UMary Allen
Abanye bakufumanisa kuyacaphukisa, abanye bayakuvuyela ukubakho: Ukuba ikati ihleli kuwe, kunokubakho izizathu ezininzi. Sichaza ezona zixhaphakileyo apha.
Nokuba kukulala, ukufumana ukumbamba, okanye ukukugcina ungasebenzi - ikati yakho ihlala, ilale, kwaye ikugubungele ngalo lonke ixesha? Akayedwa kule nto: Iikiti ezininzi ezifana noku sondelelana nabantu bazo. Ubuncinane ukuba unokuzenzela isigqibo ngokwakho ukuba uyifumana nini, kangaphi, kwaye ixesha elingakanani.
Ngaba wakha wazibuza ukuba kutheni ikati yakho ithanda ukuhlala kakhulu kuwe? Mhlawumbi kukho izizathu ezininzi zoku. UMarilyn Krieger, ingcali ekuziphatheni kweekati, ucacisa ezinye zazo.
Ngokwenza njalo, uyaqonda ukuba okokuqala kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu kukuncoma kakhulu: kuba ikati yakho kufuneka ikuthembe kakhulu xa ihleli phantsi ethangeni lakho. Kwangaxeshanye, unokukomeleza ukuthembela kwakhe kuwe.
UMarilyn Krieger uthi kwiphephancwadi elithi “Catster” uchaza uMarilyn Krieger kwiphephancwadi elithi “Catster” ukuba unika ikati ithuba lokuzikhethela enoba ifuna ukuhlala ethangeni okanye ayifuni, yaye ukuba inokuhamba xa ifuna.
Ihlabathi lakho lezilwanyana likuxelela ukuba kutheni ikati yakho ikwakhetha njengendawo yayo yokuphumla:
Ufudumele
Ayivakali yothando kakhulu, kodwa kukho into malunga nayo: Iikati zithanda nje iindawo ezipholileyo, ezifudumeleyo. Yiyo loo nto bethanda ukuhlala ngasefestileni elangeni, kwizifudumezi, okanye phambi kweziko. Ubushushu bomzimba wakho busebenza injongo efanayo kubo njengengubo yombane epholileyo. Ewe kunjalo, oku kusebenza ngenye indlela: Ngekati ehlanjululwayo emathangeni akho, ishushu kakhulu kwaye icocekile nakuwe.
Ikati Yakho Ifuna Ingqalelo Yakho
Esinye isizathu sokuba ikati yakho ihlale phezu kwakho: Le yindlela eqinisekileyo yomlilo yokufumana ingqalelo yakho. Ngapha koko, kunzima ukuyihoya xa ilele kuwe njengebhola enzima ephefumlayo yoboya. Kuba nokuba iikati zihlala zihlala - ngokungalunganga - zinegama lokungakhathali: Iikiti ezininzi ziyayithanda inkampani yethu kwaye zilangazelela ukuhoywa kwethu.
Ke ikati yakho inokuba izama ukufumana iipats ezimbalwa. Ngenxa yoko, uphinda avuselele iimvakalelo ezinzulu zokunxibelelana. Kuba, njengoko uMarilyn Krieger ecacisa: Xa zifuywa, oko kukhumbuza iikati ezininzi ngokuzilungisa oomama bazo xa babesengamantshontsho.
Ngaba ikati yakho ixova umlenze wakho ngaxeshanye? Olu lolona phawu lubalaseleyo lokuba ukhululekile kunye nawe ngoku. Kuba oku kukwayindlela yokuziphatha evela kumaxesha ekati xa ububovu bakho babufuna ukuvuselela imibele kanina ngokuqondayo ngeentshukumo zokuxova.
Ikati yakho iya kuhlala phezu kwakho kuba inokukunukisa kakuhle
Xa ikati yakho ihleli kuwe, iya kuva ingxolo kunye neentshukumo zomzimba wakho ngokusondeleyo kakhulu. Ukuphefumula kwakho, ukubetha kwentliziyo yakho - kwikati yakho ezi ziithowuni ezizola kakhulu, xa zithelekiswa nezandi zengxolo ezimhlophe ezisetyenziselwa ukuba iintsana zilale. Yiyo loo nto i-velvet paws yethu ilala ngokukhawuleza xa izenza zikhululekile emathangeni ethu okanye esiswini.
Enye ibhonasi yeekiti: Ngevumba lakho eliqhelekileyo empumlweni, baziva bekhuselekile kwaye bekhuselekile.
Iimpahla Zayo
Ikati yakho inokuhlala phezu kwakho ukuba unxibe ibhatyi yoboya okanye ibhafu efukufuku kunebhatyi yemvula yeplastiki eshwabeneyo okanye amalaphu akrwempayo. Kuba iikiti zikhetha izinto ezithambileyo, ezithambileyo.
Ngexesha elizayo ikati yakho ihleli phezu kwakho, uya kukwazi: Isizathu soku mhlawumbi yindibaniselwano yomnqweno wokusondela, ukufudumala, ukhuseleko kunye nokuthuthuzela. Kodwa ngaphezu kwako konke, sisimemo sexesha elisemgangathweni kunye. Kwaye ukuba uyakwamkela oku, ubudlelwane kunye ne-velvet paw yakho buya kusondela kuphela!