UMary Allen
Ezinye iikati ezichama ngaphandle kwebhokisi ye-litter azikwazi ukuzikhulula, kodwa kunokudala amanqaku omchamo. Abakwenzi oku kuba “kunyanzelekile” kodwa kunoko baphawule ikati kuba idla ngokufuna ukulungisa imiba yemimandla.
Ukufunyanwa kweempawu zomchamo
Kukho imikhondo eqinisekileyo onokuyisebenzisa ukuxelela ukuba ikati yakho imakisha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iikati zime zolule imisila ngokuthe nkqo, zingcangcazela kwaye imilenze yazo yangasemva ishukuma. Ngeli xesha, umchamo utshizwe ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ngokuthe tye ngasemva. Badla ngokutshiza into eme nkqo, enjengodonga, ikhabhathi okanye ifreyimu yefestile. Ukuba awukwazi ukubukela ikati yakho isenza oku kwaye ufumane umchamo kuphela, jonga ukuba ungayifumana na imikhondo yomchamo obalekayo kwezo zithe nkqo - kuba isiphumo ngokuqinisekileyo lichibi elincinci ezantsi, elingahlukanga lula. ukusuka "kwi-pee puddle eqhelekileyo" kuya kwahlulwa.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, isixa somchamo asikho isalathisi esithembekileyo sokuba ikati iyamakisha okanye ichama. Ngelixa ezinye iikati ziphawula ngamathontsi nje ambalwa, ezinye zithanda ukukhupha isiqingatha saso sonke isinyi kwinkqubo.
Iimpawu zoMmandla
Ukumakisha ummandla ngomchamo kukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kweekati. Bashiya amakhadi oshishino kwezinye iikati abakhuphisana nazo ngemimandla: bangoobani, ngamadoda okanye amabhinqa, xa babelapha, basempilweni/noxinzelelo olunjani-kwaye mhlawumbi nolunye ulwazi esingekalwazi thina bantu. Ngokumakishwa, babonisa ubukho bengekho kwaye ke bangqina amabango abo.
Ngawaphi loo mabango? Ngokuqinisekileyo, phakathi kwabangewona i-neutered, kukho into eninzi yokwenza ngokuzala: ngubani olungele ukutshata kwaye yiyiphi indoda engumviwa obalaseleyo? Kule meko, ithegi ye-urinary iqulethe ulwazi malunga nesimo sesondo. Kaninzi, nangona kunjalo, akukho malunga nokuzala, kodwa malunga nezixhobo ezinqwenelekayo kwindawo: ukuzingela ixhoba okanye ukufikelela kwiindawo ezithembisayo zokuzingela, iindawo ezinelanga, iindawo zokutya, iindawo zokubuyela, njl. umcimbi wokuxhoma. UQueens ulungile kobu bugcisa! Kwaye ke, izibonelelo ezikhankanyiweyo zikwabalulekile kumabhinqa angenayo i-neutered kunye ne-tomcats.
Ngubani lo Myalezo?
Ukuba iimpawu zenziwe endlwini, iidilesi ezahlukeneyo zisenokuthiwa: Idla ngokuba ziikati ezingabamelwane ngaphandle. Emva koko uya kufumana ukuphawula ngokukodwa kufuphi neefestile, iingcango zepatio, umnyango wangaphambili, njl. Kwimizi yeekati ezininzi, iikati ngamanye amaxesha zisebenzisa ukuphawula ukuxazulula iingxabano ngaphandle kobudlova. Emva koko kukho i-subliminal tension emoyeni. Kwezi meko, uya kufumana ubukhulu becala amanqaku kwiindawo ezibalulekileyo zekati, njengepali yokukrwela, okanye kwiipaseji ezisembindini, njengakwiifreyimu zeminyango okanye epasejini.
Ithegi yolonwabo
Ngamanye amaxesha iikati ziphawula zingawazi ummandla wazo, ngenxa yemincili. Ukumakishwa komchamo emva koko kubonakala kusebenza njengevalvu esetyenziswa yikati ukukhulula uxinzelelo. Akukacaci ukuba uyenza njani na le nto ngalo mzuzu. Nangona kunjalo, luhambo lokutsiba, okt lwenzeka njengohlobo lokusabela okuzenzekelayo.
