, ngoko ngokukhawuleza kuyacaca ukuba ukugcina ikati kuthintela kakhulu isicwangciso sakho seholide. Nokuba umntu uza kabini ukuya kathathu ngosuku ukondla kunye nokudlala nekati, ukungabikho kwabathandekayo akufanele kuhlale ixesha elide kunesixhenxe ukuya kwiintsuku ezilishumi elinesine. Ngenxa yokuba iikati ngeli xesha lithetha: bodwa kakhulu, zonke izithethe zabo zesiqhelo ziyawa, kwaye abaqondi nokuba kutheni abantu babo ngequbuliso bengasayi kuphinda bangene emnyango. Kwiikati ezininzi, oku kuyakhathaza, akuzinzi, okanye kuyoyikisa.
imbonakalo
“Ndiza kuthatha iikati ezimbini. Emva koko baya kufumana omnye nomnye. ”…
Ngelishwa, akukho lula kangako. Kambe ke, iikati ziyangenelwa ngokukwazi ukugcina ubuhlobo obubalaseleyo neqabane elifanelekileyo lekati ngokudlala kunye nokuwola kunye. Kodwa ubudlelwane kunye nezinye iikati azisombululi ingxaki yokungabikho kwamathuba okuzingela. Kwaye njengathi bantu, iikati zinokwenza amaqhina asondeleyo aliqela. Usuku oluhle kakhulu ke ngoko luhlala lubandakanya kungekuphela nje ukonwaba nomhlobo wekati kodwa nokuba kunye nomntu omthandayo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba awunalo ixesha elaneleyo lokunyamekela inja, cinga kwakhona malunga nokuba unako ukwenza ubulungisa kwikati. Mhlawumbi kuya kubakho ixesha elingcono?