UMary Allen
Ukufumana ishawa yokwenyani kwinja esandul' ukuhlanjwa ngamava akhethekileyo ekunzima ukuba nabani na onenja asinde.
Inja emanzi iyangcangcazela ukuze yome kwakhona ngokukhawuleza kangangoko, (okanye mhlawumbi ukubona indlela umama asabela ngayo) kodwa ngamanye amaxesha umhlobo wakho usenokungcangcazela nangona idyasi ingamanzi? Oku kunokubangelwa yenye yezi zilandelayo:
Iingxaki zolusu olurhawuzelelwa okanye oluhlabayo
Njengoko usazi, izinja azikho lula ukuzikrwempa kuwo wonke umzimba njengoko sinawo, ngoko ke inokuba luphawu lokurhawuzelelwa, ngakumbi ukuba inja idla ngokuba ne-eels phantsi okanye ikhuhle ifanitshala.
Iindlebe ezinomsindo
Ukosuleleka ezindlebeni, ukhwekhwe, okanye mhlawumbi ingca yengca okanye enye into engene endlebeni, idla ngokubangela ukuba inja ingcangcazele ngokuzingisileyo, ngakumbi entloko. Nika ingqalelo eyongezelelweyo ukuba unenja eneendlebe ezinde okanye uboya obuxinene kakhulu ezindlebeni, kunokwenzeka ukuba bahlupheke ngenxa yosulelo lwendlebe. Ukosuleleka kwendlebe okuphindaphindiweyo kunokubangelwa kukwaliwa.
Kuyabanda
Kanye njengokuba usenokubaleka “umlilo okhweleyo” okanye ungcangcazele xa uziva umkhenkce, inja isenokuzidlikidla, okanye mhlawumbi ingcangcazele, ukuze ifudumale.
Inja ifuna ukuvuthulula into engathandekiyo
Kithina, isenokuba yintetho, kodwa inja inokugungqa ngokoqobo zombini uxinzelelo kunye neziganeko ezingathandekiyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo inja ishukuma ngokuzenzekelayo, njengesenzo somzimba. Oku akuthethi ukuba inja ineengxaki. Ukungcangcazela kusenokuba yindlela yokuba inja izole kancinane (ngokufana naxa siphefumla ngokunzulu) kwaye emva koko sitsibe sisonwabile ngaphambi kokuba ikati eyoyikekayo itsibele phambili emva kocingo.