Oku kuphawulwa kwemincili kuhlala kuhambelana neemfuno ikati engakwaziyo ukuzinyamekela: ifuna ukuphuma ngaphandle, kodwa umnyango awuyi kuvulelwa. Ulambile, kodwa umntu ugqiba kwelokuba alikafiki ixesha lokutyisa. Ucela ingqalelo yethu. Zonke iinzame zakho ziwa phantsi kuba sifunda isicatshulwa esinika umdla ngeekati kwi-Intanethi… Emva koko kunokwenzeka ukuba ikati, ijonge kumntu wayo, imake phambi kwamehlo ayo. Abantu abaninzi ke baziva becaphukile ngokukhethekileyo baze babe nomsindo. Nangona kunjalo, ikati ijonga umntu wayo ngokuyintloko kuba ifuna uncedo kuyo ukuze ifezekise iimfuno zayo
Iimfuno ezithenjiweyo - kwaye ngenxa yemincili, uyaziphawula. Kwisenzo sokuziphawula, phantse akukho myalezo uthile oya emntwini - kodwa oko kusibonisa indlela evuya ngayo kwaye ingenakuzinceda ikati eziva ngayo!
Ungenzani?
Kuxhomekeka ekubeni ikati yakho iphawula ngokwenene ummandla wayo okanye ibonisa le ndlela yokuziphatha ngenxa yemincili, iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokwenza ingqiqo. Oku kulandelayo kusebenza kuzo zombini: ukuba ikati yakho iqala ukumakisha, yihlole ngocoselelo ngugqirha wezilwanyana. Imiba yezempilo inokutshintsha ubudlelwane kunye nezinye iikati, kodwa inokubenza bavuswe ngakumbi.
Ikati ekummandla ifuna uncedo ukuze ihambelane nezinye iikati. Oku kunokwahluka kakhulu kumntu nomntu: abanye kufuneka bavunyelwe baphume ngexesha elifanelekileyo ukuze bajongane neekati ezingabamelwane. Abanye basenokufuna ukuba ngasese. Kwimizi yeekati ezininzi, kubalulekile ukukhusela indawo yekati nganye kwaye ubancede baphuhlise ubudlelwane obuhambelanayo.
Oku kulandelayo kusebenza kuphawu loxinzelelo: zama ukuthomalalisa uninzi lweemeko ezicinezelayo kangangoko kunokwenzeka kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Kudla ngokucetyiswa ukuba uhlengahlengise iinkqubo kancinci ukuze iimfuno eziqhelekileyo zekati zaneliswe phambi kokuba zibe nkulu kakhulu kwaye i-catcalls kuyo. Umzekelo, ukuba ikati yakho ihlala ilamba phambi kwexesha lokutya, zama ukusasaza inani lemihla ngemihla lokutya ngokutya okuninzi kunoko ngoku kwaye umnike inxalenye encinci rhoqo. Okanye unikeze ikati yakho umdlalo obanzi wesenzo ngaphambi kokuba uhlale phantsi ekhompyuter kwakhona ixesha elide.
Kwaye kwakhona
Ngokukodwa ukuba ikati yakho iphawula ngomlinganiselo omkhulu womchamo, nceda ujonge iimeko zebhokisi ye-litter (jonga uncedo lokuqala lokungahlambuluki). Mhlawumbi ikati yakho ayikuthandi ukusebenzisa iibhokisi zenkunkuma ezinikezelwayo, ezikhokelela kwisinyi esigcwele rhoqo. Okanye mhlawumbi ude angene ekuvuseleleni ngamandla okukhokelela ekumakishweni kuba kufuneka ahambe kodwa “akakwazi” kwibhokisi yakhe yenkunkuma okwangoku. Iimeko zongquzulwano (“Ndifuna kakhulu, kodwa ndiyazama/andikwazi!”) zibangela ukutsiba-tsiba ngokulula – kwaye ukuphawula umchamo kube yenye yazo, njengokukhotha igxalaba ngokubhuduzela okanye ukukrwela ekhaphethini.
Izizathu zokumakishwa komchamo zidla ngokungabi lula okanye zikhawuleze zilungiswe. Kule meko, ukuba ikati yakho iyamakisha, uya kufuna ukuphefumla kancinci ukuyinceda. Kodwa ngokwenene udinga uncedo lwakho ukuze akwazi ukuziva ekhululekile ngokupheleleyo kubomi bakhe bemihla ngemihla. Ukuba awukwazi ukufezekisa naluphi na utshintsho olulungileyo ngokwakho kwiiveki ezimbalwa, oku kulandelayo kuyasebenza, njengoko kunjalo rhoqo: iingcebiso zokuziphatha kwekati zinokubonisa wena kunye neendlela ezimfutshane zekati yakho kule ndlela inzima. Oku akubalulekanga, kuba xa ukuziphatha ixesha elide kuboniswa, kokukhona kuya kuzinza kwaye kunokuba ngumkhwa. Kwaye oko ngenene akunakuba kuhle ngokumakisha umchamo.
Yiba nomonde kunye nethamsanqa!