UMary Allen
Unakekele ikati okanye uqeshe indawo yeholide ekhaya? Isazi sengqondo sezilwanyana sinombono ocacileyo-kwaye sithi into enokwenzeka emva koko.
Nokuba yimpelaveki okanye iholide yonke - abo bangekho ekhaya njengomnini wekati ixesha elide kunosuku kufuneka bavumele isithandwa sesilwanyana esithembekileyo ukuba sijonge ikati, ucebisa ugqirha wezilwanyana kunye nonyango lokuziphatha kwezilwanyana uHeidi Bernauer-Münz kumbutho weshishini iimpahla zezilwanyana (IVH). Kuba iikati zaziziva zikhululekile kwindawo yazo yokuhlala eqhelekileyo.
Ndwendwela ikati kanye ngemini
Nabani na obanyamekelayo kufuneka atyelele ikati ubuncinane kanye ngosuku, uyondla, khangela ibhokisi ye-litter, kwaye uhlale uxakekile kuyo. Ukuba akukho mntu kwindawo yobuqu, iiphothali ze-intanethi okanye iintengiso ezihleliweyo nazo zinokubonelela ngenkonzo yabahlali bezilwanyana zasekhaya, umzekelo. Ukuze kuhlolwe ukuba i-chemistry ilungile kwaye ngaba wonke umntu ochaphazelekayo uyahambelana, i-sitter kunye nekati kufuneka bazane ngokwabo ngaphambi kokuqala kweholide.
“Ngokuqinisekileyo bekuya kuba yinto efanelekileyo ukuba kwaloo mntu unyamekela isilwanyana rhoqo xa eholide. Ukuba oku akunakuqinisekiswa, umgcini wesilwanyana naye unokutshintsha nje ukuba isilwanyana kunye nomkhathaleli baqhuba kakuhle, ”ucebisa uBernauer-Münz.
Ukuze ugweme uxinzelelo olungeyomfuneko kwizilwanyana, ingcali incoma ukushiya indlu ingatshintshi ngexesha lokungabikho, umzekelo, ukungagunyazisi nawuphi na umsebenzi wokulungisa. Ngokufanayo, iikati ezindala kunye nezigulayo akufanele zishiywe zodwa ixesha elide.
Emva kokuBuyisa: Ukhathalelo oluninzi lweekati zePout
Ezinye iikati zidla ngokufunxa okwethutyana emva kokuba abaninizo bebuyile. Umzekelo, bayajika kwaye bangamhoyi umbambi wabo. “Asizozinja kuphela kodwa neekati ziyabakhumbula abo bazinyamekelayo xa zingekho ixesha elide,” itsho njalo ingcali yezokuziphatha kwezilwanyana. Ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba amahlosi asekhaya aqaphele ukuba indlela eqhelekileyo yesiqhelo ibuyile kwaye afumana ingqalelo eninzi, aya kuphinda athembe.