UMary Allen
Kukho isaci! Oku kufundeka ngokuthi “Zifana nezinja neekati!”
Intsingiselo emva kwayo kukuba, baziintshaba ezikrakra. Ngaphandle kombuzo wokuba kutheni siboleka kakhulu kwihlabathi lezilwanyana ukuze sibonise iimvakalelo kunye nezimvo zethu.
Ngaba izinja neekati ziintshaba zendalo? Yintoni ekufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo ukuba ufuna ukuzigcina zombini iindidi njengezilo-qabane?
Nazi iingongoma ezi-4 ezibalulekileyo kubomi obonwabisayo kunye!
Ziqhelanise kwabasebancinci
Akukho malunga nokuba-okanye, akukho ndawo ebomini! Ihlala imalunga nokubambana, naxa ugcina izinja kunye neekati ngaxeshanye kwaye inkitha yeentsapho kunye neefama zihlala yonke imihla!
Kukulungele ukuhlala kunye kwixesha elizayo ukuba izilwanyana zifudukela kwintsapho yakho malunga nobudala obufanayo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo.
Ikati edlalayo inokuyoyisa intliziyo yakho kunye nendawo yayo esofeni kunye nenjana ehlekisayo nedlamkileyo.
Ukuthembana kwenziwa ebuntwaneni kwaye kaninzi kuhlala ubomi bonke. Oku kusebenza nakwizilwanyana zethu zasekhaya. Okukhona benokwazina ngokukhawuleza, kokukhona baya kuqondana ngakumbi baze bamkele izinto ezingaqhelekanga zomnye nomnye!
Ithuku lokuzingela
Ezinye iintlobo zezinja zinokuba nethuku elomeleleyo lokuzingela, ngakumbi iintlobo ezifuywa njengezinja zokuzingela.
Ithuku lokuzingela liqhelekile kwizinja, kwiikati, okanye kutheni ucinga ukuba iintaka ziya kuphepheka ngokukhawuleza indawo yazo yokutya yasebusika?
Ke ngelixa ikati yakho ijonge ukushukuma kweentaka, inja yakho ilindile, igade yonke into encinci yehlosi lendlu yakho.
Umvuzo nendumiso zinokuba ngundoqo ekukhuliseni abantwana ngempumelelo. Yincome ikati yakho ngokungaphazamisi iintaka xa ziqokelela ukutya, kunye nenja yakho ngokuvumela ikati ukuba ilale ngoxolo efestileni.
Ukutya kuzo zombini iintlobo zezilwanyana zasekhaya zixhasa injongo yakho kwaye kunokuphazamisa ekuzingeleni. Kumnandi kwicala lakho ngokunjalo!
Ziqhelanise kancinci kancinci
Izinja kunye neekati zineempumlo ezibuthathaka kwaye zinokuphazamiseka kakhulu kwivumba elitsha. Ivumba eliziswa ngumntu omtsha endlwini okanye eflethini.
Ukucotha kancinci kunokusebenza ngokubeka ibhaskithi okanye ingubo yesilo-qabane sakho esitsha, nokuba yinja okanye yikati, kwindawo ohlala kuyo kwasekuqaleni.
Xa umntu ohlala naye efika ekugqibeleni, ivumba alisekho. Ingubo ekrazulwe ngamazipho ekati kulula ukuyibuyisela!
Ungaqhelana ngokuthe ngcembe nezilwanyana ezibini zobudala obahlukeneyo. Izinja ezindala okanye iikati zihlala zibonisa umonde ngakumbi kwizilwanyana ezincinci zolunye uhlobo kunezilwanyana ezincinci okanye eziphakathi.
Ukongeza, injana okanye intshontsho lekati lingazimela ukuba ukuhlala ixesha elide apha kufuneka kubonise iinzipho okanye amazinyo. Ukunyanga kunye nokuphulula isilwanyana sasekhaya ngobukho obude kukwanceda ukoyisa imiqobo yokuqala apha!
Nokuba ihlosi lendlu yakho lidibana njani nenyanda yoboya obunemilenze emine, uthando luyaphela xa usitya!
Yahlula iindawo zokutya kunye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, namaxesha. Umona malunga nokutya unokubeka phakathi kwabona bahlobo basenyongweni, nokuba bathathe indawo yakho esofeni kunye emva koko!
Eyokugqibela kodwa engancinananga!
Ngokuchasene noluvo lokuba izinja zinokunikezela kwithuku lazo lokuzingela kwaye ngaloo ndlela zenze ubomi bube nzima kwiikati, kudla ngokuba ziikati zethu ezizimeleyo nezizithembayo ezibangela inja iiyure ezibuhlungu!
Izinja zinamathele kakhulu kumntu wazo okanye usapho lonke. Iikati, kwelinye icala, zithanda ukuhamba ngendlela yazo. Kakade ke, nabo beza kwaye bathathe imikhwa yabo, kodwa bagqiba xa beziva bethanda.
Inja yakho iya kuhlala iphendula ngokuvuya kwingqalelo yakho!