UMary Allen
Intle kakhulu – kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ibuhlungu: Iikati ezininzi zibonisa uthando lwazo ngokuhambisa amanqina azo kuwe, umqamelo, ingubo, okanye iikati ezingoogxa bazo ngokungathi zixova intlama. Ngaba nekati yakho iyaxova? Nasi isizathu sokuba esenza.
Isizathu sokuqala sokuba ikati yakho ikuxoze okanye ezinye izinto ezithambileyo zicacile: Ikati iziva ilungile. Kwaye xa ikati yakho ikusebenzela kubo bonke abantu ngamathupha ayo athambileyo, ibonakalisa ubudlelwane bakho obusondeleyo.
Kaloku amantshontsho ekati axovula oomama bawo xa bencanciswa. Ugqirha wezilwanyana uGqr. Rachel Barrack uthi: "Iikati ezininzi zithwala le ndlela yokukhula kwaye zixova abanini bazo, abazalwana babo abanoboya, okanye ibhedi yabo," ucacisa ugqirha wezilwanyana uGqr Rachel Barrack ngaphesheya kwe "Dodo".
Isizathu sokuba amantshontsho ekati axoze oomama bawo xa esela: Azama ukuzifumanela ubisi oluninzi ngokuphulula imibele. Njengamakati akhule ngokupheleleyo, akusafuneki ukuba axove ukuze afumane ukutya - nathi siyabenzela loo nto.
Kodwa ukuxova kunenjongo eyahlukileyo: Kuthomalalisa iikati kakhulu. UGqr ngokukaBarrack, oku kunokubabeka "kwimeko efana ne-trance". Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba imkhumbuza ngexesha elikhuselweyo kunye nomama wakhe wekati.
Xa encanca, amantshontsho ekati amaninzi akafuni kukuvuyela ukutya nokusondelelana nonina. Ke ngoko, nanjengeekati ezikhulileyo, uninzi lusaxubha xa lukhululekile. Ikati yakho inokude iguqe kwaye iguqe ngaxeshanye.
Ezinye izizathu ezinokwenzeka zokuxova
Ukongeza kwingcamango yokuba iikati ziyaxova, ngenxa yokuba zikhululekile, zikho ezinye iingcaciso ezinokuthi zenziwe ngale ndlela yokuziphatha: Abanye barhanela ukuba ukuxova kwakusetyenziselwa endle ukuze kucandwe umhlaba ongaphantsi komhlaba ukuze iikati zasendle zilale kamnandi apho.
Ukongezelela, kukho amadlala emathupheni akhupha ivumba elithile. Le yindlela iikati eziphawula ngayo ummandla wazo. Ke ukuba ikati yakho ikuxova kakhulu, inokufuna ukuyenza icace: Lo mntu ngowam. Umqondiso ocacileyo wothando lwabo!
Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, ikati yakho iguqa kuwe: Kunokwenzeka ukuba luphawu oluhle lothando. Ngoko unokuyithatha njengento yokuncoma ngesazela esicocekileyo - kwaye mhlawumbi ngokubuyisela i-pamper kitty yakho nge-caress.