Ana agalu amakhala achangu komanso okonda kusewera. Kumbali imodzi, mabwenzi ang'onoang'ono amiyendo inayi ndi okongola. Pa nthawi yomweyo, ana agalu akhoza kufika pa mitsempha yanu yomaliza. Zimakhala zotopetsa kwambiri pamene mwana wanu sapuma.
Kodi pup wanu ndi hyper nthawi zonse? Amaluma, amawuwa komanso amalira tsiku lonse. Ndipo galu samayima ngakhale pa mpumulo wanu wausiku? Khalidweli silimangokhala losangalatsa kwa inu komanso kwa kagalu wanu.
Mwana wagalu amabwera ku nyumba yatsopano
Mwana wanu akalowa m'nyumba yake yatsopano, zimatanthawuza kupsinjika maganizo poyamba. Chifukwa mwadzidzidzi zonse zakhala zatsopano. Kuonjezera apo, amayi ndi abale ake achoka mwadzidzidzi. Kodi mungamve bwanji pa nthawiyi?
Galu wanu amafunikira nthawi komanso bata kuti azolowere. Chifukwa choyamba ayenera kukhazikika.
Komabe, muyenera kuyika kale malire agalu wanu. Upangiri umodzi wodziwika bwino ndikuyamba kuphunzitsa chimbudzi bwenzi lanu lamiyendo inayi. Zimenezo si zophweka.
Ndipo ndi ntchito zonsezi, musaiwale kuti mwana wanu wamng'ono amapuma mokwanira. Kugona ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe nthawi zambiri zimamanyalanyazidwa.
Galu amafunika kugona mokwanira
Kawirikawiri, mwana wanu ayenera kugona maola 16 mpaka 18 pa tsiku. Pa masabata asanu ndi atatu ngakhale pafupifupi maola 20 pa tsiku. Galu wanu wamng'ono amafunika nthawi yogona.
Akagona amalimbitsa mafupa ndi minofu. Pa nthawi yomweyo, chitetezo cha m'thupi chiyenera kupita. Ndipo ubongo uyenera kusinthika, monganso dongosolo lapakati lamanjenje.
Kugona pang'ono kumapangitsa galu wanu wamng'ono kutopa. Ndiwokwiya komanso wotopa. Kukhoza kwake kuphunzira kukucheperachepera. Momwemonso kukhazikika kwake ndi machitidwe ake. Kuonjezera apo, chitetezo cha mthupi sichigwira ntchito bwino.
Kodi mwana wanu akugona mokwanira?
Tsoka ilo, mumangowona zotsatira zake pamene galu wanu wamng'ono akulira mosalekeza. Kapena amaluma, amathamanga mopanda mpumulo, ndipo samapuma.
Izi sizongosokoneza minyewa kwa ife anthu. Ndizovuta, makamaka kwa galu wanu. Kupatula apo, galu wanu wamng'ono sangathe kulankhulana pakakwanira mokwanira. Sanganene kuti watopa. Apa mukufunidwa.
Chifukwa chiyani galu wanga sapuma?
Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zambiri zomwe galu wanu wamng'ono kapena galu wanu akukhala wosakhazikika. Kodi munayamba mwadzifunsapo ngati mukuvutitsa mwana wanu? Mwinamwake mwatanganidwa kwambiri ndi mnzanu wapanyumba watsopano.
Zoonadi, kumakopa kwambiri kumusisita. Kumukumbatira kapena kumutchula dzina lake. Komabe, kusamala kwambiri ndizovuta kwambiri kwa ana agalu.
Chifukwa agalu amafunika nthawi yosiyana kuti akhazikike. Ena amakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri. Amasintha pang'onopang'ono kuti agwirizane ndi zochitika zatsopano.
Onetsetsani kuti galu wanu atha kuthawa. Makamaka m'masiku oyambirira, ana agalu ayenera kukhala ndi malo abwino oti athawireko. Malo akhale chete. Ndipo kawirikawiri kawirikawiri. Koma osati kutali kwambiri ndi inu.
