UMary Allen
Ngaba ubomi bomntu buxabiseke ngaphezu kobenja okanye besinye isilwanyana? Lo ngumbuzo ocekethekileyo izazinzulu eziye zajongana nawo ngamakhulu abantwana kunye nabantu abadala. Isiphumo: abantwana babeka abantu kunye nezilwanyana kwinqanaba labantu abadala.
Ukuze bafumanise indlela abantwana nabantu abadala ababuxabisa ngayo ubomi babantu, izinja neehagu, abaphandi baye bachaza iingxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo ngokuziphatha. Kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, abathathi-nxaxheba babuzwa, umzekelo, ukuba bangathanda ukusindisa ubomi bomntu omnye okanye izilwanyana ezininzi.
Iziphumo zophononongo: Abantwana banotyekelo olubuthathaka lokubeka abantu ngaphezu kwezilwanyana. Ngokomzekelo, ejongene nokukhetha: ukusindisa umntu okanye izinja ezininzi, ziya kukhawuleza kwizilwanyana. Kubantwana abaninzi ekwenziwa uhlolisiso kubo, abaneminyaka emihlanu ukuya kwesithoba ubudala, ubomi benja babunexabiso elilingana nobomntu.
Ngokomzekelo: Xa kufikelelwa kumba wokuhlangula izinja ezili-100 okanye umntu omnye, abantwana abangama-71 ekhulwini bakhetha izilwanyana baze abangama-61 ekhulwini bakhethe abantu.
Nangona kunjalo, abantwana nabo benza izidanga zeentlobo ezahlukeneyo zezilwanyana: babeka iihagu phantsi kwezinja. Xa bebuzwa ngabantu okanye iihagu, li-18 ekhulwini kuphela elinokukhetha izilwanyana, xa kuthelekiswa nama-28 ekhulwini ezinja. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabantwana abaphononongiweyo banokukhetha ukugcina iihagu ezilishumi kunomntu omnye - ngokuchasene nabantu abadala.
Imfundo yeNtlalo
Umqukumbelo wezazinzulu zaseYale, eHarvard, naseOxford: “Inkolelo esasazeke ngokubanzi yokuba abantu babaluleke ngaphezu kwezilwanyana ngokokuziphatha, ibonakala iqalwa emva kwexesha yaye, mhlawumbi, ifundekela ekuhlaleni.”
Izizathu zabathathi-nxaxheba zokukhetha abantu okanye izilwanyana nazo zahlukene ngokwamaqela obudala. Abantwana babedla ngokukhetha izinja ukuba babenonxibelelwano oluninzi nezilwanyana. Noko ke, kwimeko yabantu abadala, isigwebo sasixhomekeke kwindlela ababecinga ukuba zikrelekrele ngayo izilwanyana.
Iziphumo zikwavumela ukuba kufikelelwe kwisigqibo malunga nombono wokuzikhukhumalisa, oko kukuthi, utyekelo lokujonga ezinye iintlobo njengento ephantsi okanye ephantsi. Ngokucacileyo, xa befikisa, abantwana bebeya kuyamkela ngokuthe ngcembe le ngcamango baze bafikelele kwisigqibo sokuba abantu baziphethe kakuhle kunezinye izilwanyana.