UMary Allen
Oomama beekati bathwala iintsana zabo ngokubamba uboya entanyeni ngemilomo baze baphakamise amantshontsho abo phezulu - kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ungabona abantu bechola iikati zabo ngoboya bentamo. Ungafumanisa ukuba kutheni lo ingengombono ulungileyo apha.
Kutheni abantu abaninzi bephakamisa iikati zabo ngoboya bentamo iyaqondakala ekuqaleni: Mhlawumbi uye waqaphela le ndlela yokuziphatha kwikati kunye nekati yayo. Ukongezelela, ulusu olusemqaleni lukhululekile. Ke unokufikelela apho kwaye usebenzise uboya bentamo njengesiphatho.
Kodwa ikati ayikho handbag. Yiyo loo nto ungaze ubaphakamise ngolo hlobo. Oku kunokuba yingozi, ngakumbi kwiikati ezindala.
Ngokwethuku, oomama beekati bayayazi indawo kunye nendlela abanokuthi “babambe” ngayo iintamo zamantshontsho abo. Ukongeza, iikati ezincinci ziselula kakhulu. Kwaye nge-reflex ethile, umzimba wakho uba buthathaka ngokupheleleyo kule ndawo. Oku kuthetha ukuba oomama banokuwathwala lula amathole abo kuyo yonke indawo ukuba asemancinci kakhulu kwaye ebuthathaka ukuhamba.
Kutheni ukubamba kwiNtamo kunokuba yingozi
Kwiikiti zabantu abadala, kwelinye icala, oku kubangela uxinzelelo kwaye mhlawumbi kunye neentlungu. Akumangalisi ke ngoko ukuba ezinye iikati ziphendule ngokukrakra kwinto eyaziwa ngokuba yi "scruffing" ngesiNgesi.
UAnita Kelsey, ingcaphephe kwindlela yokuziphatha kweekati uthi: “Ukubamba ikati ngoboya bentamo ngokuqinisekileyo akuyondlela inembeko okanye efanelekileyo yokuphatha ikati yakho.
Ukuphela kokungafaniyo: ukuba kufuneka ubambe ikati yakho ngokukhawuleza kwiimeko ezithile, ukubamba uboya bentamo kunokuba sisisombululo esikhawulezayo nesingenabungozi. Kodwa hayi ukuba ufuna ukunxiba okanye ukubamba ngokuqhelekileyo.
Ngaphandle koko, iikati zinokuziva zixinene ngokukhawuleza xa uzinxiba ngolu hlobo. Kubo, le meko ilingana nokulahlekelwa kolawulo - kungekhona imvakalelo emnandi! Ukongeza, ubunzima bakhe bonke ngoku buboya bentamo. Kwaye oko akungonwabi kuphela, kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu. Ungonakalisa imisipha kunye nezicubu ezidibeneyo entanyeni.
Akumangalisi ukuba ezinye iikati zilwa nayo ngokuluma kunye nokukrwempa.
Endaweni yoboya beNtamo: Nantsi indlela onokuthi uyinxibe ngayo ikati yakho
Endaweni yoko, kukho iindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokuthatha ikati yakho. Eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kukubeka isandla esicaba phantsi kwesifuba sakhe. Ngelixa umphakamisayo, ubeka enye ingalo yakho phantsi komzantsi wakhe kwaye utsale ikati esifubeni sakho. Ngoko umqolo wakho ukhuselwe kakuhle kwaye unokuwuthwala kwindawo ezinzileyo. Ukubamba kwakho akufuneki kuqine kakhulu, kodwa kuya kufuneka kubambe kakuhle ukugcina ikati yakho ikhuselekile, oogqirha bezilwanyana bayacebisa.