UMary Allen
Ezinye izinja zilala kakuhle xa umkhathaleli wazo elele ecaleni kwazo. Ukuba inja yakho iyakuthanda ukugoba kunye nawe kwaye ilala kule ndawo, ibonisa ukuthembela okwenyani kunye nobudlelwane obuqinileyo. Inja yakho iziva ikhululekile kwaye ikhuselekile kunye nawe. Izinja zibonisa uthando lwazo ngeendlela ezikhethekileyo.
Kutheni inja yam isoloko ifuna ukulala nam?
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ukulala kunye "kunye nepakethi yonke" kuyimfuno enzulu kwiinja ezininzi. Ukubonakaliswa komanyano. Emva kwakho konke, ungoyena ubalulekileyo iqabane lakhe lentlalontle. Okanye usapho lwakho lonke.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba inja yam indijongile?
Ngokwenene kunokubakho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni inja yakho ikujongile. Uninzi lwezi zisusela kokungeyongozi ukuya kubuhle, ngelixa ezinye zibonisa ukuziphatha okundlongondlongo. Inja yakho inokuzama ukukuxelela ukuba kufuneka iphume ngaphandle okanye isitya sayo samanzi singenanto.
Kutheni inja yam indibambezela?
Ukudibana ngokwasemzimbeni luphawu lothando
Inja yakho ifuna kuphela ukudibana ngokomzimba nomntu omkhathalele ngokwenene. Kodwa lumka: Izinja azibalandeli bokwanga njengathi bahlobo abanemilenze emibini. Kwelinye icala, bakhetha ukunandipha ukusondelelana ngokwasemzimbeni ngokugonwa esofeni okanye ngokuphululwa kakhulu.
Ilala njani inja xa ikhululekile?
Izikhundla zokulala zivela kumntu olalayo oqhelekileyo, othanda ukulala ngokupheleleyo emqolo wakhe, ukuya kwi-curled-up "i-posture posture" yencinci encinci. Izinja ezilala ngamacala kunye nemilenze yazo yolule zikhululekile ngokupheleleyo. Baziva bekhululekile yaye bekhuselekile kwindawo abakungqongileyo.
Kutheni inja yam ihlala ilala ekupheleni kweenyawo?
Xa inja okanye ikati ilala phantsi kweenyawo zebhedi, bafuna ukusondela kuwe kwaye babonise ukuba bazinikele kuwe. Izilwanyana zasekhaya zikwakhetha esi sikhundla xa inkosi okanye inkosikazi yazo ingaphumli: zinokutsiba ebhedini ngokukhawuleza ukuba izinto zibaxakeke kakhulu.
Inja ibonisa njani ukuba iyamthemba?
Inja ethemba abantu bayo iziqhelanisa nabo kuyo yonke imeko, iza kubo ngovuyo xa ibiza kwaye ifuna ukusondela kwabo, kwaye isoloko ikulungele ukwenzela abantu bayo into, ukusebenza kunye nabo, umz. B. ukuyolanda ibhola okanye ukubonisa amaqhinga kubonisa umntu uthando lwakhe.
Ngaba kulungile ukubamba nenja?
I-Oxytocin ikhutshwa emzimbeni ngexesha lentsebenziswano yentlalontle, njengomama nomntwana wakhe okanye isibini esithandanayo. Izazinzulu ziyangqina: ukuba ukugonwa nezinja kusempilweni! Izinja, njengabantu, zidinga ukubanjwa ngokomzimba ukuze zonwabe. Izinja zizilwanyana ezipakishayo.
Ndiyenza njani inja yam ukuba ibambene nam?
Kwaye ukuba ungathanda ukunika inja yakho ingqalelo encinci esebenzayo, ke uyonakalisa ngokuphulula okanye iseshoni yokuphulula: Strowutha kwaye ukrwele inja yakho ngeentshukumo zokuphulula. Gxininisa kumalungu omzimba inja yakho ethanda ukuwaphatha kakhulu.
Inja yam ingona njani nam?
Awukwazi ukufundisa ukumbamba, kodwa ungabonisa inja yakho ukuba inokuba mnandi. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ufumane indawo apho inja yakho ithanda ukuphululwa okanye ukuphululwa kwaye ungene apho. Umzekelo, izinja ezininzi zithanda ukukrwelwa endlebeni.
Ilala njani inja xa ikhululekile?
Umhlobo onemilenze emine olala emqolo udla ngokukhululeka kwaye ukhululekile. Ezinye iimpumlo ezinoboya nazo zolula imilenze yazo yangasemva. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kule ndawo, efana ne-4, inja iya kuba nentembelo kakhulu kwaye ikhululekile, kwaye ikhuselekile kwindawo yayo.
Ingaba indawo yokulala ithini ngenja?
Izinja ezilala ngolu hlobo zithambile, kulula ukuzibamba, kwaye zinesimilo esinothando. Indawo yokuzola isecaleni. Xa inja yakho isenza oku, oko kuthetha ukuba ikhululekile kwaye ikhululekile kwindawo eyingqongileyo, ingoyiki izoyikiso. Inja ecaleni kwayo phantse isoloko iyinja eyonwabileyo.
Ngaba unyawo lwenja lungakwazi ukulala?
Kodwa ndicinga ukuba iinyawo zezilwanyana ngamanye amaxesha "ziyalala". Ukuba oku bekunokwenzeka rhoqo, bendiya kuba nogqirha wezilwanyana ukuba ayijonge ukuba ibe kwicala elikhuselekileyo.
Ngaba kulungile ukuba inja ilala ebhedini nawe?
Ngokusisiseko, ukusondelana ngokomzimba kulungile kuzo zombini inja kunye nomnini wayo. Ukulala ebhedini kunye nenja kunempembelelo yokuzola kubantu kwaye ikhuthaza ukunciphisa uxinzelelo. Uphononongo lukwabonise ukuba inika abanini bezinja imvakalelo yokhuseleko nokhuseleko.
Kutheni izinja zifuna ukuphakanyiswa?
Kodwa ukuba ngokwenene kukho indawo eyaneleyo kwaye inja yakho ishushu kakhulu (kungekhona kuphela xa ugcakamela ilanga kodwa nasemva kokudlala okanye ukuzulazula), umhlobo onemilenze emine uthanda ukulala yolule ngokupheleleyo ngecala. Esi sikhundla usibona rhoqo ehlotyeni. Emva koko i-paw enoboya ithanda ukuhlala kwiithayile ezipholileyo.
Kutheni inja yam ingaphumli kangaka ebusuku?
Izizathu ezinokwenzeka zokuba inja yakho ingazinzi ebusuku inokuba kukuba isinyi sayo siqinile, ishushu kakhulu okanye iye yanephupha elibi. Kodwa kusenokubakho izizathu zempilo. Ukuba awuqinisekanga, kungcono uqhagamshelane nogqirha wezilwanyana.