UMary Allen
Wonke umuntu uyazi ukugibela kokwelapha - njengezinja zokwelapha noma ukubhukuda kwamahlengethwa. Izilwane eziningi zinamakhono angasisiza ukuthi siphinde siphile. Kodwa ingabe namakati angakwenza lokho?
“Yebo, bangakwazi,” kusho uChristiane Schimmel. Ngamakati akhe u-Azrael, uDarwin, no-Balduin, uhlinzeka ngokwelashwa kwekati emitholampilo yokuvuselela kanye nasezindlini zabahlengikazi. Kodwa lokho kubukeka kanjani ngempela? "Ukwelashwa empeleni kwenziwa amakati," kusho uSchimmel engxoxweni nochwepheshe wakwaDeineTierwelt uChristina Wolf. "Angiyena umelaphi, amakati athatha izintambo."
Izindlela zakhe zokwelapha ngokuyinhloko ziphathelene nezinto ezimbili: “Ukuthi abantu bavuleleke noma bakhumbule okuthile okuhle,” kusho uSchimmel. Eqinisweni, ukudlala nje nekati kungaholela ekutheni izingane ezinezinkinga ezingokwengqondo zizole, futhi izakhamuzi ezinesifo sengqondo esiwohlokayo emakhaya asebekhulile zingakhumbula izenzakalo zesikhathi esidlule ngokusebenzisana namakati. Iziguli ezishaywa yisifo sohlangothi ezise-rehab zingasizwa futhi ngokufutha amakati.
Umqondo wokwelapha okusizwa yizilwane: izilwane ziyasamukela njengoba sinjalo ngempela. Kungakhathaleki impilo, isimo senhlalo, noma ukubukeka - futhi ngaleyo ndlela kusinike umuzwa wokwamukelwa nokuqondwa.
Ubani Ongasiza Izilwane?
Futhi lokho kungaba nemiphumela emihle kithina bantu. Ukwelapha okusizwa ngezilwane, ngokwesibonelo, kungavusa imizwa eyakhayo, kunciphise isimo sengqondo, kuthuthukise amakhono okuxhumana nabantu, kudlulise ukuzethemba, ukuxazulula ukwesaba nokunciphisa imizwa enjengomzwangedwa, ukungazethembi, intukuthelo nokudabuka, kubhala “Isikhungo Sokwelapha sase-Oxford. ”, umtholampilo waseMelika wokuvuselela kabusha, amahhashi asetshenziselwa izinjongo zokwelapha.
Futhi abantu abanezithombe ezihlukahlukene zomtholampilo bangazuza kulokhu - isibonelo, abantu abanokuwohloka komqondo, ukukhathazeka noma ukucindezeleka kwangemva kokuhlukumezeka, kanye nezifo zenhliziyo nemithambo yegazi.