UMary Allen
Intshayelelo: Ukuba nokwenzeka kokungcungcuthekiswa
Ukuphulukana nesilwanyana sasekhaya kunokuba ngamava abuhlungu, kwaye abanikazi abaninzi bezilwanyana bafumana intuthuzelo kwinkolelo yokuba umoya wabo uhlala usondele emva kokuba befile. Ngelixa abanye beyigatya ingcamango yezilwanyana zasekhaya njengeenkolelo nje, abanye bafunga ngamava abo okuva ubukho besilwanyana sasekhaya okanye babone izinto ezingachazwanga emva kokufa kwesilwanyana sabo. Kwimeko yeekati, ezaziwa ngendalo yazo engaqondakaliyo kunye nentsonkothileyo, ukubakho kobukho bazo bomoya kunokuba yinto enomdla kakhulu.
Ukuqonda ingqikelelo yeziporho zasekhaya
Inkolelo kwiziporho zasekhaya inembali ende, kunye neengxelo zembonakalo yezilwanyana ezisukela kumaxesha amandulo. Kwezinye iinkcubeko, iziporho zasekhaya zibonwa njengemimoya enobubele ezisa amathamsanqa kunye nokhuseleko kumaqabane abo aphilayo, ngelixa kwezinye, zoyikwa njengezinto ezikhohlakeleyo ezinokuzisa ingozi okanye ilishwa. Ingcamango yeziporho zasekhaya isoloko ibotshelelwa kwinkolelo kubomi basemva kokufa kwezilwanyana, kunye noluvo lokuba iqhina phakathi kwesilwanyana sasekhaya kunye nomnini waso ngaphaya kokufa. Nangona kungekho bungqina besayensi obuxhasa ubukho beziporho zasekhaya, ukukholelwa kubukho bazo kunokuba ngumthombo wentuthuzelo kunye nokuvalwa kwabanini bezilwanyana zasekhaya abasentlungwini.