UMary Allen
Iifilimu ezininzi zothando ezifanelekileyo ngqina ukuba izinja zingabona bamatshisi abagqwesileyo. Kodwa ngaba eli lizwi libambele kwi-intanethi ukuthandana? Uphononongo olwenziwe yiYunivesithi yeVeterinary Medicine eVienna luvavanye ukuba zeziphi izilwanyana ezibonakala rhoqo kwimifanekiso yeprofayile. Kwaye into enye inokuthiwa ngokukhawuleza: iintandokazi zinemilenze emine!
Ayiyomfihlo into yokuba izilwanyana zasekhaya zinokwenza iimatshisi ezinkulu. Banika abantu abangabaziyo isizathu esilungileyo sesihloko esimnandi sencoko. Ngaphambi komhla wokuqala wokwenyani, abanini bezinja banokucebisa ngokumsulwa umhla kwipaki yezinja. Kwakhona, abantu abanezilwanyana ezifuywayo bangqina ukuba banako ukuthabatha uxanduva yaye mhlawumbi banobuchule bokunyamekela abanye. Ngamafutshane: izilwanyana zasekhaya zinokuthathwa njengophawu lokuba uyahambelana kakuhle. Oku kwaboniswa luhlolisiso lwesiFrentshi: Amadoda awayekhatshwa yinja ayekwazi ukufumana iinombolo zefowuni ezininzi kumabhinqa kunamadoda angenasilwanyana sasekhaya. Kwaye njengoko iYunivesithi yeVeterinary Medicine eVienna ingqina, le meko iyaqhubeka nokuthandana kwi-intanethi.
Izilwanyana zilawula iTinder
Iqela lezenzululwazi elikhokelwa UChristian Dürnberger kunye noSvenja Springer abavela kwi I-Messerli Research Institute ihlolwe Iiprofayili ze-2400 zeTinder eVienna naseTokyo. Bafumanise ukuba iipesenti ezili-16 zabo bonke abasebenzisi babonise izilwanyana kwimifanekiso yeprofayile yabo. Kuzo zombini ezi zixeko, izinja zazithandwa ngokucacileyo phakathi kwaba banini-zilwanyana zasekhaya kuma-45 ekhulwini. Iikati (ama-25 ekhulwini), izilwanyana zasemzini (malunga ne-10 ekhulwini), imfuyo (malunga nesi-6 ekhulwini) namahashe (malunga nesi-5 ekhulwini) zazilandela ngokusondeleyo. "Idatha yethu, ke, ibonisa ukuba izinja zilawula ihlabathi kwi-intanethi yemifanekiso yezilwanyana," utsho uDürnberger. "Oku kusebenza ngakumbi eVienna kunaseTokyo." Abasetyhini kunye / okanye abasebenzisi abadala abavela eVienna ngokukodwa babethanda ukuba abahlobo babo abanoboya bafotwe. "Siphetha ukuba ngaphezu kwazo zonke ezo zilwanyana ziboniswa kwiprofayili yokuthandana apho abasebenzisi banxibelelana ngokusondeleyo kwaye rhoqo," kuchaza uSpringer.
Selfie ngesilwanyana ngesizathu esilungileyo
Kodwa kutheni abantu abaninzi kangaka bafuna ukuzazisa kunye nezilwanyana zabo for online ukuthandana ? Ngenxa yale njongo, abaphandi bahlula phakathi kweendidi ezimbini zemifanekiso: Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isilwanyana kufuneka sisekwe njengomhlobo osondeleyo kunye nelungu lentsapho - ngokwe-motto "Siza kuphela ngababini!". Ngapha koko, abanini bezinja abafuni iqabane elingavisisaniyo nesilwanyana sasekhaya konke konke. Kwelinye icala, izilwanyana kufuneka kwakhona zikrwelele iimpawu zabaninizo. Ngekati ezingalweni zabo okanye nenja ngelixa besukuma bebheqa, abantu bafuna ukuzibonakalisa njengentlalontle okanye esebenzayo. Ingaba imifanekiso enjalo inokuphinda ifezekise umphumo othenjisiweyo kufuneka iqale iphandwe kwisifundo esilandelayo. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kuba nzima kakhulu.