UMary Allen
Uphononongo lwakutsha nje oluvela eSweden lubonisa ukuba abanini beekati balala kakubi kunabanikazi bezinja okanye abantu abangenazo izilwanyana zasekhaya. Abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba iikiti zethu zinempembelelo embi malunga nokuba balala ixesha elingakanani, ngakumbi.
Nabani na ohlala neekati okanye owabelana ngebhedi kunye nazo uyazi: Iikiti zinokonakalisa ubuthongo bakho. Ibhola yoboya ixhuma entloko ezinzulwini zobusuku. Okanye iinzipho zekati zikrwempa ucango lwegumbi lokulala oluvaliweyo kwangentseni, lukhatshwa sisithukuthezi esisingcikivo – eli lixesha lokuba ihlosi lasekhaya lityiswe.
Ukusuka kwimbono ecacileyo, abanini beekati abaninzi mhlawumbi sele besazi ukuba banokulala ngcono ngaphandle kwekati yabo. Kodwa ngoku kukho idatha esemthethweni ecetyisa oku: Uphononongo olupapashwe ekuqaleni kuka-Epreli lubuze malunga ne-3,800 ukuya kwi-4,500 yabantu malunga nokulala kwabo. Abanini beekati nezinja kwakunye nabantu abangenazo izilwanyana zasekhaya kufuneka bahlole ubude bexesha lokulala kwabo, umgangatho wokulala kwabo, kunye neengxaki ezinokwenzeka zokulala, kwakunye nokuba bavuka baphumle kusini na.
Abanini Bekati Basenokwenzeka Kakhulu Ukuba Balale Kancinci Kakhulu
Isiphumo: iimpendulo ezivela kubanini bezinja kunye nabantu abangenazo izilwanyana zasekhaya azizange zohluke. Abanini beekati baye benza, nangona kunjalo: kusenokwenzeka ukuba bangafikeleli ukulala kwabantu abadala okucetyiswayo kweeyure ezisixhenxe ngobusuku.
Oku kukhokelela kwisigqibo sokuba iikiti zisivalela ngokoqobo ubuthongo. Akumangalisi: Izazinzulu zikrokrela ukuba le nto inokunxulumana nokuziphatha kwangorhatya lwabahlobo abanemilenze emine. “Basebenza kakhulu ngorhatya naxa kusa. Ngoko ke, ukulala kwabanini babo kunokuphazamiseka ukuba balala ecaleni kweekati zabo. ”
Ababhali bolu hlolisiso bagqiba kwelokuba abo bafuna ukulala kakuhle bafanele batyekele ekuthandeni izinja kuneekati xa bekhetha isilwanyana sasekhaya: “Iziphumo zibonisa ukuba iindidi ezithile zezilwanyana zinempembelelo enkulu kubuthongo babaninizo kunezinye. Kodwa bakwagxininisa ukuba izilwanyana zasekhaya, ngokubanzi, zinokuba nemiphumo emihle ekulaleni kwethu, ngakumbi kukuphazamiseka kokuxhalaba okanye ukudandatheka, kunye nabantu abasentlungwini nabanesithukuthezi.
Ngokuzenzekelayo, abaphandi baye bakrokrela ukuba izinja zinokuba nefuthe elihle lokulala. Ngenxa yokuba, ngokutsho kwabo, izinja zikhuthaza umthambo, umzekelo ngokuhamba emoyeni omtsha. Oko kunokukhokelela ekubeni ulale ubuthongo obumnandi. Nangona kunjalo, le ngcinga ayizange iqinisekiswe ngexesha lovavanyo lwemibuzo.