UMary Allen
Ngaba inja yakho ihlala ifuna ingqalelo yakho? Isenokudinwa kwaye ikruquke, kodwa mhlawumbi inesizathu esivakalayo. IPet Reader yakho ikubonisa into esemva kokuziphatha kunye nendlela onokuyiphazamisa ngayo.
Ngaba inja ikutsibela xa uhleli nje esofeni? Ngaba inja iyancwina, ikutyhale okanye ikuchukumise ngamanqina ayo ngalo lonke ixesha? Ngaba inja yakho ibeka izinto ezinyaweni zakho? Ngaba isilo-qabane siyakukhonkotha? Kucacile: umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine uzama ngamandla akhe onke ukufumana ingqalelo yakho.
Kodwa kutheni oku kunjalo? Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokutsala ingqalelo - ngakumbi izinja ezihlakaniphile, ezinamandla zifuna ingqalelo eninzi kubanini bazo. Ukutsala ingqalelo yabanini babo, aba bahlobo abanemilenze emine bathanda ukuzama yonke into.
Oku kunokucaphukisa kakhulu. Kodwa abanini badla ngokubethelela ukuziphatha okungafunwayo kwezinja zabo. Ngokomzekelo, abaninzi badla ngokuzenzekela izinja ezizilolongayo okanye ezizibambayo. Okanye ungxolise izinja ukuze zihoywe. Ekugqibeleni, inja yakho ifumana ingqwalasela efunekayo.
Kodwa unokuqiniseka ukuba inja yakho ayifuni kukucaphukisa ngabom. Inja yakho idinga ukuhoywa ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, utsho ugqirha wakho wezilwanyana. Kubandakanya uloyiko okanye ukungaqiniseki.
Yintoni onokuyenza malunga nesi silwanyana sokuziphatha?
Izinja ezininzi zikwatsalela ingqalelo kuzo ngokukruquka okanye ngumona. Kodwa nazi iindaba ezimnandi: Umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine usenokuphinda awuyeke lo mkhwa.
Ingcaphephe ibonelela ngezi ngcebiso zilandelayo ukunceda inja yakho ikhawuleze ifumane ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha:
- Mvuze inja yakho xa isenza into ekufanele iyenze.
- Qinisekisa ukuba inja yakho ixakekile kwaye inendawo eyohlukeneyo.
- Qinisekisa ukuba inja yakho iyayazi into elindelekileyo kuye.
Ngokwenza njalo, kubalulekile ukuba nomonde kwaye ungaguquguquki. Kukwabalulekile ukuba izinja zenze umthambo owaneleyo. Ukuba inja yakho idiniwe, akunakwenzeka ukuba ibaleke emva kwakho. Kuya kufuneka kwakhona ucele umngeni ngengqondo kwinja ukuze ingabonakali ikruqukile kwaye ingazixabisi-inokuthi ikukhathaze ngantoni.
Musa ukugweba ukuziphatha kwenja yakho njengento embi kuyo yonke ibhodi. Kwinqanaba lokuqala, kufuneka uhlale ujonga ukuba zonke iimfuno zakhe zifezekisiwe. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba inja yakho, umzekelo, ilambile okanye inxaniwe. Ngoko qiniseka ukuba unokutya okwaneleyo namanzi, nokuba utya ngokwaneleyo na.
Iintlungu okanye ukugula kunokubangela ukuba izinja zicele ingqalelo yabaninizo. Ngoko izinja zifuna ukusixelela, “Kukho undonakele kum. Ke ngoko, kufuneka uthethe nogqirha wakho wezilwanyana malunga nokutshintsha indlela yokuziphatha kunye nokungahambi kakuhle ukuze alawule nayiphi na into ebangela impilo.