UMary Allen
Uzulazula epakini ngeprem kweyona mozulu intle kwaye umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine uhambahamba ecaleni kweprem kwintambo exegayo – onjani ukuba mhle umbono. Le meko ayinyanzelekanga kwaye ayifanelanga ukuba ihlale iyingcinga nje, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, inokukongela uxinzelelo oluninzi. Apha sikunika iingcebiso zokuhamba ngempumelelo inja yakho kunye nomntwana.
Ukuhamba ngeLeash
Njengoko unokucinga: ukuhamba ngentambo kudlala indima ephambili kwiihambo ezikhululekileyo, nokuba kukho okanye ngaphandle kwepram. Ukuze inja ikwazi ukuhamba ngokuchanekileyo, kufuneka ifunde kuqala. Ukuba awukakwazi ukuhamba kwi-leash, qalisa uqeqesho ngokuthula, okokuqala endlwini ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka, kamva kwintsimi, kwaye kuphela kwisitrato. Usenokulungiselela iiyure ezimbalwa zoqeqesho kunye nomqeqeshi wezinja oqeqeshiweyo oya kuthi, ngeminyaka emininzi yamava, angakuxhasa kwaye akhokele ngexesha loqeqesho.
Nje ukuba inja yakho iyazi into oyifunayo kuye, unokubandakanya umntu ohambahambayo (ngokukhethekileyo ngaphandle komntwana ekuqaleni) kuqeqesho lwakho.
Inja kunye neStroller
Ukuze umoya opholileyo uphumelele ngexesha lokuhamba kwemihla ngemihla, inja yakho kufuneka ingamoyiki umntu ohambahambayo. Ukuba kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba uthathe amanyathelo ambalwa emva kwaye uqale ukudibanisa ngokufanelekileyo nomntu ohambahambayo. Oku kufanele kube yinto entle kwinja, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ihlala isesona sizathu sokuba iphumele ngaphandle emaphandleni! Musa ukumoyisa umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine ngokumcela ukuba ahambe ngokusondeleyo kuwe. Ukuba usaphazanyiswe sisithuthi, kulunge ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba aqhubeke umgama omde, ukuba nje akaqali ukutsala okanye aphazamiseke kakhulu.
Ukuba inja yakho ihamba kwicala lakho lasekhohlo ekuhambeni okuqhelekileyo, kufuneka ihambe nayo xa utyhala umqhubi. Qinisekisa ukuba unikela ingqalelo kwaye uqhwabela izandla ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo. Zigcine zimfutshane ngokwaneleyo iiseshoni zoqeqesho ukuze kulunge ukuba ungakhokeleli kwihambo engafanelekanga ekunokufuneka uyilungise. Khumbula: inja yakho ifunda kwimpumelelo! Yiyo loo nto bekuya kuba kuhle ukuba umyeni wakho, abazali, okanye abazali-zala bebenokumjonga umntwana wakho kwasekuqaleni ukuze ungaphoswa esiphelweni esinzulu xa nihamba kunye. Ngoko unokuhamba ngokwahlukileyo kwaye unike umntwana wakho kunye nenja yakho ingqalelo yakho engahlulwanga xa uphuma nabo.
Kubalulekile: Kungakhathaliseki ukuba inja yakho ihamba kakuhle kangakanani kwi-leash, ungalokothi udibanise i-leash ngqo kwi-stroller. Iziganeko ezingalindelekanga zinokuhlala zisenzeka. Inja yakho inokoyika, itsibe kwintambo kwaye itsale istroller ngayo. Ngoko hlala ugcine i-leash esandleni sakho ukuze ugweme iingozi ezinjalo.
Kuphi ukuphumla kulonto?
Ukulungiselela kakuhle sisiqingatha sedabi! Emva koqeqesho oluthe gqolo, lo mhlobo unemilenze emine ngoku wayeya kuba ekulungele ukuhamba. Konke okulahlekileyo ngumntwana wakho kunye nocwangco oluhle. Cinga kusengaphambili ngezinto oya kuzifuna ebudeni bohambo kunye nendawo oya kuzibeka kuyo ezi zinto ukuze uzilungiselele ukuhambisa ngelona xesha lifutshane kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Zive ukhululekile ukucwangcisa ixesha elide ukwenzela ukuba uthathe ikhefu elizisa ukuphumla. Kunengqiqo ukukhetha indlela ngendlela yokuba inja yakho ikwazi ukuzulazula kakhulu kwaye ikhulule amandla e-pent-up kwindawo efanelekileyo. Ngapha koko, ukuhambahamba akumele kuthethe ukumqeqeshela nje kuphela kodwa kwanokudlala nokuzonwabisa. Ukongeza kokuhamba kakuhle kwi-leash, inja yakho ifuna kwakhona ukulinganisela kwindawo efanelekileyo ukuze ivunyelwe ukuba yinja yangempela. Ngokuxhomekeke kwindlela umntwana wakho akuvumela ngayo, unokuphosa okanye ufihle into yokudlala oyithandayo yomhlobo wakho enemilenze emine uze umvumele ayibuyise. Kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba inja yakho ihambe ikhululekile ecaleni kwestroller xa ixakekile.
Phakathi, ungaya kwibhentshi yasepakini ukuze uthathe ikhefu. Vumela inja yakho ilale kwaye xa ikuthoba ngakumbi, bopha isiphelo sentambo kwibhentshi. Ngoko unako ukunyamekela umntwana wakho ngoxolo okanye ujabulele uxolo noxolo. Ukuba umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine useneengxaki zokulinda okanye ukuphumla, unokumpakishela i-chew xa kwenzeka ikhefu. Ukuhlafuna kuya kumnceda ukuba avale kwaye ngokukhawuleza adibanise ikhefu kwinto enhle.
Kuya kuthatha ixesha ngaphambi kokuba kuphuhliswe inkqubo eqheliselwe kakuhle efanele wonke umntu. Kodwa xa ixesha lifika, kuyinto entle kakhulu ukuba ngaphandle kwaye malunga kunye nenja yakho kunye nomntwana, ngokungathi uyaphupha ngayo, ngaphandle koxinzelelo!