Mary Allen
Hiki i nā keiki a me nā ʻīlio ke lilo i hoʻokahi puʻuwai a hoʻokahi ʻuhane, ʻoiai ke ulu pū lākou. Eia naʻe, pono e aʻo mua nā keiki ʻaʻole he poʻe huluhulu a pōkole ka ʻīlio. Hiki iā ʻoe ke heluhelu ma ʻaneʻi i ka hana hewa pinepine ʻana o nā keiki i ka wā e pili ana i nā ʻīlio.
Hoʻopili lākou iā lākou, holo i luna o lākou e ʻakaʻaka - ma kēia, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole makemake nā keiki e hoʻonāukiuki i nā ʻīlio, akā e hōʻike i ko lākou aloha. Eia nō naʻe, i nā ʻīlio, loaʻa pinepine kēia i ka hopena like ʻole.
I ka wa e makemake ai na kamalii e puliki a e apo i na ilio
ʻAʻole ʻike nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi i nā ʻīlio ma ke ʻano he mau holoholona, akā, he mau kaikunāne a i ʻole nā holoholona pipi. Hiki iā lākou ke ʻapo i ka holoholona, e kaomi i kona poʻo i kona poʻo, a i ʻole e moe ma luna. Eia naʻe, pilikia nā ʻīlio he nui. ʻAʻole hiki i nā keiki ke wehewehe i nā hōʻailona o nā hoa wāwae ʻehā, no laila hiki i nā ʻīlio ke hōʻike i kā lākou koi nui a i ʻole ko lākou hōʻeha ʻana me nā hōʻailona "ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī", e like me ka ʻūhū a me ka ʻili.
Ke pāʻani nā keiki
Pāʻani nā keiki, a, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki ke pāpā ʻia mai ka hana ʻana pēlā. Eia nō naʻe, hoʻopiʻi lākou i kekahi manawa i nā ʻano hahai holoholona - no ka laʻana, ke pāʻani lākou i ka hopu. Ke hoʻololi nā ʻīlio i kā lākou ʻano hahai holoholona, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka mālama ʻana iā lākou. I ka hihia koʻikoʻi, hiki i nā pōʻino ke hiki mai.
Pēlā nō, ʻaʻole pono nā keiki e pāʻani me nā ʻīlio a i ʻole e holo ma hope o lākou i nā manawa a pau. Pili kēia inā haʻalele ka ʻīlio i ka lumi. A laila, hiki paha iā ia ke haʻalele me ka manaʻo e loaʻa ka maluhia. Pono nā mākua e hoʻomaopopo i kēia a hoʻohuli i ke keiki mai ka ʻīlio.
Ke hoʻopilikia nā keiki i ka hiamoe a i ʻole ka ʻai ʻana o kāu ʻīlio
Pēlā nō i ka wā e hiamoe ai a ʻai paha nā ʻīlio: makemake lākou i ka maluhia a me ka noho mālie, ʻaʻole i hoʻopilikia ʻia. I mua o nā mea pilikia, hiki i nā ʻīlio ke pale i kā lākou meaʻai a i kahi huna paha. No laila, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā keiki i ka wā liʻiliʻi e aʻo i ka mahalo i nā manawa hoʻomaha o kā lākou mau hoa wāwae ʻehā.
Ke hoʻomāʻewaʻewa a hōʻeha paha nā keiki i nā ʻīlio
I loko o ka manaʻo kiʻekiʻe, ʻike ʻole paha nā keiki i ka ʻike ʻole a poina paha i ka hōʻeha a hoʻonāukiuki paha i nā ʻīlio. He ʻoiaʻiʻo loa kēia no nā keiki ma lalo o ʻehā mau makahiki ʻaʻole i ʻike i ke ʻano o ke aloha me nā ʻīlio. ʻO ka mea i ʻike ʻia iā lākou he pāʻani hiki ke hōʻeha nui i ka ʻīlio - no ka laʻana, huki i ka huelo.
No ke aha he mea nui i nā keiki ke mālama pono i nā ʻīlio?
Ke manaʻo ka ʻīlio i ka hoʻoweliweli, hakakā pinepine lākou. Ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, ma kahi o 2.8 miliona mau keiki i nahu ʻia e nā ʻīlio i kēlā me kēia makahiki. Ma kāna puke Living with Dogs and Children, kākau ka mea kākau ʻo Colleen Pelar he 61 pakeneka o nā keiki i nahu ʻia e nā ʻīlio mai ka home hoʻokahi. Hōʻike kēia i ka hoʻonaʻauao kūpono a me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i nā ʻīlio hiki ke pale i kēia a i ʻole kēlā hanana.
He aha nā mea hiki i nā mākua ke hana?
ʻAʻole ʻōlelo ʻia e haʻalele i nā keiki, a me ka ʻīlio wale nō ke noho lākou i loko o ka lumi hoʻokahi. ʻO ka mea nui, ʻaʻole hiki i nā keiki liʻiliʻi ke loiloi i nā pōʻino a i ʻole ke wānana i ka hopena o kā lākou hana. Ke hiki nā keiki i nā makahiki kula mua, hiki iā lākou ke aʻo i ka mālama ʻana i nā ʻīlio ma o ka pāʻani ʻana. Hoʻopili kēia, no ka laʻana, pehea e alakaʻi ai i ke kaula a i ʻole pehea e hāʻawi pono ai i nā meaʻai. Eia kekahi, kōkua ka hoʻolohe kumu maikaʻi i nā ʻīlio.