UMary Allen
Intshayelelo: Ukuhlalisana neNja
Ukuhlalisana nenja yakho yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yempilo yabo yonke. Izinja zizilwanyana zentlalo, kwaye ngaphandle kokuhlalisana ngokufanelekileyo, zinokuba nexhala, zibe nobudlova, okanye zoyike kwiimeko ezintsha. Ukuhlalisana nenja engaqhelanga ukuba kunye nezinye izinja okanye abantu kunokuba ngumngeni, kodwa ngomonde nokuzingisa, kunokwenzeka ukuba uncede inja yakho ikhululeke ngakumbi kwabanye.
Ukuqonda Indlela Yokuziphatha Kwenja Yakho
Ngaphambi kokuba uqalise uhambo lwentlalo kunye nenja yakho, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuziphatha kwayo. Jonga indlela inja yakho esabela ngayo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, njengokuhlangana nabantu abatsha okanye ukudibana nezinye izinja. Oku kuqonda kuya kukunceda ulungelelanise indlela yakho yokunxibelelana ngokweemfuno zenja yakho.
Ukuqala Okuncinci: Intsebenziswano enye-nye
Inyathelo lokuqala lokuhlalisana nenja engaqhelanga ukubakho phakathi kwezinye izinja okanye abantu kukuqala kancinci ngentsebenziswano yomntu omnye. Qala ngokuzisa inja yakho kumntu omnye okanye inja enye ngexesha kwindawo elawulwayo, njengekhaya lakho okanye ngasemva. Oku kuya kunceda inja yakho ukuba izive ikhululekile kwaye ingaphantsi.
Ukukhuthaza Ukuziphatha Kakuhle
Ngexesha lokusebenzisana komntu-on-one, kubalulekile ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha okulungileyo kwinja yakho. Vuza ukuziphatha kakuhle ngokuphatha okanye uthando, kwaye uqondise kwakhona nayiphi na indlela yokuziphatha engalunganga kunye no "hayi" oqinileyo kunye nenye indlela efanelekileyo. Oku kuqiniswa kulungileyo kuya kunceda inja yakho inxulumanise intlalontle namava alungileyo.
Ngokuthe ngcembe Ukwazisa Ezinye Izinja
Emva kokuba inja yakho ikhululekile kunye nokusebenzisana komntu nomntu, ngokuthe ngcembe wazise kwezinye izinja. Qala ngezinja ezolile kwaye ziziphathe kakuhle, kwaye ubeke iliso ukusebenzisana kwazo ngokusondeleyo. Ukuba inja yakho ibonakalisa iimpawu zokungakhululeki okanye ubundlongo-ndlongo, yisuse kuloo meko uze uzame kwakhona kamva.
Ndwendwela iiNdawo eziLungela izinja
Ukundwendwela iindawo ezinobuhlobo nezinja, ezinje ngeepaki zezinja okanye iikhefi ezilungele inja, kunokunceda ukuhlalisana nenja yakho. Ezi ndawo zibonelela ngamathuba okuba inja yakho idibane nezinye izinja kunye nabantu kwindawo ekhuselekileyo nelawulwayo.
Ukunxulumana nabantu
Ukunxulumana nabantu nako kubalulekile kwintlalontle yenja yakho. Khuthaza inja yakho ukuba isebenzisane nabantu abohlukeneyo, njengamalungu osapho, abahlobo kunye nabamelwane. Qinisekisa ukuba olu nxibelelwano lulungile kwaye lunomvuzo kwinja yakho.
Uqeqesho lokuthobela
Uqeqesho lokuthobela yenye indlela yokunceda ukuhlalisana nenja yakho. Ukufundisa inja yakho imiyalelo esisiseko, njengokuhlala, ukuhlala, nokuza, kunokubanceda bazive beqinisekile kwaye bekhuselekile kwiimeko ezintsha.
Iindlela eziNgcono zokuQinisa
Iindlela zokuqinisa ezomelezayo, ezinje ngoqeqesho lokucofa, zinokusebenza ekuhleni inja yakho. Ezi ndlela zisebenzisa imivuzo emihle, efana nokuphatha okanye amathoyizi, ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha kakuhle kwenja yakho.
Ukuhambelana ngundoqo
Ukungaguquguquki kubalulekile xa unxulumana nenja yakho. Qinisekisa ukuba inja yakho ifumana uqeqesho olungaguqukiyo kunye nokomelezwa okulungileyo. Oku kuhambelana kuya kunceda inja yakho izive ikhuseleke ngakumbi kwaye inentembelo kwiimeko ezintsha.
Umonde kunye nokuQhubeka
Ukuhlalisana nenja engaqhelanga ukuba kunye nezinye izinja okanye abantu kufuna umonde nokuzingisa. Kungathatha ixesha lokuba inja yakho ikhululeke kwiimeko ezintsha, kodwa ngoqeqesho oluqhubekayo kunye nokuqiniswa okulungileyo, inja yakho inokufunda ukunandipha ukuhlalisana.
Funa Uncedo Lobuchwephesha Ukuba Kuyafuneka
Ukuba inja yakho iyaqhubeka nokuzabalaza nentlalontle, funa uncedo lobuchwephesha kumphathi wezinja okanye umqeqeshi. Ezi ngcali zinokubonelela ngesikhokelo esongezelelweyo kunye nenkxaso ukunceda inja yakho ukuba ikhululeke ngakumbi phakathi kwabanye.