UMary Allen
Izinja eziningi ziyahlupheka lapho inkosi noma inkosikazi yazo iphuma endlini. Lokhu kungaziveza ngokuhhewula okukhulu noma kuguquke kube incithakalo. Ukuze ugweme ukucindezeleka kokuhlukana kwasekuqaleni, kufanele uthole i-puppy ejwayele ukuba yedwa kusukela ngosuku lokuqala.
Ukukhala, ukuhhewula, ukuhhewula, ukukhonkotha - lapho umnyango wangaphambili uvaliwe, kuyaqala. Ukubona lapho ubuyela ekhaya kuvame ukudabukisa: umcamelo wosofa udatshulwe waba yizicucu, umgqomo kadoti uthululiwe noma kuba nebala lokuchama elimanzi kukhaphethi wegumbi lokuphumula. Iphupho elibi lawo wonke umnikazi wezinja - kanye nezinja ezithintekile! "Uma umnikazi wabo engekho, bahlushwa ingcindezi enkulu yokuhlukana," kusho uBrigitte Bärtschi waseZuzgen AG. Umqeqeshi wezinja oqeqeshiwe kanye nodokotela wezengqondo onguchwepheshe ekuziphatheni kwezinja bayazi ukuthi kucishe kwephule izinhliziyo zabanikazi bezinja abaningi lapho inja yabo izikhalela. "Isikhathi esiningi, yonke into igxile ekungayishiyi inja yodwa."
Ngenxa yokuthi izinja ziyizidalwa zomphakathi kakhulu, ukuba yedwa isikhathi eside akukho emvelweni yazo. Badinga ukuxhumana komndeni nokuvikeleka. I-crux: "Ngakolunye uhlangothi, sifuna ukuba nobuhlobo obuhle, obuseduze nezinja zethu," kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yezinja. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kufanele futhi akwazi ukuhlala yedwa amahora ambalwa ngaphandle kokudonsa ukunaka. Asikwazi ukuthatha inja nathi ukuze sikhulume nabazali noma nodokotela wamazinyo.
Ukuthi inja ingakwazi kanjani ukubekezelela ukuba yodwa kuncike kumlingiswa womngane onemilenze emine. Ososayensi baseHungary basanda kuthola ukuthi izinhlobo zezinja ezisebenza ngokuzimela zithatha ukuhlukana nabanikazi bazo ngokuzola kakhulu kunezinhlobo ezifuywa ngokubambisana nabantu abayinkomba. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhuliswa kunendima. “Inja kufanele ifunde kusukela isencane ukuba yodwa,” kusho uBärtschi. Kufanele uqale kusenesikhathi futhi uthathe izinyathelo ezincane. Okokuqala, ushiya igumbi imizuzwana embalwa nje umnyango uvaliwe. Kamuva ukuphinda lokhu kwamanye amagumbi, ushintsha izikhawu kuze kube yilapho ekugcineni uphuma endlini isikhathi esifushane. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungawuvalelisi umdlwane uma uhamba, noma ungawuncomi uma usubuya. Okufanelekile, inja akufanele iqaphele ukuthi umnakekeli wayo uyaphuma ekamelweni. Uma inja indala, izothatha isikhathi eside ize ifunde ukukhululeka futhi iyodwa. Futhi, izinja eziningi ezindala azisathandi ukushiywa zodwa, naphezu kokuqeqeshwa okuhle.
Okokugcina, umlando wangaphambilini womngane onemilenze emine uyanquma. “Inja elahliwe noma ephathwe kabi ivame ukuba nengcindezi kakhulu ngokuhlukana,” kusho uBärtschi. Lokhu kuvame ukuthinta izinja ezivela ezindaweni zokukhosela izilwane phesheya.
Qaphela Izimpawu Zokuqala
Ngokwabacwaningi baseHungary, ukukhonkotha nokuhhewula kuyindlela yokuqala yokusabela ekucindezelekeni kokuhlukana. Lena yindlela inja ezama ngayo ukubuyisela umlingani wayo oyisibopho. Ukusabela okulimazayo nakho kuletha u-Halter onqenqemeni lokuphelelwa ithemba. “Ezinye izinja ziklwebha ifenisha. Noma bangcolisa indlu ngomchamo, indle noma ukuhlanza », umqeqeshi wezinja uyazi kusukela eminyakeni eminingi yokuhlangenwe nakho.
Ekugcineni, akunandaba ukuthi inja ibonisa kanjani ukucindezeleka. “Kubi ukuthi inja ifika esimeni esinjalo,” kusho uBärtschi. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abanikazi bezinja ngokuvamile ababoni ukuqala kwengcindezi yokuhlukana kanjalo. “Ngokuvamile, uvalo oluncane lapho umnakekeli egqoka kuwuphawu lokuqala.” Ezinye izinja zigijima zilandela umnikazi wazo. Nokho, kuyaqabukela eqala ukuhayiza. Umnikazi uvame ukuqaphela okuthile lapho omakhelwane bekhononda, isicabha sangaphambili siklwebhekile ngaphakathi noma inja igadle efulethini.
“Ngeshwa, lesi simo sisaqhubeka nokungaqondwa kahle,” kuchaza uchwepheshe. "Izimpawu zivame ukuhunyushwa ngokungeyikho njengokudelela noma ukuziphatha okubi." Uma inja ijeziselwa ukungcolisa noma ukucekela phansi ngemva kokuhlukana, lokhu kungase kukhulise ukucindezeleka kokuhlukana. Ngakho-ke, u-Bärtschi weluleka ngokuthola usizo kuchwepheshe, ngoba awekho amathiphu okuqeqesha ajwayelekile.
Ukuziphatha kokucindezeleka okuhlobene nokuhlukana kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu futhi kuzibonakalisa ngendlela ehlukile enjeni ngayinye. Izilwane zinento eyodwa kuphela ezifana ngayo: Kufanele zifunde isu lokubhekana nazo ukuze zikwazi ukubhekana nezimo ezicindezelayo. Lokhu kuthatha isineke nesikhathi. “Kuze kube yilapho impumelelo iba khona, ungaqasha umgadi wezinja,” kusho uBärtschi. Okuhlangenwe nakho kubonise ukuthi inja yesibili ayivamile ukusiza. "Kufana nokuthi bathelelana bese bekhala bobabili."