UMary Allen
Umzekelo, ukuba inja yakho ikhonkotha kwabanye abantu xa besondela kuwe, oko kuthetha ukuba bafuna ukukukhusela nokukukhusela. Ukuba uphuma endlwini uze uqhube ngaphandle kwakhe, ukukhonkotha kuthetha ukuba: “Ndidikiwe! ' okanye 'Ndindedwa kwaye ngaphandle kwepakethi yam - ndiyoyika! ”
Ndingenza ntoni xa inja indikhonkotha?
Ukudlala kunye nokugonwa rhoqo kwenza nisondelelane kwaye komeleza ubuhlobo benu. Ungaze uthethise naphantsi kweemeko xa inja yakho ikukhonkotha. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, musa ukusa phambili isandla sakho ngakuye. Xa sele ezolile, unokumdumisa kwaye usebenze ngononophelo indlela yakho eya phambili.
Kutheni inja yam indikhonkotha xa ndisithi hayi?
Kutheni inja yam indikhonkotha xa ndisithi "hayi" ngelixa idlala? Kule meko, inja yakho iya kuba nemincili kwaye yonwabe kakhulu. Ixolo lakhe alijoliswanga ngokuthe ngqo ku-“Hayi” wakho, uzama ngakumbi ukukhulula uxinzelelo olulungileyo.
Yintoni eyenza inja ikhonkothe?
Ukufezekisa oku, unokwenza, umzekelo, ubambe ithoyizi lakhe elithandayo phambi kwakhe okanye unyango. Uya kuyifuna loo nto kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuqala ukukhonkotha. Usebenzisa lo mzuzu ukunika umyalelo we-acoustic njengokuthi "ixolo" okanye "yenza ingxolo". Kungcono ukuphinda umyalelo amaxesha amaninzi.
Kutheni inja yam ikhonkotha kwaye ikhala kum?
Ukukhula kuqala kwaye kunxibelelwano oluphambili. Ugquma kuthetha: hamba ungasondeli ndiyoyika, andikhululekanga, ndiziva ndisongelwa. Inja ivakalisa ezi mvakalelo ngesandi. Uninzi lwexesha, sinokuqiniseka ukuba ukugquma kwandulelwa zezinye iimpawu ezininzi zolwimi lomzimba.
Ndiziphatha njani kakuhle xa inja ibaleka isiza kum?
Ndiziphathe njani xa inja ibaleka isiza kum? Zola, hlala kwindawo enye kwaye uyifulathele inja – yiloo nto u-Ariane Ullrich ophuma kuMbutho wabaFundisi beziNja abacebisayo. Ucebisa ukuba ubeke izandla zakho emzimbeni wakho kwaye ulinde umnini ukuba afike.
Kutheni inja yam ihlala ikhonkotha ebusuku?
Kwiimeko ezininzi, inja yakho iyakhonkotha, ikhala, okanye ikhala ebusuku ukuze ufumane ingqalelo yakho. Ukuba unokulawula izizathu ezinje ngeentlungu okanye isinyi esiqinileyo, inja yakho ifunde ngokulula ukuba ihlala ifumana ingqalelo kuwe xa ifuna. Kwaye ngoku kufuneka aphinde aqhele.
Kuthetha ukuthini xa inja ikhonkotha ngaphandle kwesizathu?
Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zokukhonkotha rhoqo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukukruquka kwenja yakho okanye ukungabi nangqalelo zizinto ezibangelayo. Nokuba umhlobo onemilenze emine akasetyenziswanga ngokupheleleyo kwaye wenza umthambo omncinci kakhulu, unokubonakalisa ukuziphatha okungafunekiyo.
Uyifundisa njani inja ukukhonkotha?
Umzekelo, dlala utsalo lomlo kunye nomhlobo wakho onemilenze emine okanye uphose ibhola izihlandlo ezimbalwa ade abuyele phezulu kancinci kancinci. Nje ukuba ihambe, amathuba okuba iya kube ikhonkotha ngochulumanco nangochulumanco.
Inja yam ivunyelwa nini ukuba ikhonkothe?
Izinja zikhonkotha ngamaxesha okuphumla
Ngesiqhelo, iiyure zobusuku phakathi kwentsimbi yeshumi ukuya kweyesi-10 kusasa kunye neeyure zasemini phakathi kwentsimbi yoku-6 emva kwemini neyesi-1 emva kwemini ziyasebenza. Ukongeza, iiCawe kunye neeholide zikawonke-wonke zithathwa njengeentsuku zokuphumla - ixesha lokuphumla apha lisuka ezinzulwini zobusuku ukuya ezinzulwini zobusuku. La maxesha okuphumla nawo afanelekile kwizinja.
Kutheni izinja zikhonkotha xa zibona ezinye izinja?
Kutheni izinja zikhonkotha ezinye izinja? Ukukhonkotha luhlobo lonxibelelwano, kodwa hayi ngokwenene ukhetho lokuqala izinja. Kunoko, bazama ukunxibelelana nabantu kunye nezinye izinja ngolwimi lwabo lomzimba.
Ndingenza ntoni ukuba inja yam iyakhula?
Shiya inja yakho yodwa kwaye uhlehle. Okanye khupha inja yakho kwimeko kwaye udale umgama ukusuka kwi-trigger. Kwaye qiniseka ukuba ucinga ngento esandula ukwenzeka. Inja yakho ayikhuli ngenxa yokuzonwabisa, kwaye ayiyi kukukhulula ngokukhawuleza.
Ndingenza ntoni ukuba inja yam iyandigalela?
Ukuba inja iyabhomboloza kuwe, akufanele kubizwe ngamagama okanye ijeziswe. Oku kumenza oyike ngakumbi kule meko kwaye ekugqibeleni uyazi kuphela indlela yokuzinceda ngokuqhwala okanye ukuziluma.
Yintoni onokuyenza ngezinja ezindlongondlongo?
Ingcebiso ebaluleke kakhulu kwizinja ezindlongondlongo: hlala uzolile - nokuba kunzima kangakanani! Nokuba inja isondela kuwe ngobundlongondlongo okanye woyika uhlaselo: ungaze ubalekele inja! Oko kuvusa kuphela ithuku lokuzingela kuye - kwaye uzenzele ixhoba.
Ndiyinqanda njani inja yam ukuba ingakhonkothi ebusuku?
Ungayinqanda njani inja yakho ukuba ingakhonkothi ebusuku?
Icebiso 1: Musa ukuvumela inja yakho ilale yodwa.
Icebiso lesi-2: Nika inja yakho indawo eqinileyo nekhululekileyo yokulala.
Icebiso lesi-3: Gcina inja yakho ixakekile emini.
Icebiso lesi-4: Qalisa uqeqesho kwangethuba.
Ndingayifundisa njani inja yam ukuba iyeke ukukhonkotha?
Ukwahlukana nomkhwa wokubhomboloza kwinja endala
Ngokuhamba okubanzi, okwahlukeneyo, imidlalo, kunye neeyure zokonga, ubonisa inja ukuba ulapho ngenxa yakhe. Ngokuthe ngcembe uya kuqhelana nemeko entsha yaye uya kukuthabatha akuse entliziyweni yakhe kanye njengabangaphambi kwakho.