UMary Allen
Intshayelelo: Ukwakha iBond eyomeleleyo kunye nenja yakho
Njengomnini wenja, ufuna ukuba nobudlelwane obuqinileyo nomhlobo wakho osenyongweni. Ukwakha olu manyano kuthatha ixesha, umonde, kunye noqeqesho, kodwa ngamava anomvuzo kuwe kunye nenja yakho. Iqhina eliqinileyo liya kubangela unxibelelwano olungcono, ukuziphatha okuphuculweyo, nolwalamano olonwabisayo. Kweli nqaku, siza kuphonononga inkqubo yokwakha iqhina olomeleleyo phakathi kwakho nenja yakho ngoqeqesho.
Ukuqonda ukuziphatha kweNja kunye noNxibelelwano
Isinyathelo sokuqala sokwakha ubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye nenja yakho kukuqonda ukuziphatha kwabo kunye nokunxibelelana. Izinja zinxibelelana ngolwimi lomzimba, amazwi kunye nevumba. Kubalulekile ukufunda iimpawu zoloyiko, ubundlongondlongo, kunye nokuxhalaba ezinjeni, kunye nokuziphatha kwazo okudlala kunye nobuhlobo. Ukuqonda unxibelelwano lwenja yakho kuya kukunceda uphendule ngokufanelekileyo kwaye uphuhlise ukuqonda okunzulu kwiimfuno zabo.
Iindlela zoQeqesho zoQeqesho oluhle
Uqeqesho lokuqinisa olulungileyo yindlela esebenzayo yokwakha iqhina eliqinileyo nenja yakho. Le ndlela ibandakanya ukuvuza inja yakho ngokuziphatha kakuhle, kunokuba ubohlwaye ngokuziphatha okubi. Ukuqiniswa okulungileyo kunokubandakanya ukuphatha, indumiso, kunye nexesha lokudlala. Ngokuvuza inja yakho ngokuziphatha kakuhle, uyabakhuthaza ukuba baphinde loo mkhuba kwixesha elizayo. Oku kunceda ukwakha ukuthembana kunye nentlonipho phakathi kwakho nenja yakho, kwaye kudala indawo yoqeqesho elungileyo.