UMary Allen
Umyalo obaluleke kakhulu inja yakho okufanele iwufunde futhi unzima kakhulu. Kungumyalo lapha. Kuyo yonke indawo ukukhala kwenja kuzwakala kuduma emapaki nasezindaweni zezinja - nokho ngokuvamile kuyezwakala! Lokhu akugcini nje ngokucasula kodwa futhi kuyingozi. Ngoba inja evunyelwe ukuhamba ngaphandle kwentambo kufanele ibe khona lapho kunengozi yezimoto, abagibeli bamabhayisikili, noma ezinye izinja. Kodwa ngisho nabadlula ngendlela abangafuni ukuthintana nenja yakho kufanele bakwazi ukuqiniseka ukuthi ungakwazi ukumbiza ngokwethembeka kuwe.
Ungaziqeda Kanjani Isikhubekiso Esikhulu Kunazo Zonke
Izikhubekiso ezi-5 zenza impilo yakho ibe nzima
Uma umyalo othi Lapha ungasebenzi ngendlela ofisa ngayo, kungase kube ngenxa yesinye sezikhubekiso ezilandelayo. Hlola ngokucophelela lapho ubambeke khona.
Isikhubekiso sokuqala: Awazi ukuthi ufunani
Okokuqala, cacisa kahle ukuthi ukubizwa kusho ukuthini kuwe.
Ake sithi ukhetha igama elithi “Woza!”. Khona-ke ulindele esikhathini esizayo ukuthi inja yakho izoza kuwe ngalo myalo futhi ungayibophela. Futhi akukho okunye. Ungasho ukuthi “woza” lapho ufuna nje ukuthi aqhubeke futhi angavilaphi kanjalo. Qiniseka ukuthi uza kuwe ngempela futhi akami amamitha amabili phambi kwakho. Futhi qaphela ukuthi ungahlanganisi imiyalo yakho: ungamemezi “Toby!” uma ufuna eze kuwe—uzokwenza kube nzima kuye ngokungadingekile. Kufanele azi kanjani ukuthi igama lakhe ngokuzumayo lisho into ehluke ngokuphelele kunokujwayelekile?
Uma usuvele ukujwayele ukubiza amasamanisi wehlulekile, manje usukhetha umyalo omusha ngokuphelele, njengokuthi Command Here. Ngoba igama osalimemeze kuze kube manje lihlotshaniswa nazo zonke izinhlobo zezinto zenja yakho - kodwa ngokuqinisekile hhayi ngokuza kuwe. Igama elisha - inhlanhla entsha! Kusukela manje kuya phambili wenza konke kahle ngethemu entsha - futhi uzobona ukuthi izosebenza kangcono.
Isikhubekiso sesibili: Uyabhora
Hhayi-ke, akuyona into enhle ukuzwa lokho, kodwa kunjalo. Inja engathanda ukuqhubeka igijima kunokuba ibuyele kumnikazi wayo imane nje inezinto ezingcono engayenza: ukuzingela, ukuhogela, ukudlala, ukudla. Futhi imvamisa kuba njalo ukuthi njalo sibiza inja kithi lapho izinto ziba mnandi. Thina-ke singama-spoilsports amfaka emgqeni futhi aqhubeke. Ukuze uphule le phethini, udinga ukuzenza uthandeke! Inja yakho idinga ukuqaphela ukuthi okungenani ujabulisa kakhulu.
Futhi kulapho ungathola khona isikhubekiso sokuqala endleleni: Kwenze umsebenzi wakho hhayi nje ukubiza inja kuwe ukuthi uyifake intambo. Futhi sebenzisa umyalo lapha ukuze ummangaze ngemisebenzi emincane, imibono yegeyimu, nemiklomelo.
Siza inja yakho ifunde ukuthi lesi akusona isiphetho segeyimu:
Isibonelo, mshayele ngqo kuwe ngokushesha nje lapho ubona i-canine pal ivela emkhathizwe
Kubalulekile ukuthi enye inja isekude ukuze ube nethuba lokuthi inja yakho iza kuwe ngempela
Bese umklomelisa ngokumjabulisa futhi uqaphela ukuthi umkhiphe ayodlala futhi
Yebo, ubengadlala ngokuqondile, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ufunda ukuthi angeza kuwe naphezu komyalo lapha nokuthi umdlalo usekude ukuphela. Ngokuphambene nalokho: Uze umthumele ngokucacile.
