UMary Allen
Ukuthatha inja kwikhaya lakho sisigqibo sobomi bonke - ubuncinci ixesha elide, elinokuthatha iminyaka eyi-18. Ngoko ke, kufuneka ucinge ngononophelo kwangaphambili ukuba uyafuna kwaye unokuthatha olu xanduva. Nanga amanye amacebiso okuqalisa.
Ikhaya eligqibeleleyo
Inja ayinakugcinwa naphi na. Ngokufanelekileyo, ukuba akayi kuhlala kwindlu encinci, kodwa uya kuba nendawo eninzi kunye negadi. Kodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo, kunokwenzeka ukugcina inja yonwabile kwindlu. Kufuneka ujonge kwangaphambili ukuba umnini-mhlaba wakho uyakuvumela oku. Kufuneka ukhethe kwakhona inzala ekhonkotha kaninzi kwaye ikhwaza - ngaphandle koko, uya kuba neengxaki ngokukhawuleza nommelwane. Ukongezelela, kufuneka kucaciswe ngubani oza kunyamekela inja kwaye nini, ukuze angabi yedwa imini yonke. Kwelinye icala, izinja ezithanda umthambo kunye nemidlalo zifanelekile kubomi bangaphandle kwedolophu. Kungcono ukufumana ulwazi kubalimi malunga neemfuno kunye neempawu zohlobo ngalunye.
Wamkelekile!
Emva kokuba wenze isigqibo ngenja, kufuneka wazi into enye: izinja zizilwanyana ezipakishayo, zifuna inkampani eninzi. Ngokungafaniyo nezilwanyana ezininzi ezincinci, izinja aziyifuni iqabane ukuze zonwabe. Abantu bakwagqalwa njengenxalenye yengxowa kunye nabahlobo bokwenene. Kuya kufuneka uchithe ixesha elininzi kunye nomhlobo wakho onemilenze emine kwaye umqeqeshe kwasekuqaleni. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha inja yakho iiveki ezimbalwa ukuba iqonde ukuba kufuneka ihambe ngeshishini layo ngaphandle. Abanini bezinja abanamava bahlala beqeqesha izinja zabo zodwa, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abaqalayo baye kwisikolo sefilimu. Iindawo ezininzi ngoku zineelayisenisi zokuqhuba izinja, ekufuneka abaninizo nabaninizo bazithathe kwasekuqaleni. Izinja ezininzi ziyakuthanda ukudlala nezinye izinja epakini.
Track Iindleko
Kuya kufuneka ufumane isishwankathelo seendleko eziya kuvela kumntu ohlala naye omtsha ekuqaleni. Zeziphi ii-inshorensi ezifunekayo? Udinga malini ngenyanga ngokutya kunye nezixhobo zokusebenza? Umasipala wakho unokukuxelela ukuba yimalini yerhafu yezinja ekufuneka uyihlawule ngonyaka kumhlobo wakho onemilenze emine. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, yenza oovimba: ukutyelela ugqirha wezilwanyana kuyabiza.
Ukungena kubomi bemihla ngemihla kunye
Ngokufika kwenja, yonke into yaba yinto entsha. Kuthatha ixesha ukuba usapho olutsha lukhule kunye kwaye lufumane ubomi obuqhelekileyo bemihla ngemihla. Uya kwenza ubomi bube lula kwinja yakho kunye nawe ukuba uzama ukuphumeza amasiko kunye neenkqubo ezimiselweyo kumhla wakho. Iindawo zokulala ezimileyo kunye ne-aft kwiflethi zibonelela ngokuqhelaniswa. Yazisa amaxesha amiselweyo ohambo lwemihla ngemihla. Kuyanceda kwasekuqaleni ukuba awusoloko utshintsha izangqa, kodwa qhubeka ubuyela kwindlela yakho yesiqhelo. Kamva, xa umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine ekhululeka, ungamtshintsha-oku kuya kumenza abe mnandi kwaye kuvuze umoya wakhe wobuvulindlela.
Phonononga Imekobume
Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala, uya kufumanisa kwakhona okukungqongileyo: Ngowuphi ummelwane othanda izinja? Ngubani oyoyikayo kubo? Zihlala phi ezinye izinja kwaye uhamba kakuhle kangakanani nazo? Kunini apho umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine eyingozi ngexesha lokuhamba yonke imihla? Inyathelo ngenyathelo, uya kuqonda okusingqongileyo ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga umnini wenja. Okungcono uyazi inja yakho, ngokukhawuleza uya kukwazi xa i-leash ifuna ukugcinwa mfutshane kancinane. Thatha ixesha lakho nalo mjikelo weentshayelelo – kungcono ukuba usapho lonke alufikeleli ngoko nangoko kumhlobo onemilenze emine, kodwa kunomntu oxhasayo osisigxina. Iyakwazi ukulinganisa ngokukhawuleza xa inja yakho ikulungele ukuphuma nabanye.