UMary Allen
Izilwanyana ezininzi ziba noxinzelelo xa kufuneka ziye kugqirha wezilwanyana. Ewe, kuba akukho mntu uthanda ukuya kugqirha, kwaye kunzima ukuba sichaze abahlobo bethu abanemilenze emine ukuba akukho nto imbi iya kwenzeka. Xa uthe wehlelwa zizinto ezimbi, kunzima ukulibala. Sineengcebiso malunga nokuba ungenza njani ukuze abahlobo bakho abanemilenze emine balungele ukutyelela ugqirha wezilwanyana kwasekuqaleni kunye nento omawuyenze ukuba isilwanyana sakho sinamava amabi.
Iingcebiso kubanini bezinja
Ukuba uzise injana ekhaya, ugonyo lokuqala aluthathi xesha lide. Zama ukwenza idinga lokujonga ugonyo lwaphambi kokugonywa. Ugqirha wezilwanyana akufuneki enze nantoni na engalunganga ngale nto. Unokuyihlola injana aze ayivuze ngokuyiphatha kakuhle. Ngale ndlela, injana yakho iya kuba namava amnandi kwasekuqaleni.
Ukuba uzisa inja endala endlwini, unokwenza okufanayo kunye nenjana. Okokuqala, yenza idinga apho ugqirha wezilwanyana ujonge nje kwaye udibane nenja. Thatha izinto ozithandayo, itshizi, okanye isoseji kunye nawe kwaye uzame ukudibanisa amava amnandi kunye notyelelo.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukutshintsha i-vet kunceda. Ukuba inja yakho sele idlule kwizinto ezininzi nogqirha wezilwanyana kwaye yoyika kakhulu kwaye ixinene ngokukhawuleza xa isiya kwicala lokuziqhelanisa, kufuneka ucinge ngokutshintsha ugqirha wezilwanyana. Kwinkqubo entsha yonyango lwezilwanyana, ungazama ukuqala phantsi.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba uhlale uzolile ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukuba unexhala kwaye unexhala ngokwakho, inja yakho iya kuyibona kwaye umoya ongaphumli uya kudlulela kuye. Oku kuyenza nzima yonke le meko. Ukuba awukwazi ukuzola, cinga ukushiya igumbi lonyango. Oku kunceda ezinye izinja kwaye unyango lukhululekile ngakumbi kumacala omabini.
Iingcebiso kubanini beekati
Uninzi lweekati zisiwa kugqirha wezilwanyana ngebhasikithi yezothutho. Ukutyelela okunjalo kuxinzelelo kakhulu kwiikati ezininzi kunye nabanini bazo. Ngokukhawuleza xa iikati zibona i-crate yokuthutha, ziyabaleka okanye zizimele. Kunzima kakhulu kwiingcibi ukufaka izilwanyana zabo kwibhokisi kwaphela.
Ukuba ungenise ikati yakho endlwini, zama ukuyiqeqesha kwibhokisi kwasekuqaleni. Ukuba oko kunengqiqo, kungcono ukuyibeka kwindlu yakho okanye kwikhaya lakho ukuze ikati yakho ikwazi ukuqhelana nayo. Yenza ibhokisi ibe yicozier encinci ngengubo yakho oyithandayo kunye nezinto eziphathwayo. Emva kokuba ziqhele, ezinye iikati ziyakuthanda ukulala kuyo kwaye zisebenzise ibhokisi njengendawo yokusabela.
Kungcono ukusoloko uthatha isatifikethi sokugonya ikati yakho usise kugqirha wezilwanyana. Yibeke ngaphandle nje kokuba uqhube, okanye uyifihle epokothweni okanye emotweni yakho. Ezinye iikati esele zikwisatifikethi sokugonya ziyaqaphela ukuba ziya kugqirha wezilwanyana kwaye zizimele. Ukuba unekati yesitalato, kufuneka ulumke ukuba ayiqapheli nto. Kaloku abantu abathanda ukuzimela ngaphandle bayakuthanda ukuzimela xa bebona ukuba kukho undonakele baze babuye emva kwexesha. Ukuba unalo ithuba, khumbula ukushiya ilungu lobudoda endlwini ngobusuku phambi kokuba uye kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze angakwazi ukuzimela ngaphandle.
Xa usiya kugqirha wezilwanyana kunye nekati yakho, qiniseka ukuba akukho zinja zininzi kufutshane nekheji yezothutho. Ingakumbi iikati ezingazaziyo izinja zinokucaphuka ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa amanqina evelvet ahlala nenja adla ngokungahlekisi xa impumlo yomnye umntu isezela ibhokisi yayo. Thatha ingubo kunye nawe kwaye uyibeke kwibhokisi ukukhusela ikati kwaye uzolile ebumnyameni. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kungcono ukuba namagumbi amabini okulinda ahlukeneyo - elinye leenja kunye nelinye leekati. Ngelishwa, zimbalwa kakhulu iikliniki zonyango lwezilwanyana ezixhotyiswe ngolu hlobo.
Iikati azinakunyotywa ngokutya/ukuphatha njengezinja. Xa uku-vet kunye ne-velvet paw yakho, hlala uzolile. Kuba ukuba unestress, ikati yakho nayo ixinezelekile. Ukuba ukhathazeke kakhulu, kungcono ukushiya igumbi. Ngokwenza oku, uya kuzenzela wena kunye nekati yakho ububele, kwaye unyango luya kuphela ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba uhlala kwigumbi lonyango, qiniseka ukuba ugcina izandla zakho kude nomlomo wekati kwaye ungavumeli ukuba ukhatywe. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, iikati zihlala zingazi ukuba ngubani umhlobo kwaye ngubani utshaba kwaye unokukrwela okanye ukuluma.
Ukuba ikati yakho inoxinzelelo olumangalisayo, ukukhala, ukuvuza, okanye ukuchama kwikhreyithi ngenxa yoxinzelelo kunye nemincili, cinga ngokundwendwela ekhaya. Oogqirha bezilwanyana abaninzi bayayinikezela le nto, kwaye ihlala iphantsi koxinzelelo kwikati nakuwe.