Futhi, kwenze umkhuba ukuhlale ubiza inja yakho kuwe lapho uhamba ngezinyawo ngaphambi kokuba uqale umdlalo, isb. B. ukuphonsa ibhola. Ngale ndlela, inja yakho izofunda ukuthi ukubizwa kuyisignali yokuqala kokuthile okuhle.
Isikhubekiso sesithathu: Ubonakala usongela
Ikakhulukazi uma izinto ziba zimbi, isibonelo, ngenxa yokuthi inja isengozini, sivame ukumemeza futhi sibonise ukungezwani kwethu ngokuma kwethu. Ziphoqe ukuthi ugcine izwi lakho lingathathi hlangothi.
Noma ubani othola lokhu kunzima uyelulekwa kahle ukuthi asebenzise ikhwela lenja ngoba ithoni ihlale ifana. Nokho, kufanele uhlale unabo.
Uma inja yakho imadolonzima ukusondela kuwe, kungase kube ngenxa yokuma kwakho.
Bese uzama okulandelayo:
Gqoka uzenze ube mncane
Noma thatha izinyathelo ezimbalwa emuva, okuzokwenza umzimba wakho unciphe futhi “udonsele” inja yakho kuwe
Ithiphu yami yomuntu siqu
Qaphela ulimi lwakho lomzimba
Ngisho noma ngazi kangcono: Ngezinye izikhathi ngivele ngithukuthelele izinja zami bese ngimemeza umyalo othukuthele Lapha kuzo. Yiqiniso, izinja ziqaphela ngokushesha ukuthi "ngithwele" futhi azibonakali sengathi zingathanda ukuza kimi. Kodwa ingquza yami endala isaza ngokuzithoba kakhulu kimi. Akazizwa kahle ngayo, kodwa uyeza. Owesilisa wami, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ume amamitha ambalwa phambi kwami. Khona-ke akakwazi nje ukuncengwa ukuba ahambe ibanga lokugcina. Ngivele ngibone sengathi ngimsongela kakhulu, yize sengizehlise umoya.
Isixazululo: Kuzomele ngijikise umzimba wami wangenhla kancane eceleni bese equnga isibindi sokuza kimi. Futhi-ke-ke ngihlela ukuqiniseka kancane ngokuzayo.
Isikhubekiso sesine: Awugxilile
Ukubiza kuwumsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu kangangokuthi kudinga ukugxilisa ingqondo yakho ngokugcwele. Ngeke kusebenze uma ukhuluma ngendlela ephilayo nabanye epaki lezinja futhi ngokunganaki uthumele inja yakho umyalo lapha.
Misa uhlobo oluthile "lokuxhumana" nenja yakho:
gxila kuye. Bheka ngakuye, kodwa ungamgqolozeli
Hlala naye engqondweni yakho aze abe phambi kwakho
Khumbula ukuthi ukubiza umyalo awupheli ngokushesha, kodwa odlula isikhathi esithile. Ngisho noma umemeza kanye kuphela, ukugxilisa ingqondo kwakho kubonisa ukuthi umyalo wakho usasebenza, ngisho noma kusasele amamitha angu-20.
Isikhubekiso sesi-5: Ucela okungenakwenzeka
Ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuthakazelisa ngaphezu kwendawo ezungezile (bheka iphuzu 2). Uma wazi ukuthi inja yakho yokuzingela ithanda inyamazane, ungakhathazeki ngokuzama ukuyibuyisela enyameni yasehlathini. Mshiye ebambe ongezansi ezimeni ezikhohlisayo futhi ungaphazamisi impumelelo osuvele uyizuzile ekuphileni kwansuku zonke ngokumbiza ngomyalo Lapha futhi akakuzwa noma akakuzwa.
Ungabuzi kakhulu futhi. Ukubuyisa inja, ikakhulukazi inja encane kakhulu, emdlalweni nezinye izinja kuwumsebenzi othuthukisiwe.
Ngakho qiniseka ukuthi ulungisa isikhathi sakho:
Shayela kuphela uma inja yakho ingabekanga izindlebe zayo “ukudonsa.”
Yiba matasa lapho inja yakho ivaliwe, futhi ubone ukuphazamiseka ngaphambi kokuba ikubone
Uma wazi ukuthi ukumemeza akusizi esimweni, ungakwenzi. Ukuziba ucingo lwakho kufanele kwenzeke ngokungavamile ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma kungenjalo uzoqala phansi futhi
Usubonile: Zonke izikhubekiso ziqala ngawe! Kodwa ungathuki, jabulela nje ukuthi unamandla okufundisa inja yakho ukusondela ngokuphepha.