UMary Allen
Ukukhetha isikolo esifanelekileyo sokukhwela abantwana akulula kangako. Ngapha koko, abantwana bafanele bafunde ukuphalisa ngendlela efanelekileyo apho, ngoko bafuna izifundo ezifanelekileyo namahashe aqeqeshwe kakuhle. Ukongeza, ewe, amahashe kufuneka alungile nalapho.
UMyaleli wokukhwela
Umqeqeshi wokukhwela abantwana bakho ufuna uqeqesho olufanelekileyo. Oku kunokuba luqeqesho olusuka kwi-FN (uMbutho wamaEkhweli waseJamani): abakhweli abaziingcali baqeqeshelwa ukuba ngabaphathi bamahashe kwaye kubantu abanobunye ubuchwephesha kukho uqeqesho lokuba ngumqeqeshi.
Kukwakho nezinye iikhosi zoqeqesho ezilungele ukuba ngumhlohli wokukhwela, njengoqeqesho lweHippolini, ngakumbi kubantwana abancinci. Isekelwe kwi-Montessori pedagogy.
Ukuba ukhangela isikolo esifanelekileyo sokukhwela abantwana, buza umqeqeshi wokukhwela kwangethuba ukuba loluphi uqeqesho analo. Abantwana ngokukhethekileyo bazuza kumqeqeshi wokukhwela ngoqeqesho lokufundisa.
Hayi Kakhulu
Ukuze umqeqeshi wokukhwela afundise abantwana okuthile, akafanele afundise abafundi abaninzi abakhwelayo ngaxeshanye. Iqela labakhweli abathathu okanye abane lifanelekile. Izifundo zomntu ngamnye zifundisa kakhulu, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo zikwabiza kakhulu. Jonga izifundo kwindawo yakho yokukhwela kwangaphambili kwaye uqinisekise ukuba bonke abafundi bakhululekile kwaye ithoni inobubele.
Yintoni iNxalenye Yayo?
Xa ukhetha isikolo sokukhwela, into ekufuneka umntwana wakho ayifunde nayo ibaluleke kakhulu:
- Ngaba sele inawo amava angaphambili okanye ingathanda ukufumanisa ngakumbi malunga namahashe?
- Ngaba iyakwazi ukulicoca ilifake isali kwihashe ngokwayo?
Ngapha koko, kuninzi ukufunda ukukhwela kunokukhwela nje. Ukuqonda amahashe kubaluleke ngokufanayo! Ngoko zive ukhululekile ukubuza kwangaphambili ukuba ngaba abantwana baya kufunda okuthile ngamahashe kwisikolo sokukhwela. Mhlawumbi kukho izifundo zethiyori ezongezelelweyo okanye ukulungiswa okuqhelekileyo kunye nokuhlaliswa kwehashe yinxalenye yesifundo. Abanye abafundisi abakhweli bachaza kanye into ekufuneka bayazi abafundi abakhweleyo xa bekhwele, ngelixa abanye benika imiyalelo emifutshane kuphela.
Ukuba ujonga kwizifundo kwangaphambili okanye ulungiselele isifundo sovavanyo, unokubona ngokukhawuleza ukuba esi sikolo sokukhwela siyakufanela wena nomntwana wakho!
Ukuqala, Nceda NgeHashe Lesikolo
Ihashe lesikolo lukhetho olufanelekileyo kwiinzame zokuqala zokukhwela. Umkhweli oqalayo ufuna ihashe elilunge ngakumbi eliqeqeshwe ngokufanelekileyo ngaxeshanye.
Iimfuno zamahashe esikolo afanelekileyo ziphezulu:
- Ihashe akufanele liloyike kakhulu kwaye lixolele iimpazamo ezincinci, kodwa kwakhona lingabi naluvelwano kangangokuba abakhweli abancinci abakwazi ukufunda ukunika uncedo konke konke.
- Ihashe kufuneka lisabele ngovakalelo kwii-aids zokuqala ezichanekileyo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye lingaphenduli ngokuchanekileyo ukuba umntwana wenza impazamo.
Akukho lula ngolo hlobo kwihashe! Ihashe lesikolo elilungileyo ke ngoko kufuneka “lilungiswe” rhoqo ngabakhweli abanamava, njengoko intetho isitsho. Ngoko ke kufuneka kube lula ukukhwela izixhobo ezichanekileyo ukuze abaqalayo bangaziqhelani neempazamo.
- Ukuba ihashe lesikolo kufuneka libe nobuhlobo kwaye lingoyiki xa lisebenzisana nabantwana ngokuqinisekileyo liyinxalenye yalo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abancinci akufanele bavezwe kuyo nayiphi na ingozi xa becoca kwaye besalisa ihashe.
Nangona kunjalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ihashe lihle kangakanani na, kufuneka kuhlale kukho umntu omdala onobuchule okufutshane - olu lolunye uphawu lwesikolo esihle sokukhwela abantwana!
Nceda Ngobubele
Ngokuqinisekileyo, amahashe esikolo kwisikolo esikhwelayo kufuneka agcinwe kakuhle kwaye ngokufanelekileyo. Awuvumelekanga ukuba ume uvaleleke kwiibhokisi ezimxinwa imini yonke kodwa uphinde uphumele ethafeni okanye kwipaddock. Ukudibana rhoqo namanye amahashe kunye nokubaleka okukhululekile kubalulekile. Le kuphela kwendlela ihashe lesikolo elinokwenza ngayo “umsebenzi” walo ngendlela elungeleleneyo.
Iisali ezifanelekileyo zehashe lesikolo nazo kufuneka zibe yinto ekhoyo. Ukuba ihashe lesikolo linamanxeba okanye libukeka ligula, kufuneka ugweme esi sigxina okanye ubuncinane uthethe nomqeqeshi okhwelayo malunga nalo. Ngamanye amaxesha kukho nezizathu zokuba kutheni into ingabonakali kakhulu okwangoku: ihashe elinerhawuzelo elimnandi linokuba namanqaku okukrazula kwi-mane yalo, umzekelo. Kodwa ezi zimele zijongwe kwaye zihoywe.
Ukongeza, iimpuphu zamahashe kufuneka zikhathalelwe. Umhambi kufuneka abuyisele izihlangu zamahashe arhuqayo ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba uyathandabuza, thetha nomqeqeshi wokukhwela malunga nokuqaphela kwakho.
Ukuba iintambo zokuncedisa zisetyenziswa kwihashe lesikolo sabantwana bakho, qiniseka ukuba libotshwe kuphela xa ihashe lifudumala kwaye linokolula emva kwesifundo. Iintambo ezincedisayo ezifana neentambo zinceda ihashe ukuba libaleke kwindawo echanekileyo kwaye lingalibuyiseli umva logama nje umkhweli omncinane engakwazi ukunika uncedo olufanelekileyo, kodwa akufanele libotshwe ngalo lonke ixesha.