UMary Allen
Amanye awona maxesha abalulekileyo ebomini aquka usuku esidibana ngalo nesilo-qabane sethu esitsha okokuqala, usuku esathi sabamkela ngalo, kunye nomhla abathe ekugqibeleni babuyela nathi ekhaya.
Nazi izinto ezilishumi omawuzikhumbule phambi kokufumana isilwanyana sakho esitsha:
Ngaba unalo ixesha elifunekayo?
Ngaba uya kuba nexesha lokuphuma nenja yakho kathathu ngemini? Ngaba uyakhumbula ukonwabisa ikati yakho rhoqo ebusuku? Ukuba impendulo nguhayi kwaye awunaye umntu onokukunceda kule nto, yima. Emva koko cinga ngokufumana intlanzi, i-parakeet, okanye esinye isilwanyana esingafuni kakhulu kuwe.
Ngaba isilwanyana sakho silungile kwindlela ophila ngayo?
Ukukhetha iqabane lakho elitsha lobomi ngokusekwe kwindlela entle okanye ethandwayo ngayo yenye yeempazamo ezinkulu ezenziwa ngabantu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezi zilwanyana zishiywe kwindawo yokukhusela xa zifunyenwe "zinamandla amaninzi", "ziswele kakhulu" okanye "azinyamezeli kakhulu". Uluhlu lwezizathu lunokwenziwa lube lude.
Yazi inzala onomdla kuyo kwaye uvule ukuzisola ukuba awunalo ithuba lokunika isilwanyana oko sikufunayo ngokusekelwe kwisimo saso. Buza imibuzo emininzi kwabo banyamekela isilwanyana kwiziko lokuthatha umntwana / ikheneli. Kukwakho amaqela aliqela akhethekileyo (anokufumaneka kuFacebook) apho unokubuza khona imibuzo yakho.
Umzekelo wangoku yimfuno enkulu yohlobo lweChihuahua. Ewe, zibukeka kakuhle, azikhethi ubukhulu bekhaya labo elitsha, kwaye “zinolondolozo oluphantsi” ngokufanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, azifane zibanyamezele ngokukhethekileyo abantwana kwaye ziyenye yeendidi ezaziwa ngokuba ziluma abantwana ngaphandle kokucatshukiswa kakhulu.
Nokuba ikati kufuneka ilungele ubuntu bakho. Ezinye iikati zidinga ingqalelo eninzi kunye nokusebenzisana, ngelixa ezinye zizimeleyo. Yenza uphando lwakho kwaye wenze ukhetho lobulumko.
Thetha noogqirha bezilwanyana ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isilwanyana sakho esitsha
Ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi isilwanyana kunye nohlobo olufanelekileyo kuwe, thetha nabantu obathandayo kwaye ucele iingcebiso kugqirha wezilwanyana olungileyo. Ugqirha wezilwanyana unokuba ngumthombo wolwazi oluxabisekileyo kwaye unokukunceda ukhethe isilwanyana esikufanela kakhulu kunye nendlela yakho yokuphila. Abekho oogqirha bezilwanyana babini abafanayo kwaye ufuna ugqirha wezilwanyana alungele wena kunye neemfuno zakho. Oku kuya kuba bubudlelwane bobomi kwaye ngoko ukhetho lubalulekile. Kwakhona, yenza uphando lwakho.
Icebiso elincinane: sukusekela ukhetho lwakho kuphela kububele bogqirha wezilwanyana ebantwini (oko kukuthi kuwe). Ugqirha wezilwanyana olungileyo udla ngokubangcono ekuphatheni izilwanyana kunabantu. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, buza ugqirha wakho wezilwanyana malunga neembekiselo.
Yenza ikhaya lakho libe yindawo ekhuselekileyo yesilo-qabane sakho
Ubusazi ukuba into encinci njengetshungama inokubulala inja? Okanye ukuba ibuprofen inetyhefu kwiikati? Kubalulekile ukuba uhambe ngekhaya lakho ngoku, phambi kokuba isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya esitsha singene, ujonge ikhaya kwiingozi ezinokubakho. Hambisa izinto ukuze isilwanyana singakwazi ukufikelela kuzo, okanye uzisuse ngokupheleleyo kwikhaya lakho. Oku kubandakanya iikhabhathi, izinto zokubala zasekhitshini, iithoyi ezincinci, iikhemikhali ezigcinwe phantsi, iintambo, njl.
