UMary Allen
Izinja zikhothwa ebomini. Kuthe nje ukuba injana iphume, unina uyayikhotha ngokuxhamazela ukuze asuse imijelo yomoya. Ngolwamkelo olunjalo, isenokungabi yinto engaqhelekanga ukuba ukukhotha kuyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi benja. Kodwa kutheni besikhotha thina bantu? Kukho iingcamango ezahlukeneyo. Nazi iingcaciso ezintandathu ezinokubakho.
1. Unxibelelwano
Izinja zikhotha abantu ukuze banxibelelane. Kodwa imiyalezo inokwahluka: “Molo, hayi indlela ekumnandi ngayo ukuba sekhaya kwakhona!” okanye "Jonga ukuba yintoni na umngxuma omhle endiwuhlafune kwi-cushion yesofa!". Okanye mhlawumbi: "Sikunye kwaye ndiyazi ukuba nguwe othatha isigqibo."
2. Ixesha lokutya
Kwilizwe lezilwanyana, xa unina eye kuzingela ukutya, udla ngokubuyela kumantshontsho aze agabhe oko akutyileyo, okusekwe kancinci nje ukuze kulungelwe namantshontsho. Injana ezilunyulweyo zihlala zikhotha umlomo kamama wazo xa zilambile. Ngoko xa izinja zikhotha thina, abantu, ebusweni, ngokukodwa emlonyeni, isenokungabi luthando lokwanga malunga ngaphandle kokukhawuleza: "Ndilambile, ndigabhe into yam!".
3. Uphando
Izinja zisebenzisa ulwimi lwazo ukuhlola ihlabathi. Kwaye kunokuba lula nje malunga nokwazi umntu omtsha. Abaninzi abadibana nenja okokuqala ngqa isandla sabo sixilongwa ngempumlo nolwimi olunomdla.
4. Ukuqwalaselwa
Abantu abakhothwa yinja basabela ngokwahlukileyo. Abanye ngokucekisa, ngovuyo oluninzi. Mhlawumbi ngokukrwela inja emva kwendlebe. Ukukhotha ngaloo ndlela kunemiphumo emnandi. Indlela elungileyo yokuqalisa inkosi okanye inkosikazi ehleli incamathele phambi kweTV.
"Ndiyakhotha, ndikho ke."
5. Khotha amanxeba
Ulwimi lwezinja lutsalwa ngamanxeba. Kudala kwaziwa ukuba babezikhotha amanxeba abo kunye nawomntu. Kude kube ngamaXesha Aphakathi, izinja zaziqeqeshelwe ukukhotha amanxeba ukuze aphole. Ukuba uziva umbi ekuhambeni kwenja, inja yakho ibonisa umdla omkhulu.
6. Uthando kunye nokuvunywa
Inja ilele ecaleni kwakho esofeni kwaye uyikrwempa kancinane emva kwendlebe. Kungekudala isenokujika irhawuzelelwe nasesuswini sakho okanye iphakamise umlenze ukuze urhawuzelelwe apho. Ukuphendula, ikhotha isandla sakho okanye ingalo, njengendlela yokuthi, "Sikunye kwaye into oyenzayo ingaphezu kokulungileyo." Mhlawumbi ayibobungqina bothando kodwa iqulathe ulwaneliseko.