UMary Allen
Abantwana kunye nezinja banokuba yintliziyo enye kunye nomphefumlo omnye, ngakumbi xa bekhula kunye. Nangona kunjalo, abantwana kufuneka baqale bafunde ukuba izinja azingobantu abanoboya kunye nabafutshane. Unokufunda apha ukuba abantwana bahlala besenza ntoni engalunganga xa besebenza nezinja.
Bayababamba, babaleke beza kubo behleka - ngale nto, ngokuqinisekileyo, abantwana abafuni ukucaphukisa izinja, kodwa ukubonisa uthando lwabo. Nangona kunjalo, ezinjeni, oku kudla ngokuba nefuthe elichaseneyo.
Xa Abantwana Befuna Ukugona Nokugona Izinja
Abantwana abancinci ababoni izinja njengezilwanyana ezifuywayo okwangoku, kodwa njengabantakwabo okanye izilwanyana ezixutywe. Basenokusigona isilwanyana, bacinezele intloko yaso entloko, okanye balale phezu kwaso. Nangona kunjalo, izinja ezininzi zisengozini. Kwaye abantwana abasakwazi ukutolika imiqondiso yabahlobo abanemilenze emine, ngoko izinja zinokubonisa kuphela iimfuno zabo ezigqithisileyo okanye ukuphoxeka kwabo ngeempawu "ezinzima", ezifana nokugquma kunye nokukhonkotha.
Xa Abantwana Bedlala
Abantwana bayadlala, yaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, abanakuthintelwa ekwenzeni oko. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha babhenela kwiinja zokuzingela - umzekelo, xa zidlala ukubamba. Xa izinja zitshintsha indlela ezizingela ngayo, kuba nzima ukuzilawula. Kwimeko embi kakhulu, iingozi zingenzeka.
Ngokukwanjalo, abantwana abafanele badlale nezinja okanye bazibaleke ngalo lonke ixesha. Oku kusebenza kwakhona ukuba inja ishiya igumbi. Ngoko kusenokwenzeka ukuba ahambe ngabom ukuze afumane uxolo. Abazali kufuneka bakuvume oku kwaye baphazamise umntwana kwinja.
Xa abantwana bephazamisa ukulala okanye ukutya kwenja yakho
Kwenzeka okufanayo xa izinja zilala okanye zidla: zifuna uxolo noxolo, zingaphazamiseki. Phambi kwabo basenokuba ngabaphembeleli, izinja zisenokuthi ngethuku zikukhusele ukutya kwazo okanye indawo yazo yokuzimela. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuba abantwana besebancinci bafunde ukuhlonipha ixesha lokuphumla kwabahlobo babo abanemilenze emine.
Xa Abantwana Bedlala Ngengozi okanye Belimaza Izinja
Xa besemoyeni, abantwana basenokuba krwada bengazi yaye bangakhathali nokuba bayazenzakalisa okanye bazicaphukise izinja. Oku kuyinyaniso ngokukodwa kubantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emine abangekayazi indlela yokuvelana nezinja. Oko kubonakala kubo njengomdlalo kunokulimaza kakhulu inja - umzekelo, ukutsala umsila.
Kutheni le nto kubalulekile ukuba abantwana baphathe izinja ngokufanelekileyo?
Xa izinja ziziva zisongelwa, zidla ngokuzilwela. EUnited States, bamalunga nezigidi ezisisi-2.8 abantwana abalunywa zizinja nyaka ngamnye. Kwincwadi yakhe ethi Living with Dogs and Children, umbhali uColleen Pelar ubhala ukuba abantwana abangama-61 ekhulwini balunywa zizinja zekhaya elinye. Oku kubonisa ukuba imfundo efanelekileyo kunye noqeqesho lokuphatha izinja kunokuthintela oku okanye eso siganeko.
Yintoni Enokwenziwa Ngabazali?
Akukhuthazwa ukuba ushiye abantwana, kunye nenja yodwa xa behlala kwigumbi elinye. Ngokukodwa, abantwana abancinci abakwazi ukuvavanya iingozi okanye baqikelele iziphumo zezenzo zabo. Bakuba abantwana befikelele kwiminyaka yesikolo samabanga aphantsi, banokufunda ukuphatha izinja ngokudlala. Oku kubandakanya, umzekelo, indlela yokukhokela i-leash okanye indlela yokunika ngokufanelekileyo ukuphatha. Ukongeza, ukuthobela isiseko esihle kunceda izinja.