UMary Allen
Owona myalelo ubalulekileyo ekufuneka inja yakho iwufunde ukwangowona unzima kakhulu. Ngumyalelo apha. Kuyo yonke indawo ikhwelo lenja lihlokoma ezipakini nakwiindawo zezinja – ukanti ubukhulu becala ayiviwa! Oku akucaphukisi nje kuphela kodwa kuyingozi. Ngenxa yokuba inja evunyelwe ukuhamba ngaphandle kwentambo kufuneka ifumaneke xa kukho ingozi kwiimoto, abakhweli beebhayisikile, okanye ezinye izinja. Kodwa nabadlula ngendlela abangafuni naluphi na unxibelelwano nenja yakho kufuneka babe nakho ukuqiniseka ukuba ungambiza ngokuthembekileyo.
Indlela Yokulahla Esona Sikhubekiso sikhulu
Izikhubekiso ezi-5 zenza ubomi bakho bube nzima
Ukuba i Apha umyalelo awusebenzi ngokufunwayo, inokuba kungenxa yesinye sezikhubekiso zilandelayo. Jonga ngokunzulu apho ubambeke khona.
Isikhubekiso sokuqala: Awuyazi into oyifunayo
Okokuqala, cacisa ngokucacileyo ukuba ukubizwa kuthetha ukuthini kuwe.
Masithi ukhethe igama elithi “Yiza!”. Emva koko ulindele kwixesha elizayo ukuba inja yakho iya kuza kuwe kulo myalelo kwaye ungayikhupha. Kwaye akukho okunye. Musa ukuthi “yiza” xa ufuna nje ukuba aqhubeke kwaye angabhadlali ngolo hlobo. Qinisekisa ukuba uza kuwe ngokwenene kwaye akayeki iimitha ezimbini phambi kwakho. Kwaye ulumkele ukuba ungayixubi imiyalelo yakho: sukukhwaza “Toby!” xa ufuna eze kuwe—usuka wenze kube nzima kuye ngokungeyomfuneko. Ufanele ukwazi njani ukuba igama lakhe ngequbuliso lithetha into eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo kunesiqhelo?
Ukuba sele uziqhelisile ukubiza ngaphandle kwempumelelo, ngoku ukhetha umyalelo omtsha ngokupheleleyo, njengomyalelo Apha. Ngenxa yokuba igama olibizile ukuza kuthi ga ngoku linxulunyaniswa nazo zonke iintlobo zezinto zenja yakho - kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo hayi ngokuza kuwe. Igama elitsha - ithamsanqa elitsha! Ukususela ngoku wenza yonke into ngokufanelekileyo ngekota entsha - kwaye uya kubona ukuba iya kusebenza ngcono.
Isikhubekiso sesibini: Uyadika
Kulungile, asiyonto ilungileyo ukuva, kodwa nantso indlela. Inja ekhetha ukuqhubeka ibaleka kunokuba ibuyele kumniniyo inezinto ezingcono ekufuneka izenze: ukuzingela, ukusezela, ukudlala, ukutya. Kwaye kuqhelekile ukuba sisoloko sibiza inja kuthi xa izinto zisenza imincili. Thina ke i-spoilsports embeka kwi-leash kwaye siqhubele phambili. Ukuqhawula le pateni, kufuneka uzenzele umdla! Inja yakho kufuneka iqonde ukuba unomdla kakhulu.
Kwaye kulapho unokufumana khona isikhubekiso sokuqala endleleni: Yenza kube ngumsebenzi wakho kungekhona nje ukubiza inja kuwe ukuba ubeke intambo. Kwakhona sebenzisa umyalelo apha ukummangalisa ngemisebenzi emincinci, iingcamango zomdlalo, kunye nemivuzo.
Nceda inja yakho ifunde ukuba oku ayisosiphelo somdlalo:
Umzekelo, mbizele ngqo kuwe ngokukhawuleza xa ubona i-canine pal ivela elundini
Kubalulekile ukuba enye inja isekude ukuze ube nethuba lokuba inja yakho iza kuwe ngokwenene
Emva koko uyamvuza ngokumkholisa kwaye uqonda ukuba uye kudlala kwakhona
Ewe, ngekhe wadlala ngokuthe ngqo, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, ufunda ukuba unokuza kuwe ngaphandle komyalelo apha kwaye umdlalo usekude ukuphela. Ngokuchasene noko: Ude umthumele ngokucacileyo.
