UMary Allen
Ngokuqinisekileyo, uthatha impilo yesilwanyana sakho njengento ebalulekileyo, tyelela ugqirha wakho wezilwanyana rhoqo kwaye ubeke iliso kwimpilo yenja yakho ngokwasemzimbeni nasengqondweni. Kodwa kusekho imigibe embalwa. Apha, oogqirha bezilwanyana abohlukeneyo bachaza into ekufuneka uyazi malunga nezilwanyana zasekhaya.
Nokuba ufuna kuphela okona kulungileyo kwisilwanyana sasekhaya, ngamanye amaxesha abantu abalunganga. Kwakhona xa ujongene nezinja, iikati, iinkukhu, iihagu ezincinci-kungakhathaliseki ukuba luhlobo luni lwesilwanyana osifunayo.
Oogqirha bezilwanyana banolwazi malunga nempilo kunye neemfuno zezilwanyana zethu zasekhaya. Ungafumanisa ukuba zeziphi iingcebiso ezisisiseko abazinika abanini-zilwanyana abatsha nabanamava apha:
Oogqirha bezilwanyana bayacebisa: Yondla isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya ngokufanelekileyo
Ingcebiso yokuqala: Yondla kancinci kuneleyibhile isitsho. Kwiimeko ezininzi, imali encinci kancinane yanele. Oku kuya kuthintela isilo-qabane sakho ekubeni sityebe.
Oku kusizisa kwinqaku lethu elilandelayo: nokuba izilwanyana zasekhaya ezichubby zibonakala zintle emntwini, udla ngokubeka impilo yesilo-qabane sakho emngciphekweni. "Njengabantu, ukutyeba kakhulu kunokukhokelela kwisifo seswekile, iingxaki zentliziyo, kunye nesifo samathambo kwizilwanyana ezifuywayo," ugqirha wezilwanyana kunye nombhali uRuth McPate uxelele i-Insider.
Nangona kunjalo, akufanele utshintshe ngokukhawuleza ukutya kwesilwanyana sakho - xoxa ngalo naluphi na utshintsho kunye nogqirha wakho wezilwanyana kwangaphambili. Usenokujonga enoba ubunzima obugqithiseleyo bubangelwa kukungatyi kakuhle okanye ukungondleki kakuhle, okanye kungenxa yezizathu zempilo.
Walumkele Amayeza Abantu
Ngamanye amaxesha isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya sigula ngokukhawuleza kwaye ufuna ukusiphilisa ngokukhawuleza. Emva koko ukuya kwikhemesti yasekhaya kukhawuleza kunokutyelela ugqirha wezilwanyana. Oogqirha bezilwanyana balumkisa ngokuchasene nokunyanga izilwanyana ngamachiza enzelwe abantu. Izithomalalisi zeentlungu ezifana ne-paracetamol kunye ne-ibuprofen zinokuba neziphumo ezibi kubahlobo abanemilenze emine. Xa uthandabuza, isilwanyana sakho siya kugula, singamncedi.
Ukuthetha ngentlungu, izilwanyana zibonisa intlungu eyahlukileyo kunabantu. Ke ngoko, abanikazi bezilwanyana zasekhaya kufuneka bazi ukuba zeziphi iimpawu ekufuneka bazijonge kwiikati, izinja, kunye nokunye. Ngelishwa, izilwanyana zikwalungile ngokukodwa ekufihleni intlungu yazo; ukuba bavakalisa unxunguphalo lwabo ngokuvakalayo, ludla ngokuba luphawu lwemeko yempilo embi kakhulu.
Ugqirha wezilwanyana uTravis Arndt uchaza ezinye zeendlela zokuziphatha kwizilwanyana ezinokuphinda zibonise intlungu: utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha, ukuzilungisa ngokugqithiseleyo, utshintsho ekudleni okanye ekuseleni, kunye nokuziphatha kokwalusa. Ukuba uqaphela ezi okanye ezinye iinguqu kwindlela yokuziphatha kwesilwanyana sakho, yithathe kugqirha wakho wezilwanyana ngokukhawuleza. Kuba: Uninzi lwezifo ezibanga iintlungu zinokunyangeka ukuba zifunyenwe kwangoko. Kwelinye icala, ukungazihoyi ixesha elide kunokubeka esichengeni ubomi besilwanyana.
OoGqirha bezilwanyana: Unyango lwamazinyo lukwabalulekile nakwizilwanyana zasekhaya
UTravis Arndt uthi: "Ukugula kwamazinyo kwizilwanyana ezifuywayo kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki zempilo zokuqala ezifana nezintso, intliziyo, okanye isifo sesibindi. Ngoko ke, oogqirha bezilwanyana abafana naye babongoza abanini bezilwanyana ukuba bangaluhoyi ukhathalelo lwamazinyo ezilwanyana zabo. OoGqirha bezilwanyana bangabrasha amazinyo ngokobungcali.