UMary Allen
Manje sekuyisikhathi sokuthola ingane yakini efanele. Iyiphi kubo eyinja yakho? U-Carro Alupo, uchwepheshe wezinja, ukunika iseluleko sakhe esingcono kakhulu sokuthi uze ekhaya nomdlwane ofanelana nawe.
Yima ebangeni elifanele
Bheka imidlwane ngaphandle kokukubona. Thula, ubone ukuthi basebenzisane kanjani. Ubani oqhubeka, ozigcinayo, ohamba ngezibalo ngesithende, futhi ngubani ozimele futhi ozenzela okwakhe. Uma ungakwazi ukuma ukukhala nokububula, lalela ngokucophelela!
Cela ukuya emidlwaneni
Bona ukuthi bahlangana kanjani nomuntu abamaziyo. Ithini imidlwane elindele ukufuya, ingabe inethemba noma ilindele? Inikeza ulwazi mayelana nokuthi indawo abahlala kuyo ibinjani. Lokho kubalulekile.
Manje khuphuka uye esibayeni somdlwane ngokwakho
Asukume isikhashana ubone ukuthi imidlwane isabela kanjani. Ubani oshesha ukuphenywa, obheka ngqo emehlweni, olinda emanzini angemuva, ovunguza futhi osebenzisa ikhala kakhulu, obheka phezulu ukuze ajike azihambele? Setha ukuqaphela kwakho ngokumelene nezici ozifunayo enja endala.
Gxumela phansi futhi unikeze ukuxhumana okuseduze
Uma umuntu ethintana kakhulu kunabanye, omunye axabane nozakwabo, ukhona yini oshaya ngendololwane phambili bese edudula abanye? Kungase futhi kube isici sobuntu esibalulekile.
Cela umfuyi ukuthi aphathe imidlwane
Lapho abafuyi begcina abanye kude, ungakwazi ukugxila kokukodwa ngesikhathi. Gqoka bese uthatha umdlwane emathangeni akho. I-Pat, isuka kancane ngemuva kwekhala iye emsileni, ibambe umlenze, ibambe indlebe kancane, ibambe kancane umsila, ithinta kancane uzipho. Inhloso ukuthola umqondo walokho umdlwane owenzayo lapho uphathwa, into entsha kodwa engeyimbi. Ingabe umdlwane uphendukela kuwe bese uthola ukuthintwa noma uyafulathela? Umncane uyaphika futhi ufuna ukuphinde ahlanganiswe nezingane zakubo noma athambe futhi akubuke emehlweni, abukeke futhi azizwele ngalokho okwenzayo. Umdlwane kungenzeka ukuthi uzama ukuziluma noma uzwela kakhulu noma wesaba indawo ethile yomzimba.
Manje cela umfuyi ukuthi aphathe imidlwane
Qaphela uma ubona noma imuphi umehluko endleleni imidlwane esabela ngayo lapho othile emthembayo eyiphatha. Labo abake bangabaza ngaphambilini bangase baphephe ngokuphelele kumuntu abamaziyo.
Manje ekuhlolweni komsindo
Dlala umsindo ongajwayelekile kumakhalekhukhwini wakho, ikati elikhalayo, imoto ebhulekayo, noma iziqhumane. Yiba nezinga lomsindo eliphansi ukuze kungabikho muntu osatshiswayo futhi akhuphuke kancane kancane. Bheka umdlwane ngamunye, wenzani? Ingabe balalela ngesithakazelo, ingabe bayahlehla noma bahlangana nomthombo womsindo ngelukuluku, ingabe bayakhonkotha umakhalekhukhwini noma bazame ukululuma ucingo? Enyakazisa umsila wakhe ngenjabulo, ephakamisa izindlebe zakhe ngelukuluku lokufuna ukwazi, noma umdlwane owucabangayo ubonakala ungakathintwa nhlobo. Ukusabela kusho okuthile ngobuntu bomdlwane kanye nobudlelwano nomsindo. Uma ubona ukuthambekela kokudubula / ukwesaba iziqhumane, kufanele udonse izindlebe zakho, kungaba buhlungu kakhulu esikhathini esizayo.
Cela ukubona imidlwane kanye nebele kanye
Buyekeza ukuthi ubheke kanjani kubo, ingabe yinja enothando elolonge umdlwane wakho, noma ingabe ingazethembi ngabancane? Hlukanisa phakathi kokuqhelelana ngenxa yezizathu zokulunyulwa, indlwabu enemidlwane eminingi oncelayo ingase ikhathale futhi ingakwazi ukumelana nokuthuthuka kwemidlwane yasendle. Nokho, kunomehluko phakathi kokukhathala, ukucasuka, noma ukuziqhelelanisa nawe ngokomzwelo.
Cela ukubona imidlwane ngaphandle
Mhlawumbe engadini yokudlala. Uma zisetshenziselwa imisebenzi yangaphandle kanye nezinto zangaphandle, cishe ziqeqeshelwe imvelo. Uma kungenjalo, wuhambo oluphambi kwakho. Ukuqeqeshwa okunganele kwemvelo ngenkathi sisakhula kungaholela ekungaqiniseki. Uma ngempela ungafuni ukuba nesithakazelo sokuzingela enjeni yakho, bheka-ke ukuthi umdlwane wenza kanjani lapho ubona izinyoni, uhogela ikati likamakhelwane, noma ubona udonsa isikhumba sikagwaja ngentambo ujeqeza usuka enyonini. idlelo lomdlwane. Uma intshisekelo inkulu futhi kunzima ukuyiphambukisa, unomzingeli ophambi kwakho.
Manje bopha umdlwane owodwa ngesikhathi
Thatha igxathu kude nomdlwane. Wenzani? Ukulandela ngokumangalisayo, noma uhlezi unganyakazi futhi ubukele enye into ngaphandle kwakho? Ingabe uya endaweni ehluke ngokuphelele? Ingabe ilunywe entanjeni noma umdlwane uyasamukela isimo futhi unyonyobela ngemva kwakho sengathi yinto eyenzeka ngempela? Zonke izimo zengqondo zilungile, akukho lutho olungalungile, kodwa litshela okuningi ngobuntu bomdlwane bemvelo futhi inikeza ulwazi ngalokho okufanele ukulindele.
Isikhathi sokuluma
Cela umfuyi ukuthi akuphe ukudla komdlwane okugcwele isandla, uwuphe ngesandla ngamunye ngamunye bese uwubuka. Ingabe ukhona oba namahloni futhi alindele ukuhlaselwa ngabalingani bakhe, ingabe ukhona othukayo lapho abanye besondela? (lokhu kungase kubonise ingozi yokuhlukunyezwa kwezinsiza njengoba ukudla kuhlotshaniswa nokuncintisana). Ingabe umdlwane uluma isandla sakho ngokulamba futhi ugxume ukuze uthole okwengeziwe? Noma ingabe umdlwane utshikizisa umsila, ufune ukukubuka bese “ucela” okwengeziwe? Bese uba nomdlwane okhulumayo phambi kwakho obona ngokwemvelo ukubaluleka kokusebenzelana nokusebenzelana komphakathi. Eminye imidlwane ingase ingakuthandi ukudla. Umdlwane onjalo ungaba nzima ukuqeqesha uma ikakhulukazi ufuna ukuwuvuza ngamaswidi.