UMary Allen
Ukungakwazi ukushiya inja yodwa ekhaya yingxaki abaninzi abanini bezinja abasokola ngayo. Ubuqhetseba kukuqala ngokuthe ngcembe ngoqeqesho lokuhlala wedwa xa injana incinci.
Ezinye izinja ziyabhomboloza, zikhala okanye zikhonkothe xa zishiywe zodwa, ezinye zenza iimfuno zazo ngaphakathi okanye zophule izinto. Ukuze ugweme iingxaki ezizayo, kulungile ukuqalisa ukuqeqesha inja ukuba ibe yodwa kakade xa injana. Injongo kukuba inja izolile kwaye ingakhathazeki ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uyishiye. Kodwa qalisa ukuqeqesha ixesha elifutshane kakhulu, kunokwanela ukushiya injana imizuzu embalwa ngelixa uphuma kunye nenkunkuma. Kwaye uzive ukhululekile ukuthatha ithuba lokuqeqesha xa injana isanda kuzalwa kwaye isozela kancinci.
Uqala njani-Nazi iingcebiso ezi-5:
Okokuqala, qeqesha injana ukuba ibe yodwa kwelinye igumbi ngoxa usesekhaya. Qinisekisa ukuba injana inebhedi yayo kunye nezinto zokudlala, kananjalo susa izinto ezinokwenzakala ngazo okanye enokuzitshabalalisa.
Yithi “Molo ke, yiza kwakamsinya”, xa usiya, kwaye soloko uthetha into enye ngalo lonke ixesha usiya. Zola kwaye ungenzi nto enkulu kwinto yokuba uzimisele ukuhamba, kodwa ungazami ukukuphepha nokuba kunjalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ungabi nanceba injana kwaye ungazami ukuyiphazamisa / ukuyithuthuzela ngokutya okanye iilekese.
Beka umqobo emnyango ukuze injana ikubone kodwa ingadluli kuwe.
Xa izinto zihamba kakuhle, ungazama ukuvala ucango.
Buyela emva emva kwemizuzu embalwa kwaye ungathathi hlangothi, ungayibulisi injana ngokulangazelela kakhulu xa ubuya. Yandisa ixesha ongekho ngalo kancinci kancinci.
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba zonke iinjana ezinobuntu ezahlukeneyo, ezinye iinjana ekuqaleni zinxaniwe kwaye zingakhuselekanga ngakumbi. Kubalulekile ukulungelelanisa uqeqesho lokuba wedwa kwisakhono senjana nganye.
