UMary Allen
Ukulumula amakati kusuka ekunwayeni iphepha lodonga akulula futhi kudinga isineke, ukuzola, nokungaguquguquki. Kodwa-ke, ukuqeqeshwa kuyafaneleka futhi, uma kuphumelele, kuzosindisa abanikazi bekati ukukhungatheka okuningi nomsebenzi wokulungisa.
Kumhlahlandlela wethu wokugcina, sichaze ukuthi kungenzeka izimbangela yokuklwebheka kwephepha lodonga okungafunwa. Ukuze umise amakati ukuthi anganwayi iphepha lodonga, kubalulekile ukwazi izizathu zokuziphatha kwawo. Uma kunjalo, ungaqala ukuxazulula inkinga.
Amakati Alunyuliwe Ekuklwebheni Iphephadonga: Susa Izimbangela
Uma kungekho amathuba okwanele okuklwebha ukusola ngokuziphatha komngane wakho onemilenze emine, kufanele ukwandise ifulethi ngokufanele. Isikhala esisodwa noma ezimbili ekamelweni kufanele zivumele ingane yakho ukuthi ilole izinzipho zayo. Kuhle uma unikeza izinketho ezahlukene zalokhu. Ukunwaya izihlahla, ukunwaya amagagasi, noma amabhodi alula okuklwebha odongeni ehlangene namanye kwenza ukulola izinzipho zakhe kube yinto ejabulisayo. Nazi izibonelo ezimbalwa.
Cabangela ukuhlikihla i-catnip emathubeni amasha okunwaya ukuze abenze alinge nakakhulu ikati lakho.
Uma usola ukuthi ukuziphatha kwakhe kwendawo kukhuthaza ingwe yakho yasendlini ukuthi iklwebhe iphepha lodonga, kufanele ucele ukuthi ihlinzwe. Ngoba lokhu kuvame ukuhambisana nokunye ukuziphatha okungafunwa njenge ukumaka futhi meowing kakhulu, lena inketho engcono kakhulu.
Uma isithukuthezi siyimbangela yokuqhwala kusithombe sangemuva, indlela engcono kakhulu yokugqashula umkhuba wekati lakho ukuthola ukunakwa okwengeziwe. Faka isikhathi sokudlala esijwayelekile, zama ukumgcina ematasa ngamathoyizi e-intelligence njenge- ibhodi lokudlala, futhi unikeze enkulu ukunwaya okuthunyelwe ukuze adlale naye.
Uma ikati lakho ligcinwe lodwa, kufanele ucabange ngekati lesibili elingagijima nalo lize lineliseke enhliziyweni yalo. Ukushiya indlu ikhululekile kungakusiza futhi kukusize ugqashule umkhuba wokunwaya iphepha lodonga.
Ukuqeqeshwa Ukumisa Ikati Lakho Ekuklwebheni Iphephadonga
Naphezu kwayo yonke imizamo yokuqeda izimbangela zokunwaya kwamaphephadonga, kusengenzeka ukuthi ikati lakho selivele selijwayele futhi aliqondi ukuthi kungani kufanele liyeke manje. Manje sekuyithuba lakho lokumchazela lokho.
Okubalulekile lapha wukungaguquguquki esikhundleni sokuthethisa. Ukuthethisa ngokuvamile akusizi ngalutho noma kuholela kokuphambene nomphumela othenjwayo. Ukungaguquguquki kusho: konke ukuklwebheka kwesithombe sangemuva (ngempela wonke umuntu) kulandelwa ukuqina umyalo othi “Cha!” Bese ubeka ikati lakho endaweni yalo yokuklwebha noma enye indlela lapho ukunwaya kukhuthazwa khona.
Uma ikati lakho likwenza kahle lokhu, lidumise. Ungakwenza futhi lokhu uma ikati lakho libheka okuthunyelwe esikhundleni sephepha lodonga. Kungathatha isikhashana ukuthi ukuqeqeshwa kwakho kugxile - yiba nesineke futhi uqhubeke kukho, kuyafaneleka.