UMary Allen
Ukuhlalisana nemidlwane akunzima futhi kubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yezinja yakamuva. Kodwa lokho kusho ukuthini ngempela futhi ungenza kanjani umnikelo omuhle kuwo ngokwakho? Sikuphendulela le mibuzo neminye lapha.
Isifundo Sebhayoloji Esifushane
Ngemva kokuzalwa kwemidlwane, wonke amangqamuzana ezinzwa kancane kancane ahlangana namanye amangqamuzana ezinzwa. Izixhumanisi, ama-synapses, avumela abathumeli ukuba balethe ukwaziswa okudingekayo kusuka kwelinye ingqamuzana lezinzwa kuya kwelinye. Yebo, lokhu kubhalwe ngendlela elukhuni nelula, kodwa kufinyelela umnyombo wendaba.
Ama-transmitters - izinto ezithumela imizwa - zakheka ebuchosheni futhi lapho umfutho we-puppy uhlangabezana nakho kusuka kumfuyi emasontweni ambalwa okuqala okuphila, kukhiqizwa izinto eziningi ze-messenger, ama-synapses akhiwa kanye namaseli ezinzwa axhunywe kunethiwekhi. Ngokuphambene nalokho, uma umdlwane ungavezwanga ekushukunyisweni okwanele, khona-ke ukukhiqizwa kwezinto zezithunywa kuyancishiswa futhi ngaleyo ndlela ukuxhumana kwemizwa nakho kuncipha. Umdlwane onamangqamuzana ezinzwa axhumene kancane awuqiniseki ngokuhamba kwesikhathi njengomdlwane osuchayeke ezintweni eziningi ezahlukene. Lokhu kungabonisa nokushoda okuvela kamuva ekuphileni, okufana nokuphazamiseka kwezimoto noma izinkinga zokuziphatha.
Uma umfuyi enze umsebenzi omuhle, khona-ke umdlwane akagcini nje ngokuba "nezinzwa ezinhle", futhi ufunda kalula. Kuyasiza futhi uma umdlwane uhlangabezane nezinga elithile lokucindezeleka emasontweni ambalwa okuqala. Lena yiyona ndlela kuphela angakwazi ngayo ukwakha izinga eliphezulu lokubekezelela ukukhungatheka, okuzomenza kamuva abe yinja ekhululekile, eqinisekayo.
Incazelo yethi “Socialization”
Ukuhlalisana kwemidlwane ngokuvamile kusho ukuthi umdlwane uthola ukwazi okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka emasontweni ambalwa okuqala, isibonelo, abanye abantu, izinja, kodwa nezimo, imisindo, nokunye okuvelayo okusha.
Kodwa empeleni, ukuhlalisana kunqunyelwe ekusebenzelaneni nezinye izidalwa eziphilayo. Okokuqala, lokhu kuhlanganisa ukubhekana nomama wenja kanye nezingane zakubo, bese kuba nokuxhumana nabantu. Yiqiniso, kokubili ukujwayela kanye nokuzijabulisa nomdlwane kubalulekile uma umdlwane uzoba inja elinganiselayo. Akuzona kuphela izinyanga ezine zokuqala ezibalulekile, kodwa futhi isigaba senja encane futhi ngokuyisisekelo impilo yonke yenja. Phela ungumfundi wempilo yakhe yonke. Kodwa-ke, ikakhulukazi "esigabeni sokwenza" (kuze kufike evikini le-16 lokuphila), kunezinto ezimbalwa okufanele uzicabangele.
Ukuhlalisana Kwezingane: Kuqala Ngomfuyi
Ngokufanelekile, umdlwane uzohlala nomfuyi kuze kube yilapho okungenani usunamasonto angu-8 ubudala ukuze ukwazi ukwenza okuhlangenwe nakho kwawo kokuqala okubalulekile endaweni oyijwayele futhi uthuthuke kuze kube manje ukuthi ulungele ukuthuthela ekhaya lawo elisha. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi umdlwane ube nezinto ezinhle phakathi nalesi sikhathi. Abafuyi abaningi bavumela imidlwane ukuthi “ikhule phakathi komndeni”: Ngale ndlela bathola isithombe esigcwele sempilo yansuku zonke futhi bazi nomsindo wasekhishini, umsindo wesicoci se-vacuum cleaner, nezinye izinto eziningi ngokushesha kune uma bekhuliswe esibayeni.
