UMary Allen
Ngaba ngamanye amaxesha uziva uleqwa yikati yakho? Ngaba uhlala ekulandela - kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufuna ukuya ekhitshini okanye mhlawumbi kwindlu yangasese? Kukho ngaphezulu koku kunokuba ucinga. Ihlabathi lakho lezilwanyana likuxelela ukuba kutheni ikati yakho inokuthi ibaleke emva kwakho.
Ikati Yakho Iqhele Ukukulandela
Ezinye iikati zizinkqaya njengeekati ukulandela abantu bazo yonke indawo. Le yindlela aziphatha ngayo amantshontsho ekati nakoomama bawo: Abaleka emva kwawo kuba ukusondela kumama wawo kuthetha ukhuseleko nokutya – kufana kakhulu nokuba kufutshane nabantu.
Ukubrasha kunye nokuphulula amantshontsho akho rhoqo kuya kuluqinisa ngakumbi olu lwalamano luphakathi kwenu. Ezinye iikati zilandela nje abantu bazo ngenxa yokufuna ukwazi okanye ngenxa yokuba zithanda ukuba kwinkampani yazo. Okubi koku, nangona kunjalo, kukuba xa iikati zihlala ecaleni kwabantu bazo, ziva intlungu yokwahlukana kunye noxinzelelo xa zizodwa.
Ikati Yakho Ibaleka Emva Kwakho Kuba Ikuthanda
Ukuba ikati yakho isoloko ikusukela, luncomelo olukhulu olo: Ukukhethe njengomntu amthandayo. Mhlawumbi naye uyakukubonisa ukuba ebekukhumbula.
Ukuba awukho ekhaya emini, umzekelo, ngenxa yokuba usebenza, ikati yakho ayinakufuna ukukushiya wedwa ngokuhlwa. Mhlawumbi unethemba lokufumana enye okanye enye iyunithi yokudlala kunye nokudlala.
Le yindlela obuyisela ngayo uthando lwekati yakho
Ikati yakho ikubonisa uthando lwayo – kwaye uyonwabisa kakhulu ukuba uyayibonisa eyakho nawe. Njengoko? Kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezikhethwa yikati yakho. Ngelixa ezinye iikati zithanda ukudlala ngokungakhathali, ezinye zifuna iseshoni ye-cuddle eyandisiweyo. Ngokufunda ukuqonda ulwimi lomzimba wekati yakho, uya kufunda ngokukhawuleza ukuba ungathanda ukubanjwa phi kwaye njani.