Zomwe zimathandiza kuthana ndi kusakhazikika kwa ana agalu
- Pumulani m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku wa galu
- Bokosi la agalu ngati pothawa
- yesetsani kupuma
Chifukwa chake, yang'anirani zomwe zingayambitse mwana wanu kuti asapume. Pokhapokha mungathe kuthana ndi vutoli.
Bweretsani bata m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku wa galu
Konzani malo abwino agalu wanu. Iyenera kukhala yabata komanso yotetezedwa. Kaya dengu la galu kapena bulangeti la agalu. Zili ndi inu kwathunthu. Ndi galu wanu.
Agalu ambiri amakhala omasuka m'mapanga ogona. Ena amakonda bulangeti. Mutha kutambasula pamenepo. Posachedwapa mudzazindikira zomwe mwana wanu amakonda kwambiri.
Ndiye, mwana wanu akachoka, musiyeni yekha. Zimenezi zimakhala choncho makamaka ngati muli ndi ana m’nyumba. Ndikosangalatsa kuweta kamwanako. Ndipo kumukumbatira. Koma akufunika kupuma.
Bokosi la agalu ngati malo abwino othawirako
Bokosi loyendetsa agalu kapena dengu lotsekedwa ndiloyenera. Malowa ali ndi zolinga ziwiri. Ndi malo opumirako komanso thandizo la maphunziro. Konzani bokosi bwino. Mukhoza kupachika bulangeti pamwamba pake. Umu ndi momwe mungakwaniritsire phanga.
Pang'onopang'ono dziwitsani mwana wanu bokosi ili. Kuti muchite izi, siyani chitseko cha bokosi lotseguka. Zakudya zochepa mkati ziyenera kukopa galu wanu.
Yesetsani kuziyika m'bokosi. Muyenera kukhala oleza mtima kwambiri pankhani yophunzitsa. Chitani mwachifatse. Ndipo yesetsani. Ndipo izi mpaka galu wanu atakhazikika m'bokosi. Musaiwale mphotho.
Yesetsani kugona pamalo ogona
Kodi galu wanu amapita kumalo amenewa yekha ndi kugona momasuka? Kenako mutseke chitseko kwa kamphindi. Pambuyo pake, tsegulaninso chitseko ndikumupatsa mphoto. Onjezani pang'onopang'ono nthawi ino.
Galu wanu adzapuma mu bokosi lotsekedwa. Izi ndi zabwino kwambiri, makamaka usiku. Kodi chiweto chanu chikufunika kutuluka panja kuti chimasulire? Ndiye izo zidzagwedezeka. Agalu amapewa kuipitsa malo awo ogona.
Mutha kuchitapo kanthu nthawi yomweyo. Izi sizimangopangitsa galu wanu kukhala wodekha. Adzasweka panyumba mofulumira. Galu wanu akachoka, siyani kumugwira. Ndipo musalankhule naye.
Yesetsani kupuma
Phunzitsani chizindikiro cha bata. Nthawi iliyonse mwana wanu wagona pansi, mukhoza kupereka chizindikiro ichi. Mukhoza kumangapo pambuyo pake.
Chizindikiro chophunzitsidwa chingakhalebe chothandizira galu wanu akakula. Chifukwa nyama yanu idzadziwa nthawi yomweyo kuti mpumulo ukufunika tsopano.
Kodi ndingaphunzitse bwanji ana agalu kukhala chete?
Kodi galu wanu wasangalala kale? Kodi amalumpha, kuuwa, ndi kuluma? Ndiye muyenera kumukhazika pansi kaye. Njira yachangu yochitira izi ndi malangizo osavuta awa:
- Musanyalanyaze galu wanu.
- Pewani kuyang'ana maso.
- Yang'anani kumbali kapena tulukani m'chipindamo.
Ndi chidwi chilichonse, ana agalu amatha kuwonjezereka.
Mavuto ang'onoang'ono pophunzitsa agalu amakula
Mulimonsemo simuyenera kulola galuyo kukuphunzitsani? Ndizofulumira kuposa momwe timafunira kuvomereza. Chifukwa ana agalu amakonda kutikulunga ndi zala zathu zazing'ono. Khalidwe nthawi zambiri limabwera kuchokera kwa ife zomwe pambuyo pake zimakhala chifukwa cha zolakwika pakuphunzitsa agalu.