Nokho, ngaphezu kwakho konke, kubalulekile ukwazi umuntu, ngoba kunezinhlobo eziningi ezahlukene zethu zezingane ezincane. Abakhulu, abancane, abakhuluphele, abanamazwi aphezulu noma aphansi, abantu abahlakaniphe noma abakude. Isibalo sabathintwayo siyakhula kancane kancane kuze kube yilapho umdlwane wazi ukuthi akufanele wesabe abantu, kodwa ukuthi bayingxenye enkulu “yomndeni”.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele akwazi ukuya ohambweni lokuhlola olugadiwe nezingane zakubo, lapho aphinde azi izwe langaphandle ngemisindo eyinqaba nezindawo ezihlukene. Okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle kwakha ukuxhumana okusha ebuchosheni obubuqinisa engqikithini yabo. Okubaluleke kakhulu, i-puppy ifunda ukuthi umhlaba ugcwele izinto ezintsha, kodwa azinangozi (impela izimoto ezihambayo aziyona ingozi, kodwa lokho kuzivocavoca kuza kamuva). Kulawa maviki ambalwa okuqala, okuhlangenwe nakho okujwayele ukujwayela kuzonquma ukuthi umdlwane ngelinye ilanga uzoba yinja evulekile nenelukuluku noma ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzosaba yini yonke into entsha.
Qhubeka neSocialization
Uma usulande ilungu lomndeni wakho elisha kumfuyi, kubalulekile ukuthi uqhubeke nokuxhumana nabantu. Manje usunesibopho somdlwane futhi kufanele uqinisekise ukuthi ukukhula kwawo okuqhubekayo kuyaqhubeka ngendlela enhle. Isisekelo salokhu okokuqala siwukuthembela kumuntu azochitha naye (okufanelekile) ukuphila kwakhe konke. Ukuze nikwazi ukuthola umhlaba ojabulisayo ndawonye futhi nazi izinto ezintsha. Kubalulekile ukuqhubeka nesinyathelo ngesinyathelo ukuze ungagxili omncane futhi usabele ngendlela efanele ezimweni ezimethusayo.
Njengomuntu oseduze kakhulu wereferensi, unomsebenzi wesibonelo esiqinile womdlwane. Uma usondela ezintweni ezintsha ngomoya ophansi futhi unethezekile, naye uzokwenza okufanayo futhi afunde okuningi ngokuqaphela. Lokhu kugqama kakhulu, isibonelo, lapho omncane ejwayela impilo yasedolobheni ngemisindo yayo emikhulu kanye nezinto ezisheshayo, ezingajwayelekile (izimoto, izithuthuthu, njll.). Kuyasiza lapha ukuqhubeka nesinyathelo ngesinyathelo futhi kancane kancane wandise i-stimu. Ungamphazamisa ngokudlala, ngakho-ke ukuvuselela okusha ngokushesha kube yindaba encane.
Kubalulekile futhi ukujwayela ukushayela imoto, ukuya ezindaweni zokudlela, ukusebenzisa izithuthi zomphakathi noma izixuku ezinkulu. Futhi: ukwethembana kungukuphela kwakho konke! Ngaso sonke isikhathi sondela ezimeni ezintsha kancane, ungamkhungathekisi, futhi thatha isinyathelo emuva uma ingane yakho isabela ngokukhathazeka noma ingcindezi. Uma uphumelele, ungaphinda ukhulise “izinga lobunzima” futhi.
Iya eskoleni
Ngendlela, isikole sezinja esihle siyasiza uma kuziwa ekuxhumaneni nezinye izinja. Lapha umdlwane awufundi nje kuphela ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nezinja zeminyaka efanayo. Ufunda nokuba yinkosi yokuhlangana nezinja ezinkulu noma ezindala. Futhi ngaphansi kokuqondisa kwezinja ochwepheshe. Ukuvakashela iqembu elinjalo nakho kuhle kuwe njengomnikazi wezinja, ngoba ungakwazi njalo ukufunda izinto ezintsha futhi uthuthukise ubuhlobo nomdlwane wakho.