Khetha ukutya okufanelekileyo ngokusekelwe kwiminyaka yobudala kunye nokuzala
Ayizizo zonke izidlo zezilwanyana eziqulethe izinto ezifanayo. Abanye bangcono kunabanye, ngelixa abanye bebanga izinto ezingasoloko zisekelwe kwinyani. Kuya kuba lula ukukhetha ibhegi kwishelufu, kodwa oku akuyi kuqinisekisa impilo yesilwanyana sakho ngeyona ndlela ilungileyo. Khetha okona kutya kulungileyo kwenja okanye ikati yakho kwaye usoloko ujonga ileyibhile apho ichazwa ukuba kuqulathwe yintoni na ukutya.
Ukusukela kwiminyaka yobuncinci besilwanyana sakho sasekhaya ukuya kuthi ga xa sibadala, ukhetho lwesondlo kufuneka lusekelwe kwiimfuno ezikhethekileyo zesilwanyana sakho, ngokweminyaka kunye nenqanaba lomsebenzi. Unokwenza olwakho uphando ukuze ufumanise ukuba yeyiphi isondlo esisifaneleyo isilo-qabane sakho, kodwa ukuze uqiniseke ngokupheleleyo, dibana nogqirha wakho wezilwanyana.
Zilungiselele ixesha lotshintsho
Ukuba uya kwamkela injana - zilungiselele ukuba iya kulila. Njengeentsana, iintsana ziyakhala ngobusuku bokuqala kwikhaya labo elitsha. Nangona kunjalo, ayisiyongcamango ilungileyo ukuvumela injana ukuba ilale ebhedini yakho ukuze izole. Eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza, ngaphambi kokuba ugoduse nenjana, lungisa indawo yokulala ezolileyo nefihlakeleyo. Khetha indawo enokuthi ibe “yindawo yenjana”. Emini, nangona kunjalo, ungavumela injana ukuba ijikeleze ngokukhululekileyo kwikhaya lakho ukuze ikwazi ukuvumba kwaye ihlolisise yonke into. Oku kwakhona kukunika ithuba lokufumanisa ezinye iingozi oziphosileyo.
Ixesha lokulala lekati lenza iimfuno ezimbalwa. Lungiselela indawo yokulala yekati kwindawo ekhuselekileyo kufutshane nebhokisi yenkunkuma, ukuze ikati ingalahleki xa iyikhangela.
Lumka xa usazisa isilwanyana esitsha kwikhaya apho inja okanye ikati sele ihlala khona. Qinisekisa ukuba isilwanyana sakho sangaphambili asiziva sisongelwa okanye uzame ukutyhala umntu omtsha.
Phakamisa isilwanyana sakho
Ukuba ikhaya lakho elithandekayo lihlala lilikhaya lakho elithandekayo, kuya kufuneka uqalise kwangoko ukuqeqesha isilwanyana sakho ukuze sicoceke igumbi. Ukuba uze nentshontsho lekati ekhaya, yazise kwibhokisi yenkunkuma wakuba nje ufika ekhaya. Ukuba yinjana, nxiba laa leash uphume uhambe uhambe ukuze izazi iindawo zayo ezintsha. Iinjana ezininzi ziba noloyiko malunga nendawo yazo entsha kwaye awufuni ukuboyikisa. Ekuqaleni, injana idinga ukuhamba okufutshane kuphela. Xa injana izalisekisa iimfuno zayo ngaphandle, yomeleza ukuziphatha ngokudumisa.
Khetha iilekese ezifanelekileyo kunye nezinto zokudlala
Ukuba nelekese efanelekileyo kubalulekile - ngakumbi kumantshontsho. I-Candy sesinye sezixhobo ezifanelekileyo zokusebenzisa xa uqeqesha inja yakho. Zama ngeentlobo ezimbalwa ezahlukeneyo kwaye ukhethe leyo inja yakho ibonakala iyithanda kakhulu. Injana iya kufuna ukwenza yonke into ukuze ifumane loo lekese, kubandakanywa ukuhlala ecaleni kwakho nangona umhlambi weekati udlula kwaye ubambe ingqalelo yenja. Soloko uze neelekese ukuze ukwazi ukuqeqesha inja ukuba ithuba livela.