Kwakhona, zenzele umkhwa ukusoloko ubiza inja yakho kuwe xa uhambahamba phambi kokuba uqale umdlalo, umz. B. ukujula ibhola. Ngale ndlela, inja yakho iya kufunda ukuba ukubizwa ngumqondiso wokuqala wento entle.
Isikhubekiso sesithathu: Ubonakala usoyikisa
Ngokukodwa xa izinto ziba nzima, umzekelo, ngenxa yokuba inja isengozini, sivame ukukhala kwaye sibonise uxinzelelo lwethu ngokuma kwethu. Zinyanzele ukuba ugcine ilizwi lakho lingathathi hlangothi.
Nabani na ofumana le nto inzima uyacetyiswa ukuba asebenzise impempe yenja kuba ithoni ihlala ifana. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka uhlale unabo.
Ukuba inja yakho iyathandabuza ukusondela kuwe, mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuma kwakho.
Emva koko zama oku kulandelayo:
Gxuma phantsi kwaye uzenze mncinci
Okanye thatha amanyathelo ambalwa umva, nto leyo eya kwenza ukuba umzimba wakho ungaxinezeleki kwaye “utsalele” inja yakho kuwe
Ingcebiso yam yobuqu
Jonga ulwimi lwakho lomzimba
Nokuba ndazi ngcono: Ngamanye amaxesha ndinomsindo kwizinja zam kwaye ke ndikhwaza umyalelo onomsindo Apha kubo. Ewe, izinja ziqaphela kwangoko ukuba "ndithwele" kwaye azibonakali ngathi zingathanda ukuza kum. Kodwa injakazi yam endala isaza ngokuzithoba kakhulu kum. Akaziva mnandi ngayo, kodwa uyeza. Indoda yam, kwelinye icala, imisa iimitha ezimbalwa phambi kwam. Emva koko akanako ukucengwa ukuba ahambe intambo yokugqibela. Ndivele ndazibona ndimoyikisa kakhulu, nangona ngoku besele ndehlile.
Sisombululo: Kufuneke ndijike umzimba wam ongentla kancinci ndiwubeke ecaleni abe nesibindi sokuza kum. Kwaye ke ngokuqinisekileyo ndiceba ukuzithemba ngakumbi kwixesha elizayo.
Isikhubekiso se-4: Awugxilanga
Ukubiza umnxeba ngumsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu kangangokuba kufuna ugxininiso lwakho olupheleleyo. Ayizukusebenza ukuba uthetha ngokuphila kwabanye kwipaki yezinja kwaye uthumela inja yakho umyalelo apha.
Seka uhlobo "lonxibelelwano" kunye nenja yakho:
gxila kuye. Jonga kwicala lakhe, kodwa ngaphandle kokumjonga
Hlala naye engqondweni yakho ade abe phambi kwakho
Khumbula ukuba ukubizwa ngumyalelo ongapheleli ngoko nangoko, koko udlulela kwixesha elithile. Nokuba ukhwaza kube kanye kuphela, ugxininiso lwakho lubonisa ukuba umyalelo wakho usasebenza, nokuba kusekho i-20 yeemitha ukuya.
Isikhubekiso sesi-5: Ucela into engenakwenzeka
Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuba nomdla ngakumbi kunommandla (jonga inqaku lesi-2). Ukuba uyazi ukuba inja yakho yokuzingela iyayithanda inyamakazi, ungakhathazeki ngokuzama ukuyibuyisela kwixhama emahlathini. Mshiye kwi-leash kwiimeko ezikhohlisayo kwaye ungonakalisi impumelelo osele uyifumene kubomi bemihla ngemihla ngokumbiza ngomyalelo Apha kwaye akakuva okanye akakuva.
Ungabuzi kakhulu ngokukhawuleza. Ukubuyisa inja, ngakumbi inja encinci kakhulu, kumdlalo kunye nezinye izinja ngumsebenzi ophambili.
Ke qiniseka ukuba uhlengahlengisa ixesha lakho:
Fowuna kuphela ukuba inja yakho ayizange ibeke iindlebe zayo "ukutsala."
Yiba nomdla xa inja yakho ivaliwe, kwaye ubone ukuphazamiseka ngaphambi kokuba uyibone
Ukuba uyazi ukuba ukukhwaza akunamsebenzi kwimeko, musa. Ukungahoyi umnxeba wakho kufuneka kwenzeke kuphela kunqabile kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kungenjalo uya kuqalisa kwakhona ngokukhawuleza
Ubonile: Zonke izikhubekiso ziqala ngawe! Kodwa ungothuki, vuya nje ngokuba unamandla okufundisa inja yakho ukuba isondele ngokukhuselekileyo.