UMary Allen
Abantu abaninzi bafumana ikati yabo ngengozi. Okanye ke bayakholwa. Yiloo ndlela iikati ezinamandla eziphembelela ngayo ukuba ngubani umnini wazo omtsha.
U-“Z” ofana nothi “impazamo” okanye “ukungena” umi ekuqaleni kobona buhlobo busondeleyo phakathi kwekati kunye “nomntu” wabo. Ngokomzekelo, umntu uthenga iphephandaba aqhele ukulifunda, ubone ifoto yekati ehlala izilwanyana, angayifumani, kodwa ekunene sele ilinde kwindawo yokukhusela izilwanyana: “Ndaziphendulela ndadanduluka ndathi: Hayi. omnye, umbi kakhulu. Kodwa laa Kitty yatsibela engalweni yam ngomtsi omnye omkhulu, ijika okwenjini yelori, yaphulula intloko yayo encinci esilevini sam, yaqengqeleka ezingalweni zam ngolonwabo. Ubuhle bam banyibilika njengekhephu elangeni.”
Ikati Uthando Ekuboneni kokuqala
Ukuba ikati ithandana nomntu ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye ekuqaleni kokubona, oko (ngokungafaniyo nathi bantu) phantse akuphosakele. Kwaye ulandela injongo yakhe ngokuzimisela kwearhente ye-FBI. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, iikati zirhangqe ngenkani ithala kunye neengcango zangaphambili kwikhephu nemvula de zingene, okanye zikhala ngokuvakalayo zicela uncedo, okanye zivumele ilungu losapho ukuba lizingenise ngokungekho mthethweni (“Umfama ufuna ukutshonisa umhlaba. ikati ukuba asimthathi “).
Xa sasicela abafundi bethu ukuba basixelele ukuba bayifumene njani ikati yabo, siye sahlala sisiva amabali angqina isigezo sakudala:
- Inja inokuthengwa, ikati iya kukhetha wena.
Kwanabo baqondayo ukuya kumfuyi ukuze bafumane ikati yomnombo kwikhaya labo (nto leyo emalunga nama-20 ekhulwini kubo bonke abanini beekati) baya kuvavanywa ngaloo ndlela kukhethwe iintsana ezibaluleke kakhulu kwaye mhlawumbi zikhethwe.
Kwanabantu abathi “abananto yakwenza neekati” okanye ikati ayingeni ndawo kubomi babo (“... indlu encinci, abantwana kunye nathi sobabini sinomsebenzi osisigxina”) bayaqinisekiswa yikati, ngoko ke. ukuthetha iPaw ejikela kwelinye icala. Kwaye ke malunga nenyaniso yokuba ubomi bakhe buhambelana ngakumbi, bucebile, bonwabile kunokuba bubekho ngaphandle kwekati.
Iikati Ziqeqesha Abantu Bazo
Kwelinye icala, iikati zibonakala ziphakame kakhulu kunathi: kwimfundo.
Ngelixa i-cat newbies, ukudideka kwabo bonke abalwela amalungelo ezilwanyana, bahlala befuna kuphela ukuthatha ama-kittens kuba bakholelwa ukuba basenako ukubumba kwaye baqeqeshe, abachwephesha beekati bayazi ukuba amathuba okwenza oko anqongophele. Iikati kukuxhathisa ukukhulisa umzali esongwe ngokuzinikela. Ewe, kwezinye iingxelo zabafundi kucacile ukuba ezinye iikati zasebenzisa iinzame zabantu bazo zokubaqeqesha ngendlela ejolise kakhulu ukuze bafumane oko babekufuna kwasekuqaleni.