Ungatshintshi xa unika injana yakho ilekese. Kulula ukuwela kwisilingo kwaye unike inja candy nokuba ayikhange iyifumane. Nangona kunjalo, i-candy eninzi inokukhokelela ekutyebeni - nokuba ukhethe i-candy enempilo.
Amathoyizi enja akufanele abe nayo nantoni na enokukrazulwa kwaye iginywe. Kunoko, khetha iibhola zerabha (ezi zinzima ukukrazula), izilwanyana ezifakwe kwi-puppy ezikhuselekileyo, okanye imilenze eyenziwe nge-nylon eqiniweyo. Cela iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso kwabanye abanini bezinja.
Izinto zokudlala zekati ezidumileyo ziquka iintonga zeentsiba kunye neepeni zelaser. Kwaye, ungalibali izinto zakudala: ikati kunye neebhokisi ezindala. Ewe, iikati nazo ziyazithanda iilekese, ngoko landela eli cebiso lingasentla xa ukhetha ilekese yekati yakho.
Cinga ngokunyathela okanye ukunyathela isilwanyana sakho
Ukuthenwa ngesiqhelo kunokwenziwa kwangoko kwiiveki ezisibhozo ubudala. Amaxesha amaninzi, nangona kunjalo, ukuthenwa kwenziwa kwisithuba seenyanga ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-6 kwaye ngaloo ndlela kwangexesha elifanelekileyo ngaphambi kokuba isilwanyana sifikelele ekufikiseni. Abanye abanikazi bezilwanyana zasekhaya bakhetha ukungasilahli isilwanyana sabo ngokusekelwe kwimvakalelo yokuba isilwanyana siya kuphulukana nenxalenye yesazisi saso, okanye ukuba isilwanyana siya kuphulukana noluvo lokuba siza kuzikhusela sona okanye umnini waso. Oku akuyonyani.
Eyona nto ingcono onokuthi uyenze kwisilo-qabane sakho kukuba usikhuphe okanye sifakwe inzala. Ewe, isilwanyana ngokuqhelekileyo siye sibe ndlongondlongo emva kokuncanca, kodwa oko akwenzi inja ingabi naxhala lokuzikhusela yona okanye intsapho yayo. Injakazi yakho nayo ayiyi kuziva ingafaneleki kangako kuba ayinakuba neenjana. I worse ancame amantshontsho akhe kunoba angazala tu. Akayi kuwuqonda umahluko. Nangona kunjalo, uya kuqhuba umngcipheko ophantsi webele kunye nomhlaza wesibeleko. Ukuba uziva ungaqinisekanga, cela ingcebiso kugqirha wezilwanyana.
Fumana i-ID yakho yesilo-qabane imakishwe
Okokugqibela, qiniseka ukuba ufake itshiphu kwintshontsho/intshontsho lakho. Ukuba ukhe wabaleka (into eyenzekayo kumntu wonke ngaxa lithile), ufuna ukwazi ukuba unokubuyiselwa kuwe. Nika umqala wesilwanyana kunye neenkcukacha zakho zoqhagamshelwano kwaye uqinisekise ukuba uneefoto ezikhoyo. Oku kukuvumela ukuba nobabini nilandele ukukhula kwesilwanyana sasekhaya, kodwa xa imini ifika xa isilwanyana sibaleka, ufuna ukukwazi ukuba neefoto ezihlaziyiweyo zokuseta. Usenokufuna ukucinga ngokufakela isidluliseli seGPS kwikhola yesilo-qabane sakho.
I-microchip yindlela efanelekileyo yokuchonga isilwanyana kunye nokudibanisa oku kunye nekhola kwenza kube lula ukufumana isilwanyana esilahlekileyo. Khumbula ukuhlaziya iinkcukacha zakho zoqhagamshelwano nenkampani ebonelela ngolwazi olukwitshiphu.
Ngaba uya kuba nexesha lokuphuma nenja yakho kathathu ngemini? Ngaba uyakhumbula ukonwabisa ikati yakho rhoqo ebusuku? Ukuba impendulo nguhayi kwaye awunaye umntu onokukunceda kule nto, yima. Emva koko cinga ngokufumana intlanzi, i-parakeet, okanye esinye isilwanyana esingafuni kakhulu kuwe.