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Ngamanye amaxesha akulula kangako ukuqeqesha inja ukuzola.
Xa kuziwa kumantshontsho, umntu uhlala ezibuza ukuba ingaba oku kuyasebenza na?
Ewe! Unokuyithomalalisa injana kwaye ufundise inja endala ukuba iphumle.
Ukuba uyazibuza:
Indlela yokufumana inja ekhululekile
Ngaba silunxibelelwano olugqibeleleyo kuwe?
Senze isikhokelo sesinyathelo-nge-nyathelo esiya kukuthatha kunye nenja yakho ngesandla kunye ne-paw.
Ngamafutshane: yizisa inja ukuba iphumle - yile ndlela isebenza ngayo
Izinja aziqondi umgaqo wokungenzi nto kwaye ziphumle. Ekuphela kwento esinokubafundisa yona kukulinda.
Kodwa oko kufuna ukuzibamba okukhulu kwaye eneneni ayinanto yakwenza nokuphumla okoqobo.
Unokwenza ukuba inja yakho yenze "Hlala."
Emva koko unika umyalelo "ukuthula".
Ukuba uhlala ezolile kwaye eshukuma nje kancinci okanye hayi kwaphela, uyamvuza.
Yenza inja yakho ilinde rhoqo emva kwexesha kwaye uyivuze ukuba ihlala izolile.
Fundisa inja yakho ukuzola - kusafuneka uyigcine engqondweni loo nto
Njengoko kukhankanyiwe, inja yakho ayiyi kufunda "ukuphumla."
Ukuphumla kuqala kuphela xa inja yakho ikufuna ngokwenene.
Akukho mvuzo waneleyo
Ukuzilawula kunzima kwizinja ukukuphumeza.
Naluphi na umzamo, nokuba umncinci kangakanani, ukubamba amandla kwaye uhlale uzolile kufuneka uvuzwe ngokufanelekileyo nguwe.
Inja yakho ayilufumani uxolo?
Ukuba inja yakho ayifumani uxolo, kunokubakho izizathu ezininzi. Ndikudwelise ezi-3 zazo:
- Inja yakho ayiziva ikhuselekile.
- Inja yakho ayixakekanga.
- Inja yakho ikhuthazwa nguwe.
- Ungakwenza oku ukuba kukho nawaphi na kula manqaku angasentla asebenzayo:
1. Nika inja ukhuseleko
Kwimeko yokuqala, kufuneka uzilolonge kwindawo ezolileyo kakhulu. Qalisa ukwenza umthambo ekhaya. Kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba inja yakho ikhululeke. Ukufundisa nje injana ukuzola phantse akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kwendawo eqhelekileyo.
2. Nika inja yakho umthambo
Ngaba inja yakho ihlala ifuna isenzo? Ayinguye wonke umntu onethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo lokwamkela ithenda yebhedi ebekwe umva.
Mhlawumbi inja yakho ayixakekanga ngokwaneleyo...
Inja yam yokuqala yayiyimfumba yamandla - yaphumla kuphela emva kweeyure ezimbalwa zokubaleka ngokupheleleyo.
Qinisekisa ukuba inja yakho inethuba lokukhulula nayiphi na i-pent-up amandla kunye nokukhungatheka.
Umsebenzi wengqondo ofunwa yinja yakho kunye nomsebenzi womzimba akufanele ujongelwe phantsi. Gcina inja yakho ixakeke ngezinto ezihlekisayo zobuchopho, ezinje ngemidlalo yokukhangela, umsebenzi wempumlo, okanye izinto zokudlala zobukrelekrele.
3. Dlala kakuhle nenja
Ukuba inja yakho ihlala iqhutywa nguwe okanye abanye abantu, ayinakukwazi ukuzola ngokufanelekileyo.
Kubalulekile ke ngoko ukwazisa amaxesha okudlala apho uthatha ixesha lokonwaba ngokwenene nomhlobo wakho onemilenze emine. Qaphela ukuba ungayifaki inja ngokukrakra kakhulu kwaye uyeke umdlalo ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba inja yakho ihlasele kakhulu.
Kungcono ukwazisa izigaba zomdlalo ngomqondiso wegama kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ube kwimeko yokudlala ngokwakho.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kusebenza kakuhle ukuba ungadlali nenja endlwini.
Ngale ndlela, inja yakho ifumana indawo yokuhlala njengendawo ezolileyo apho inokuphumla khona. Kunoko, dlala naye egadini okanye ekuhambeni.
Ingaba iza kuthatha ixesha elingakanani…
… ide inja yakho ikwazi ukulinda izolile.
Ekubeni inja nganye ifunda ngezinga elahlukileyo, umbuzo wokuba kuthatha ixesha elingakanani unokuphendulwa nje ngokungacacanga.
Ukuba uyathandabuza, lindela ukudinga iiseshoni zoqeqesho ezilungileyo ezili-15 zemizuzu eli-10 ukuya kweli-15 inye.
Imiyalelo ngamanyathelo: Fundisa inja ukuzola
Ngaphambi kokuba siqale, kufuneka wazi ukuba zeziphi izixhobo onokuzisebenzisa kwimiyalelo yesinyathelo-nge-nyathelo.
Izitya ezifunekayo
Ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna iziphambeko.
Nantoni na eyenza ubuhlobo nenja yakho kwaye ithathwa njengomvuzo ingasetyenziswa.
Imiyalelo
- Uvumela inja yakho ukuba "ihlale".
- Emva koko umnike umyalelo othi "Thula".
- Nje ukuba inja yakho ilinde ngokuzolileyo imizuzwana embalwa, yivuze.
- Kulungile ukuba inja yakho ibonisa umthambo othile. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, thatha indawo yokuhlala eyahlukileyo. Mvuze kunjalo, ukuba nje akashukumi.
kubalulekile:
Yenza ucace umahluko phakathi kokuhlala nokuphumla. Xa uphumle, inja yakho inokubonisa intshukumo encinci. Ngo Musa ukuhlala.
isiphelo
Ngelixa ungayiqeqesha inja yakho ukuba izole, siyakukhuthaza ukuba wenze ubomi bukhululeke ngokwaneleyo ukuze baphumle ngokwabo.
Qinisekisa ukuba uhlala kwiflethi ethuleyo, yenza umthambo kakhulu, kwaye ugcine intloko epholileyo ngokwakho.