UMary Allen
Ukuba lilolo ebudaleni akuyondlwan’ iyanetha. Abadla umhlala-phantsi banokufumana inkampani kwizilwanyana zabo zasekhaya. Kodwa ngabaphi abantu abadala abaziva bebodwa: inja okanye ikati?
Izifundo ezahlukeneyo ngoku zibonise into eyaziwa ziinkosi ezininzi ixesha elide: Izilwanyana zasekhaya zisilungele. Izinja, umzekelo, zinokuba nefuthe elihle kwixesha lethu lokuphila. Kwaye abahlobo bethu abanemilenze emine bakwayinyani yokukhuthaza imo yengqondo yethu: Enkosi kubo, siziva sinoxinzelelo oluncinci kwaye sonwabile.
Zonke ezi ziziphumo ezilungileyo ngokuqinisekileyo zilungile kubantu bayo yonke iminyaka. Ngokukodwa ngamaxesha obhubhane, uninzi lwabanini bezilwanyana zasekhaya baxela ukuba zibanceda kangakanani na izinja kunye neekati zabo. Ngelishwa, njengeqela lomngcipheko, abantu abadala, ngokukodwa, bachaphazelekayo ngokuzihlukanisa kunye nemiphumo yayo yengqondo.
Izilwanyana zasekhaya zingabanceda njani abantu abadala ngokuchasene nesithukuthezi - kwaye zeziphi izilo-qabane ezifanelekileyo ngakumbi koku? Isazi ngengqondo uStanley Coren sazibuza lo mbuzo. Ufumene impendulo kuhlolisiso lwakutshanje olwenziwa eJapan kunye nabathathi-nxaxheba abamalunga ne-1,000 65 abaphakathi kweminyaka engama-84 nama-XNUMX ubudala. Abaphandi bafuna ukufumanisa enoba abantu abadla umhlala-phantsi abanenja okanye ikati baphila bhetele ngengqondo kunabo bangenazo izilwanyana.
Esi Silo-qabane sifanelekile kuBadla umhlala-phantsi
Ngenxa yale njongo, intlalontle jikelele kunye neqondo lokuzihlukanisa kwezentlalo zavavanywa kusetyenziswa amaphepha emibuzo amabini. Isiphumo: Abantu abadala abanezinja bangcono kunabanye. Abantu abahlala bodwa abadla umhlala-phantsi abangenayo kwaye abangazange babenenja babonakele ukuba babe neziphumo ezibi ngokwasengqondweni.
Kwisifundo, abanini bezinja, kwelinye icala, babenesiqingatha kuphela sokuba nesimo sengqondo esibi.
Kungakhathaliseki ubudala, isini, ingeniso, kunye nezinye iimeko zokuphila, abanini inja ukuhlangabezana ngcono ngokwasengqondweni kunye bodwa ekuhlaleni. Abantu abadla umhlala-phantsi abangenazinja. Izazinzulu azikwazanga ukufumana umphumo ofanayo kwiikati.
Ngamanye amazwi, iikati kunye nezinja nganye ineenzuzo zayo, kunjalo. Kodwa xa kufikwa kwisithukuthezi, izinja zinokuba liyeza elingcono.
Siso lesi isigqibo sikaStanley Coren kwiPsychology Today: “Eyona nto iphambili ibonakala ikukuba abantu abakhulileyo abakhe babekwa bodwa ngenxa yobhubhane banokuyigcina impilo yabo yengqondo izinzile ngonyango olufikeleleka lula nolusebenzayo: Ngokwabo bazisa inja endlwini. indlu. ”