Mary Allen
Payenera kukhala maphunziro amphaka. Koma ngati uchita molakwika, ukhoza kumuwopsyeza wokondedwa wako. Muyenera kupewa izi 7 zolakwika!
Kambuku akabwera kunyumba, m'banjalo watsopanoyo mwachibadwa ayeneranso kuphunzira malamulo angapo a masewerawo. Pamene kulera mphaka Komabe, pali zolakwa zazikulu zimene muyenera ndithudi kupewa ngati simukufuna kusokoneza ubwenzi ndi kugwirizana ndi bwenzi wanu wamng'ono anayi-miyendo.
Palibe Chiwawa
Ziribe kanthu zomwe mphaka wanu wakhala akuchita, kumenya kapena mitundu ina yachiwawa sikuyenera konse (tikubwereza, POPANDA!) Kukhala yankho.
Kupatulapo kuti nkhanza kwa nyama ndi wamantha komanso mopanda chilungamo, mukuchitanso kusakhulupirika kwa nyamayo. Mphaka wanu nthawi zonse amakugwirizanitsani ndi zowawa ndi mantha, osati ndi chikondi kapena chisamaliro monga momwe ziyenera kukhalira.
Chidziwitsochi ndi chofunikira kwambiri kwa ife. Choncho ndi kumayambiriro kwa malangizo onse.
Osakuwa
Amphaka amamva bwino kwambiri. Kotero, ngati mufuula chifukwa cha mkwiyo kapena m'dzina la maphunziro, makutu a mphaka adzapweteka ndipo pali mwayi waukulu kuti adzakhala ndi mantha.
Ngati mukufuna kumveketsa bwino mphaka wanu kuti wachita cholakwika, molimba koma osati mokweza mawu akuti "Ayi" akulimbikitsidwa.
Kumbukirani nthawi zonse. Makamaka ngati mwakwiya kapena mwangochita mantha kwambiri. Izi zikhoza kukhala choncho, mwachitsanzo, ngati mphaka ikuluma mapazi anu. Kenako yesani kukhala chete.
Ubweya wa pakhosi ndi wovuta
Anthu ambiri amanyamula amphaka awo ndi khosi lawo kuti awaphunzitse. Izi zili zomveka chifukwa makolo amphaka amanyamulanso ana awo mwanjira imeneyi.
Komabe amphaka sagwira ana awo pakhosi kuti alere anawo. Ndicho chifukwa chake sizikupanga nzeru kuti munthu agwire mwamphamvu pamenepo.
Ngati mutagwira molakwika kapena ngati nyama zazikulu zikwezedwa motere, pali chiopsezo chachikulu chovulazidwa ndi bwenzi lanu la miyendo inayi, chifukwa chake muyenera kupewa izi ngakhale zitakhala bwanji.
Kukakamizidwa kokha mumtheradi (!) mwadzidzidzi
Pokhapokha ngati mphaka wanu ali pachiwopsezo cha kufa, monga kupita kwa vet kapena kufuna mankhwala ofunikira, palibe chifukwa chilichonse chomukakamiza kuchita chilichonse.
Ndi ubongo pang'ono ndi malangizo oyenera, mutha kutsimikizira mphaka wanu kuti achite zomwe mukufuna popanda kukakamizidwa. Ndipo ngati sichinthu chofunikira, muyenera kulola mphaka kukhala mphaka.
Monga akunena? "Kuphunzitsa amphaka ndikosavuta: pakangopita masiku angapo, mphaka akuphunzitsani zonse zomwe muyenera kudziwa!"
Palibe kubwereza mochedwa
Uku ndikulakwitsa kwa eni ziweto ambiri: atakhala kutali ndi kwawo kwakanthawi, amabwera kunyumba ndikupeza kuti mphaka wathyola kanthu. (Apa tikukuuzani momwe mungasonyezere mphaka wanu kuti sofa ndi yosavomerezeka.)
Kukalipira tsopano sikungathandize pang'ono pophunzitsa mphaka. Mphaka wanu salankhula chinenero chanu choncho alibe mwayi womvetsetsa zomwe zakukhumudwitsani. Mphaka wanu sakudziwa zomwe mukutanthauza komanso zomwe zimakukwiyitsani kwambiri. Amphaka ambiri amachitira izi mokayikira kapena ngakhale mantha. Chifukwa chake chonde musatchova juga kudalira mpira wanu waubweya wawung'ono.
Osaviika mphaka mu ndowe zake
Mphekesera zikadalipobe pakati pa eni agalu ndi amphaka atsopano kuti kuthyola nyumba kumatheka pokankha nyamayo mumkodzo kapena ndowe zanu. Kupatula kunyoza nyama, njirayi ilibe mphamvu. Kupatula kuti mphaka amakhala wosakhazikika ndipo akhoza kuchita ndi mantha.
M'malo mwake, yeretsani, chotsani zonyansazo (malangizo ali pano: Kuchotsa mkodzo wa mphaka), ndipo yang'anani mnzanu wamiyendo inayi kuti muthe kumuika m'bokosi la zinyalala nthawi ina.
Pophunzitsa, musaiwale kuleza mtima
Amphaka ndi nyama zochenjera ndipo nthawi zambiri amamvetsetsa mwachangu zomwe anthufe timafuna kwa iwo. Koma musataye chopukutira nthawi yomweyo ngati china chake sichikuyenda bwino pakuphunzitsa amphaka kapena mphaka wanu wam'nyumba amafunikira nthawi yayitali kwa imodzi kapena imzake. Kupuma mozama komanso kukhala chete n’kofunika kwambiri. Nthawi zina, kulera kungathandize.
Gwiritsani ntchito malangizo athu ndikusamalira wokondedwa wanu!