UMary Allen
Ngakho ungakwazi ukubona izimpawu zokuqala zobuhlungu enja. Ngeshwa, izinja azisitsheli uma kukhona okuzilimazayo, kodwa zisibonisa ngokuziphatha kwazo.
Izimpawu Zobuhlungu
Ukuziphatha okulandelayo kungaba uphawu lokuqala lobuhlungu:
- Ukuhefuzela okusindayo nokuzikhandla okuncane
- ukunciphisa ukuma,
- Ayifuni ukugibela izitebhisi, gxuma, njll.
- Ukunyakaza okungajwayelekile
- Ukuqina ekuseni njalo komzimba wonke
- Ukumemeza okufushane
- ukuphumula
- ukulahlekelwa ukudla
- Ukukhotha okunamandla
- Ukuluma ingxenye ethile yomzimba
- Ukunwaya okunodlame
Nokho, uma ubona inja yakho ngokuphindaphindiwe nangendlela engaqondakali ibonisa uphawu olulodwa noma ngaphezulu kulezi ezibalwe ngenhla, isb. Buza udokotela wakho wezilwane. Ngoba ubuhlungu obukhulu kufanele belashwe kusenesikhathi ukuze bungabi yizinhlungu ezingapheli.
Inkumbulo yobuhlungu iyacasuka
Akukhona nje ukuthi abantu bayazi inkinga, kodwa izinja nazo zihlushwa: inkumbulo yobuhlungu bomzimba ivumela iziguli zezilwane imbangela yaso yasekuqaleni yesifo iqedwe ngempumelelo ukuqhubeka nokuzwa ubuhlungu. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umzimba usuvele wajwayela ukuthi indawo ethile ibuhlungu. Indawo ezungeze le ndawo nayo izwela kakhulu. Futhi ngakho inja yakho isengakwazi ukuzwa ubuhlungu bangempela ngisho noma ingasekho imbangela yangempela yayo. Ngenxa yalokhu, uyaqhubeka nokubheka amasu okugwema ukuze angathwali le ndawo. Futhi ngenxa yalokho, kungase kube nesizathu esisha, sangempela sobuhlungu nakakhulu kwenye indawo emzimbeni - umbuthano ononya!
Ngakho qaphela lapho ubona ushintsho ekuziphatheni. Qaphela amalunga avuvukele, ukukhathala kancane kancane, noma izinga elincishisiwe lokuzivocavoca enjeni yakho.